Topic: Not getting messaged back or getting no friend requests
Phil09's photo
Fri 12/06/13 01:13 PM
Had mingel2 for nearly a week I have hinted interest with people but had no response, any reasons why?

lilott's photo
Fri 12/06/13 01:22 PM
Things take time.

teebee79's photo
Fri 12/06/13 01:29 PM

Had mingel2 for nearly a week I have hinted interest with people but had no response, any reasons why?

I've read your profile... Why would the young lady need to message you to know more? If I was a 21 yr old girl... that seems like a lot of work to meet a guy!

Why don't you tell her more.. also, Put more pics on your profile!
Show her what a handsome guy you are!

Good Luck! Welcome to Mingle

soufiehere's photo
Fri 12/06/13 01:44 PM

Had mingel2 for nearly a week I have hinted interest with people but had no response, any reasons why?

Dating sites are not menus.
Time, effort, patience, same as in real life.

Good luck :-)

Phil09's photo
Fri 12/06/13 01:57 PM
Thanks for your advice just made some changes to my profile lets hope for the best.

Prince_williams's photo
Fri 12/06/13 01:58 PM

Had mingel2 for nearly a week I have hinted interest with people but had no response, any reasons why?

no photo
Fri 12/06/13 02:18 PM
It took me longer than a week to get into grad school, have some patience, dude....laugh laugh

Good luck though.flowerforyou

Prince_williams's photo
Mon 12/09/13 12:32 AM
getting tired though, have not gotten any reply mhen.

no photo
Mon 12/09/13 02:49 AM
When you say "hints" do you mean nudges? If so stay away from those! Haha! Read the profiles and greet the ladies respectfully, comment or ask questions about what you read about them. Also dont be so eager to chat with them off of mingle. Just feels more secure chatting on here and its best for all until you get to know someone. Best wishes!

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 12/09/13 05:35 AM
Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Mon 12/09/13 05:37 AM
"Hinting"? What does that mean? Nudges? I don't really look at those, just delete them every once and a while.

I feel your profile is still somewhat stale. It feels as if you just summarized a few things and that's it. Has no feel or appeal to it. Try to personalize it, get some zest in it, and also what you're looking for in a partner.

The pictures: it's never really smart to post pictures with others in them. We can't tell which one is you. Plus, others might not be too happy to have their faces on a dating-site. I know I wouldn't be chuffed about that!
And at least one picture of your face without sunglasses and are smiling




It took me longer than a week to get into grad school, have some patience, dude....laugh laugh

Good luck though.flowerforyou

:laughing: :laughing:

Prince_williams's photo
Tue 12/10/13 03:12 AM
alright... have change the picture

no photo
Tue 12/10/13 05:08 AM

alright... have change the picture


I think Crystal was refering to Phil,the OP!?

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Tue 12/10/13 05:29 AM


alright... have change the picture


I think Crystal was refering to Phil,the OP!?

Yup.
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