Pony, we're not talking about seeing good looking guys while we're not in a relationship. We're talking about making flirtatious gestures or comments to someone while we are actually in a relationship. As you suggested, diet would intimate NOT allowing yourself access to the types of foods normally consumed. When I am in a relationship I do not "make comments" or flirt with other guys. My eyes are on my guy and my guy alone, and certainly I would not flirt with other guys in his presence, and I expect the same courtesy in return. I would not want to inflict such hurt on someone I say I care about, not now, not ever.

Just a little peace offering to you and other members if you thought i unjustly interfered in your post! But i agree with you about the committed relationship wheather you are married or not! Some take a commitment for granted(men and women) its like a target shoot seeing who can score the most! This era in life its more common to see with computers,cellphones and just the population in general. Not many takes "the vowels" seriously anymore because there is always a Replacement near. I've said this long ago that in todays sioecity the Vowels should be changed from "Until death do us part" to " Until the next one comes along" Commitments are like Dinosaurs they are only little ones now!
LIZARDS !One crawling to another !

It's okay GrayWolf. I agree also with you that "Vows" today mean very little to a lot of people. To me, it shows the commitment of the heart, as in whether it was even there in the first place. It's speaks of whether the relationship was based on "Integrity and Faithfulness" or whether it was based on "Deceit and a thought in the back of the mind toward Unfaithfulness." People are what is in their heart.

Sad,but True! Seems like everyone is used like a Scoreboard on the Headboard or Financial Support "both men and women"! Seems no one cares anymore about Hearts,Feelings or Love!! Just(WHO IS NEXT)???

Im not sure i even know how to flirt

"Scoreboard on the Headboard" it is interesting that you made this comment because I recently had a guy contact me who made such a statement in his profile.

You guessed it, I blocked him.

If we are in a relationship, flirting with someone else is disrespectful to our partner. If you are no longer interested in the relationship that you are in, then move on before getting another person involved.

The reason for flirtation, is usually to let someone know we are interested in them.

Yes that was what i have always believed "vowels & morals" I have always ended one before wanting to start another? But the(modern world) has different ideas,changing this for everyone! I've always had deep ties with my mate and wanted the best for both! Commitment goes deep and strong when its made by me and both need to put All into it ! If you are not ready and use selfsatisfaction why put another through you being selfcentered petiness??

Now she is alcohol induced and you have reason to fear for your life as well huh? Is this what it means to use any excuse to escape blame or are you really that tender and sensitive? I don't recall seeing abuse brought up once in this thread save by those who seem to think a little disrespect does not hurt anyone unless it is happening to them, unless you care to point out the post of the person who said "bodyslam followed by 360 degree piledriver" instead of "slap to the back of the head"? If someone is in a relationship with someone who talks with their fists in a given situation, that is a whole other type of discussion entirely.

A guy humiliates a girl he is with, then has an emotional break down when she slaps him on the back of the head for it and it is a-ok. He can't apologize for being an insensitive lout, he has to proclaim abuse and assault. So no, I did not miss anything, I got plenty of clarification, thanks.

totally agree someone who flirts indiscriminatly with everyone is just seeking undue attention, and if he's flirting in front of you he is rude.

I also intend to wait until he makes the first move to do any flirting. I am not that flirtatious naturally though

agreed and I prolly would

I believe flirting is a need that we all want fulfilled because it serves a basis to satisfy our ego. Think about how good it feels when someone flirts with you. I know it makes me feel good and it helps me feel more and more sexy. It helps boost my confidence and....well....it just feels good when someone notices you yes?

I also believe flirting can harm a relationship (a strong relationship or one that is on rocky ground). Flirting is more than likely the trigger that ignites a desire for people to have affairs. I have flirted with a married woman before and once I noticed that it was going too far, I backed off. I do not want to be the cause of a relationship ending.