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Hey, i was just wondering if any1else on here has the same prob as me! Every1 that is into me, who most have been lvly by the way, i just dont feel the same towards them after getting to know them for a while. I dont know if its me or what. Am i fussy, i didnt think i was..will i ever meet some1 i like as much as they like me? Feel like im the only 1 tbh&that i should just settle for some1 for the sake of it! Help! Advice needed x we should get together and experiment on this... Oh, two timing on me already? just asking is cheating? i thought cheating was the act, not the question... |
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Hi .. but atleast you get some response I on the other hand feel like a blind begger hand is out but everyone just walks on by. Starting to question myself starting wonder if I will ever meet anyone again. Maybe the 20yrs. I had with my wife before she passed is all I'm going to get and alone is my future. God I hope not.
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Online dating can be much like playing charades with blind people. But as with most things in life, if you give up, your chance of success is nil.
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Y comment just to say something stupid? I wont give up thanks, its not in my nature :) ridiculous comments like these i'll just ignore but feel free to waste your time :) picky? Seems you don't know me from adam you have a very judgemental view.
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I'm not talking about online dating, just the normal dating thing where you meet up,get to know each other etc etc.. But u r right regardless, im not gonna just give up&settle for some1 i have no 'click' with.. Some of these other comments obviously havn't got a clue what their talking about,as they make no sense to me what so ever tbh! I'm just gonna keep going on dates&see if any1 is right 4 me, all i can do really. it isnt exactly fair to keep dating some1 i dont see a future with, even if they do with me. Keeping going might be an exciting time any how :) im only 25, sure there is some1 out there 4 me!
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I'm not talking about online dating, just the normal dating thing where you meet up,get to know each other etc etc.. But u r right regardless, im not gonna just give up&settle for some1 i have no 'click' with.. Some of these other comments obviously havn't got a clue what their talking about,as they make no sense to me what so ever tbh! I'm just gonna keep going on dates&see if any1 is right 4 me, all i can do really. it isnt exactly fair to keep dating some1 i dont see a future with, even if they do with me. Keeping going might be an exciting time any how :) im only 25, sure there is some1 out there 4 me! so what do you want? maybe try dating outside of the norm you usually do, sounds like your just in a rut... either that or your looking for a specific answer.. |
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Guess i am in a rut really..but i have decided now its right to just keep on dating until i get feelings 4 some1..stronger feelings than what i have been having :) i'd rather be on my own until that day comes i think :)
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Guess i am in a rut really..but i have decided now its right to just keep on dating until i get feelings 4 some1..stronger feelings than what i have been having :) i'd rather be on my own until that day comes i think :) i don't like to date, but for some reason i keep doing it... better than the alternative, i guess |
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i put alot of effort in these sites but no results... help it's the hat |
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Guess i am in a rut really..but i have decided now its right to just keep on dating until i get feelings 4 some1..stronger feelings than what i have been having :) i'd rather be on my own until that day comes i think :) i don't like to date, but for some reason i keep doing it... better than the alternative, i guess I gave it up. why do something that usually ends up making me miserable and takes a ton of time to prepare for...shower and clean up to be bored? no more. I am a free woman... |
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Guess i am in a rut really..but i have decided now its right to just keep on dating until i get feelings 4 some1..stronger feelings than what i have been having :) i'd rather be on my own until that day comes i think :) i don't like to date, but for some reason i keep doing it... better than the alternative, i guess I gave it up. why do something that usually ends up making me miserable and takes a ton of time to prepare for...shower and clean up to be bored? no more. I am a free woman... aww... to bad for the guys in ohio |
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Guess i am in a rut really..but i have decided now its right to just keep on dating until i get feelings 4 some1..stronger feelings than what i have been having :) i'd rather be on my own until that day comes i think :) i don't like to date, but for some reason i keep doing it... better than the alternative, i guess I gave it up. why do something that usually ends up making me miserable and takes a ton of time to prepare for...shower and clean up to be bored? no more. I am a free woman... Yep, me too. Gave up years ago. |
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I have the same problem,but mine is because I live in the middle of BFE!
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I wouldn't worry too much about it. And I surely wouldn't think anything bad about yourself. Just keep doing what your doing until that one person comes along that touches you in your heart. Don't look at other people that are already settled down or whatever. That's their story. You have your own ;) But in the mean time have fun and live your life with a smile :)
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Thanks 4the response but i have no clue what ur on about! Sry. The issue isnt if the other person clicks with me, its the other way around. After ive gotten to know them 4 a while,i dont feel anything other than friendship 2wards them. The men are always the ones who are interested in me&who want to take things further. I dont, not with any1 ive met so far since being single! Ive liked them but didnt feel that spark u feel when u knw u could take things further with some1. So my question was really, should i c how things go with the ppl i just seem to 'like' or shall i be patient and wait until i feel a mutual match with some1. Im quite old fashioned in the sense i that i never ask a guy out, never. They ask me&i always give every 1 of them a chance. If i didnt, how the hell am i meant to find 'the one' thanks to all who replied but i think some of you have the wrong end of the stick, didnt mean to cause any confusion! im frm the uk so dunno if my writing style on here is different or what! just give up and get a bunch of cats then... billions of guys out there, and can't find one to fit the bill? doesn't sound like the guys fault Something about 'old fashion spark' n 'True Lve'; quite rare these days, thanks to net voyeurism. Understand that Ms. Hillary Clinton's from Wales. Maybe the OP Owner is looking up places where the men have gone; maybe an invitation from a Texan. Definitely not a billion cats, or a million.., aah forget it. |
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I doubt your picky and dont settle for anything its your life .
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I don't know you or the men you have met but I did notice that your profile states that you are looking for an intimate encounter. You will only attractmen who just want sex. Try changing your profile to ask for dating or relationshipand you may get a different caliber of men responding to you. Change your profile to reflect what you really want and you might attract the type of man
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Guess i am in a rut really..but i have decided now its right to just keep on dating until i get feelings 4 some1..stronger feelings than what i have been having :) i'd rather be on my own until that day comes i think :) i don't like to date, but for some reason i keep doing it... better than the alternative, i guess I gave it up. why do something that usually ends up making me miserable and takes a ton of time to prepare for...shower and clean up to be bored? no more. I am a free woman... aww... to bad for the guys in ohio Have you meet the guys in Ohio? We have, it is scary. |
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Its not you, I seldom even get mail here and the two guys I have gone out with were way wrong
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Hello dear! God promised to me a husband, and that I will see him soon. He said, I shall forget evry man I have in mind, and keep my eyes open. Amen. That's more then 4 years ago. My eyes are wide open, because my God never lies. I know it will happen - IN GOD'S TIME! Dear, have trust in God. He says, It is not good for men to live alone! He speaks about men and women. Have trust in God and be patient. While you are patiently (grrrrrrrrrrr!) waiting on your miracle, you can work on the miracle of another person. How? If you know a lonely friend who is always hiding himself behind his laptop, encourage him/her to go out, to make sports, or gym, or learn to make great photos ........ so that this person will find someone to love. What do you think? God bless you! That's a very good advice. |
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