We live in an age of lust,lies,and lonliness.True love(many people will ague against its existence)is becoming an engima,better still as scarce as hen's teeth.Why is this so?I found out recently and i will share this with you.I was looking for my withdrawal booklet(needed to reactivate a dormant account)last week.I scattered my room looking for it,but i didnt find it.Guess what i found instead?My university Id card(without which i won't be able to collect my master degree certificate)This got me thinking.And i concluded that true love cant be searched for.ie like you are looking for a job.True love is something else.Many stories abound of how people go in search for goals(education,job etc)and found love on the way.So,true love is scarce because people 'search' for it instead of allowing it happen in its time.This is my new philosophy.Do you agree?

I believe it's like the lottery, you have to be in it to win it, and this is why people are on dating sites. If you are looking for love then joining dating sites helps, date more ladies in your search for true love, although you may have to kiss a few frogs you will find the right lady for you in time, just my opinion. Good luck in your search.

ok from now on....ill stop from searching.;);););)

Many people have been in dating sites for donkey years without finding True love.The fortunate ones only got 'friend invites',kicks and nudges.Nothing real

ya,you got the message right.

Stop looking for true love,let true love look for you

Stop looking for true love,let true love look for you

So what you're saying is that we are to stop looking for true love, yet you say "let true love LOOK for you". So if we took your advise NO ONE would be looking for true love; therefore, the logical conclusion is that NO ONE would ever find it, since we would have all stopped looking for it. Or, maybe you mean, we'll suddenly run into the right one for us while we are walking down the street or any other number of possibilities; but, the thought still persists, that even if this did happen, in the back of our minds we were still, somehow, in the search of finding true love. So in either situation, seems like mentally we are still LOOKING for it, though physically not in active search for it. Sometimes, this could be mind-boggling don't you think? JMHO

All the possible analogies and you choose to compare true love to an ID card? ...Couldn't you pick something a little more romantic? ...Like, I was looking for the big dipper when I saw the most magnificent shooting star....

it may be a new philosophy for you but it's old news to me. Yes, I agree, it's best to live your life and remain an active interesting person and open to love so when you do meet someone you will be ready.

Ah. So you're equating love with your messy room. Makes sense.

well we chose our conclusions on the experience and besides if we can find god if we search with a true and hsnt hrt so y cant we find a person to luv us for the life , so i still belive search otherwise u would jst be a person who nvr opened his hrt as to afraid to connect it , and as the saying goes nothg is found till searched for .

Yea,you made points.But you would most probably get it when you aint looking out for it."Looking" mounts pleasure in us & beclouds our sense of reasoning

I do think chances are better when you are not looking.

When searching one tends to attribute all the qualities
they want onto the subject themselves.

If you are not on the hunt, it is ever so much more obvious
when something is magnificent enough to catch your attention.

I have been waiting for years with no luck. That's what they all say, stop looking and it will happen. whelp it didn't happen. So back on a different site & the same old ****. Douche bag central. So what's next.

Mathew 7:7 ".....seek and you shall find...." The searching never stops bro so long as you dream of finding. Come to think of it bro you were actually searching before you found the ID.

No.I wasnt searching/looking for the ID when i found it.I thought the ID was lost and had already applied for new one before i saw it.True love finding is just like that incident i narrated.Look for additional degree,write more books,engage in noble courses,be dedicated in service and true love will look for you and not you looking for it

Things happen when you least expect it.. Searching sometimes would result to bypassing the things in front of you thus we have to be vigilant.