Hey, i was just wondering if any1else on here has the same prob as me! Every1 that is into me, who most have been lvly by the way, i just dont feel the same towards them after getting to know them for a while. I dont know if its me or what. Am i fussy, i didnt think i was..will i ever meet some1 i like as much as they like me? Feel like im the only 1 tbh&that i should just settle for some1 for the sake of it! Help! Advice needed x

Be patient give it time maybe if your not getting any response they are not interested in you? maybe you have to stop being so fussy and not judge? its only a thought.

I have a feminine touch if you're interested.

Thats the thing, i dont go asking any1 out, they always ask me..i just dont like them as much as they like me..think i'll wait instead of settling for some1 im not into that much..and im fussy bcoz i have 2 children to think about thx v.much

Hello dear!
God promised to me a husband, and that I will see him soon. He said, I shall forget evry man I have in mind, and keep my eyes open. Amen.

That's more then 4 years ago. My eyes are wide open, because my God never lies. I know it will happen - IN GOD'S TIME!

Dear, have trust in God. He says, It is not good for men to live alone! He speaks about men and women. Have trust in God and be patient.

While you are patiently (grrrrrrrrrrr!) waiting on your miracle, you can work on the miracle of another person. How? If you know a lonely friend who is always hiding himself behind his laptop, encourage him/her to go out, to make sports, or gym, or learn to make great photos ........ so that this person will find someone to love.

What do you think?
God bless you!

Too fussy, possibly, difficult to tell from a few sentences.
Thing is, if the click isn't there, there's nothing much you can do about it. And no, do NOT settle for less. Why should you? Wouldn't be fair to the other, nor to you.
Just enjoy life and at some point you'll meet the right guy

m waiting for a gud girlfriend .......me nd ma frnd coming to Bangalore at this Saturday...... if anyone interested to join wid me to njoy nd hav fun pls rply

Thank u 4that, was a lvly read. I know i should be patient but it is near impossible to find the time to go out on proper dates when im a single parent to 3&4yr old girls. The ones i do meet have got everything in life i want, i just dont feel a connection there at all. I shouldn't just date them bcoz they like me, right? Im not big on looks, its personality for me&if i feel i click with them. My girls dad i felt this with&was with him 6 years(until he developed a drinking problem). I havnt felt i click with any1 since(we split 2yrs ago)

Oh&winterkind, i don't know many ppl the same age as me who arent already settled in a relationship or are married..i will continue to see if i can find any1 tho, im always up for helping others..

Oh dear, I understand that you want to be with the right man. You put yourself in a trap, when you compair yourself with others. I have spend years with crying and praying. Dear, finding a man will not work. Bible says: Blessed is THE MAN who finds a good wife. He will find you. The day and the minute are already booked.
Pray for your coming husband. Maybe he is still in an unhealthy relationship, pray God may set him free. Honor your coming husband by keeping yourself away from "playing". I know you can do it. You are the sweet special lady for Mr. Special. I promise you, he is the one worth waiting for! Every thing gonna be alright! God bless you, dear. Herzliche Gr��e!

Maybe your're too picky and expectations too high..........

we should get together and experiment on this...

Oh, two timing on me already?

Perfect answer, thank you for saying that.... I will never lower my standards, nor should any woman looking. Be proud of who you are, never stoop or you will be very unhappy... been there, done that years ago. Age makes us wiser, listen to your heart

Based on previous replies, you do reckon that the day you think you're clicking with someone, he/she might not really be into you just like you're right now. Correct me if I'm wrong, relationships involve compromises and you can't just have it your way, I would truly suggest you to give whoever approaches you a chance, maybe he/she has some genuine feelings. Nevertheless, at the end of the day you do what you reckon is better for you and sorry if this in any way sounded crude.

just asking is cheating? i thought cheating was the act, not the question...

Thanks 4the response but i have no clue what ur on about! Sry. The issue isnt if the other person clicks with me, its the other way around. After ive gotten to know them 4 a while,i dont feel anything other than friendship 2wards them. The men are always the ones who are interested in me&who want to take things further. I dont, not with any1 ive met so far since being single! Ive liked them but didnt feel that spark u feel when u knw u could take things further with some1. So my question was really, should i c how things go with the ppl i just seem to 'like' or shall i be patient and wait until i feel a mutual match with some1. Im quite old fashioned in the sense i that i never ask a guy out, never. They ask me&i always give every 1 of them a chance. If i didnt, how the hell am i meant to find 'the one' thanks to all who replied but i think some of you have the wrong end of the stick, didnt mean to cause any confusion! im frm the uk so dunno if my writing style on here is different or what!

To quote 7 time presidential candidate Pat Paulson "Picky, Picky, Picky"

just give up and get a bunch of cats then... billions of guys out there, and can't find one to fit the bill? doesn't sound like the guys fault

i put alot of effort in these sites but no results... help