This is all good and fine, if you're not in a relationship; however, if you are, this could be done with the intent of making a partner jealous as well, which is not good and will only hurt the other partner.

I believe that raggidybrat was male not female,"that account was deactivated" and was his or her opinion to give. Ridicule never solved anything!!

I would never flirt or eye F*k woman in front of her or
otherwise,if the relationship has ran its course, then
I may if she's been friendly with me and that would just make one feel more positive about themselve as you may be closing out an ugly relationship.
I had gfs in the past that said they didn't
have to worry because I'm 'mean' to woman (public
forplay)..lol I probably went through a stage where
I didn't have the time of day for them exept my own gf
but was always polite to waitress and tiped them?

I get a lot of flirtatious smiles in passing,as of late.
They are often very attractive 35-45 range and
I think most are probably have been married
for a while but mainly are looking for the reassurance
that men return the inviting smile,telling her
that she's looking good.

No greywolf, defo female! I don't believe im hitting woman, but if a woman hit me, I would tell her to f**k off! Nothing more though! I ain't a punchbag for anyone!

If I am with someone else, I would never flirt with anyone else, nor would I if I were in a relationship. None of us would like to be on the receiving end of that situation, despite how many enjoy doing it to others.



Making sure I understand this so feel free to correct me if I misunderstood something.

You are saying if you are being disrespectful to a woman you are with by flirting with another woman nearby and she pops you on the back of the head for it, she is in the wrong?

A Better man will walk away from this issue! BIG MAN is made every day, But remember that there's always a BIGGER MAN always waiting around the corner for you!! I've learned to walk away and cool down then see if i may solve the issues ,not escalate them! The only one that controls your actions is yourself,same goes for attitude!

Did I mention flirting? No didn't! I meant in general ! Had enough of that crap from my sons Mum. Who if things didn't go her way, would start throwing punches and kicks at me! I'm a big guy graywolf and did Boxing when I was younger, but I never retaliated. Her brother tried it though one day and I knocked him out! That was different as it was a guy and i'd retaliate then. Thats what I meant? We just got our wires crossed thats all !

Wires get crossed every day, Darn things give off sparks. As far as intimidation well I was Special Forces(Army) so that don't mean ---- to me. Old yes Dumb no! The way i figure my Father was born in Nov./8/1910 he taught me what a MAN IS SUPPOSED to be- The Military Defined and Honed his teachings, Age helped me utilize all i've been taught and will learn in the Future. And the day i think i know it ALL i will be too dead to teach it to others!

"Is she in the wrong" yes, that a criminal
assault, if thats not an attempt at a physical form
of control?

I don't understand your questioning format?
as to say "he" was wrong and an assult is justified?
One's immoral and one illegal.

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I think flirting is innocent if its discrete and occasional. I usually just keep my thoughts in my mind,, I'm not a very demonstrative person. However when a man is with a woman all attention should be on her it is so disrespectful to check out or flirt with others in her presence. I see men do this all the time, I think a woman should just get up and leave the guy there on the spot if he does it!


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I can go out somedays and have 2 or 3
woman smile at me that are with men.
Woman just aren't obvious,so that doesn't make
It disrespectful.Like the old saying "just because
I'm on a diet, doesn't mean I can't look at the menu.
Most mature people are open and can talk about some
hot guy or woman around there partner,not saying thats
cool to do in front of them.


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So Pony what are you saying is cool? It is either cool or it isn't. If I talk to my partner and voice my displeasure at it, but he disagrees and won't stop the behavior, that pretty much tells me he doesn't care one bit about my feelings. Is there any other way you can see this? It's just simply isn't cool to do it while you are in the presence of someone you say you care so much about. BTW, if I'm on a diet, I don't bother with a menu as you put it. JMHO

I think this was meant as playful. I remember my mom used to catch my dad ogling at another woman and she would just give him a good tap to bring him back to reality! They'd both laugh about it. Haha!

I think there's a fair difference between a smack and a tap? A big difference in fact! I guess they don't teach that though in Ky schools, eh?

What was there not to understand? It was pretty simple.

If you consider a small slap to the back of the head for being disrespectful assault I don't know what to tell you. I've been swatted for an untold number of things I've done for being bone headed in a given situation and I did not have a meltdown, I realized my mistake and apologized.

It is a degrading and insulting feeling for virtually anyone in such a situation and it always amazes me how those doing it always consider it no big deal until they are on the receiving end of it.

Personally a slap to the back of the head is getting off easy in my opinion considering there are quite a few that would slap you directly across the face, throw water or food in your lap and possibly even give you a kick to the family jewels for such a slight depending on the personality.

PARTIAL QUOTE:
I can go out somedays and have 2 or 3
woman smile at me that are with men.
Woman just aren't obvious,so that doesn't make
It disrespectful.Like the old saying "just because
I'm on a diet, doesn't mean I can't look at the menu.
Most mature people are open and can talk about some
hot guy or woman around there partner,not saying thats
cool to do in front of them.


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So Pony what are you saying is cool? It is either cool or it isn't. If I talk to my partner and voice my displeasure at it, but he disagrees and won't stop the behavior, that pretty much tells me he doesn't care one bit about my feelings. Is there any other way you can see this? It's just simply isn't cool to do it while you are in the presence of someone you say you care so much about. BTW, if I'm on a diet, I don't bother with a menu as you put it. JMHO


I said the weather was cool, but that was a
different thread I said its not cool
in her presence or otherwise to flirt or eye f*
her. (refer to first post, top page 2)
I agree with what your said 100% if its
bothersome to one & is addressed and dismised.
I have also been in relationships with woman that
would shake it for a bar full of men
and we would say whats on our minds
about someones looks and that worked
good as it was honest and thats the
way it was when we meet so why have
jealousy, she went home with me.
When it starts to happen in the middle of
things, thats when the insecurities & hurt
start.

As far as "Just because Im on a diet, doesn't
mean I can't look at the menue" or "I'm taken not dead"
Thats right, its perfectly nornal to admired
the opposite sex and fantasize, its healthy
behavior.I call BS Missy, if you haven't done
that in times of your life in a relationship
never watch the tv and could coment on a
handsome actor in front of each other?
looked at porn some time seen a man striper
sometime, any of the above, if you haven't
admired an attractive man when your were in
a relationship when I would have to guess
you are the only one in the West Hem. Mrs. R.

eh, psychologists studying mating behaviors of homo erectus...? well that's not new. In my expereince with psychologists , they should spend more time doin it and less time studying it.

Yes continiuing to flirt for extended periods will harm your current relationship. next question please ":)

Lol yeah man,Larsson and I are simply
talking about some slap
happy woman that talks with her hands when she loses her temper and usually alcohol induced.
Apples & oranges, two completely different
things. So we said if she shows that behavior
then she's just going to be some other mans
problem . Don't let her hang around until she
stabs you, because eventuly she will.
By the way Larsson did clarify that just
above your post with another poster unless
you missed it or possible was posting at the
same time?

She said erectus