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Topic: y do we alwys wait until we loose sumone 2 realise hw much w
NnanaKinah Joined Mon 12/30/13 Posts: 27	Fri 01/03/14 03:07 PM
im reli confused

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45403	Fri 01/03/14 03:34 PM
The path to wisdom is rocky.

dcastelmissy Joined Thu 08/01/13 Posts: 39633	Fri 01/03/14 03:38 PM
Hind sight is 20/20! Sad but true!

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Fri 01/03/14 03:46 PM
I am also a little confused because the OP did not finish the first sentence. So possibly we can get more explanation. The assumption is that you are talking about losing someone you are close to? that really is not always for us to control....even if you don;t take them for granted, people make their choices. If it is a loved one, we hope those choices include us but we cannot dictate that. :)

larsson71 Joined Fri 09/20/13 Posts: 2204	Fri 01/03/14 03:53 PM
im reli confused Im confused as to what the full question is? As you only put half of it down?

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Fri 01/03/14 04:17 PM
I Think its easier to 'miss' what you don't have if you have it,, there is no reason to miss it,,, just saying,,lol but its also a good idea to learn to separate love from like, or loving a person from liking the things the person does or says its good habit to never leave those we love without letting them know we love them, even if we aren't 'liking' them at that point,,,

Cymonmiller Joined Fri 01/03/14 Posts: 1	Fri 01/03/14 04:26 PM
Well said msharmony. You r a decent lady.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Fri 01/03/14 04:27 PM
ty

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Fri 01/03/14 04:27 PM
I had to separate to realize how much I loved. Fortunately we are back as one.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Fri 01/03/14 04:28 PM
congratlations

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Fri 01/03/14 04:30 PM
Thanks

NnanaKinah Joined Mon 12/30/13 Posts: 27	Sat 01/04/14 12:31 AM
wel the ful question is"y d we alwys hve 2 loose sumone 2 realize how much we love them" u al mke gud points,bt wat if u realize it wen its too late?

larsson71 Joined Fri 09/20/13 Posts: 2204	Sat 01/04/14 12:43 AM
wel the ful question is"y d we alwys hve 2 loose sumone 2 realize how much we love them" u al mke gud points,bt wat if u realize it wen its too late? Well it's your own fault then, as you should've appreciated what you had at the time, instead of regretting it now what you lost. You had that chance with that person and blew it? Plain and simple!

FLIGHTPHOENIX Joined Sat 11/23/13 Posts: 1163	Sat 01/04/14 01:04 AM
wel the ful question is"y d we alwys hve 2 loose sumone 2 realize how much we love them" u al mke gud points,bt wat if u realize it wen its too late? Well it's your own fault then, as you should've appreciated what you had at the time, instead of regretting it now what you lost. You had that chance with that person and blew it? Plain and simple! wow have a heart (((larsson71))) he could of past away an you just slammed it in her face

larsson71 Joined Fri 09/20/13 Posts: 2204	Sat 01/04/14 01:48 AM
wel the ful question is"y d we alwys hve 2 loose sumone 2 realize how much we love them" u al mke gud points,bt wat if u realize it wen its too late? Well it's your own fault then, as you should've appreciated what you had at the time, instead of regretting it now what you lost. You had that chance with that person and blew it? Plain and simple! wow have a heart (((larsson71))) he could of past away an you just slammed it in her face I have a heart, i'm just being truthful though? Think it's a cycle she has to break, to be happy and if somebody doesn't say it to her straight, then that cycle may be repeated Flight?

FLIGHTPHOENIX Joined Sat 11/23/13 Posts: 1163	Sat 01/04/14 02:05 AM Edited by FLIGHTPHOENIX on Sat 01/04/14 02:07 AM
wel the ful question is"y d we alwys hve 2 loose sumone 2 realize how much we love them" u al mke gud points,bt wat if u realize it wen its too late? Well it's your own fault then, as you should've appreciated what you had at the time, instead of regretting it now what you lost. You had that chance with that person and blew it? Plain and simple! wow have a heart (((larsson71))) he could of past away an you just slammed it in her face I have a heart, i'm just being truthful though? Think it's a cycle she has to break, to be happy and if somebody doesn't say it to her straight, then that cycle may be repeated Flight? well,well do you now, it's seems like that this is her first cycle,so no breaking needed thr, most people learn from their first mistakes their are better ways to say things if you like been straight up the guts about things i'm open

FLIGHTPHOENIX Joined Sat 11/23/13 Posts: 1163	Sat 01/04/14 02:32 AM
wel the ful question is"y d we alwys hve 2 loose sumone 2 realize how much we love them" u al mke gud points,bt wat if u realize it wen its too late? Well it's your own fault then, as you should've appreciated what you had at the time, instead of regretting it now what you lost. You had that chance with that person and blew it? Plain and simple! wow have a heart (((larsson71))) he could of past away an you just slammed it in her face I have a heart, i'm just being truthful though? Think it's a cycle she has to break, to be happy and if somebody doesn't say it to her straight, then that cycle may be repeated Flight? well,well do you now, it's seems like that this is her first cycle,so no breaking needed thr, most people learn from their first mistakes their are better ways to say things if you like been straight up the guts about things i'm open yeah,i'm gonna send A Big hug to (((((larsson71))))) i got my foots in my Mouth haahaahaa like i said i'm straight up the guts i should of read your profile 1st My Bad...

sanjeev009 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 2115	Sat 01/04/14 03:06 AM
human nature

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76444	Sat 01/04/14 08:32 AM
Communication is a big factor if one can not communicate with the one they are with they will never realize why. This goes along with listening to what the other is saying if it don't sink in and no changes are made then at times the choice will be made by the one that has had enough to call it quits.... Many times when it goes that far there is no getting them back. If one is lucky enough to do so they are lucky and hopefully will not make the same mistakes. If not then it is time to move on learn from your mistakes and try not to repeat them in the future... But one must be able to find closer and move on....

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Mon 01/06/14 01:07 PM
I had to separate to realize how much I loved. Fortunately we are back as one. That is fantastic news. I am so happy for you.