that you are able(TRULY) to see all sides of the story and not just
yours?? I mean how many hats have you worn in your life.. how many shoes
have you walked in WILL

YOUR POINT BEING WHAT WILL?

I think i can see both sides of the story in most situations. There
are a few topics that i feel so strongly on it's hard for me to see the
otherside but in most cases i'm very good at seeing everyones point of
veiw.

WOW Lady... you are spicey...!

That it isn't easy being fair and balanced when you are angry... Mike
WAS WRONG.. But are you cangry rants making you look any better?? I is
none of my business realy so this may be the last I say...NO harm meant
WILL

no will i agree it's really hard to be far when your pissed off.

Mike... has been disrepectful...Period... he is aware of the
consequences of his actions, do not feel as if its unjust.

once again i never said he was being tredted unjustly.. Just that it is
hard for everyone especially lady to see the whole pic..WILL

upsssssssss

justbecause i speak my mind doesnt mean I'm pissed or blinded because
I'm pissed he didnt even get me pissed just telling him like it is for
real I dont hide behind a pm or e-mail as most do!!

Okay...!

We can't take side in issue's as individaul's? Then we start the war of
dividing? If people on here dave an issue one of THEM made the issue?
We will always have our on thought's and share our opinion? But what we
can't do (w/o consequence's)
is get personal? If you get personal you don't really care about your
time here or the people on line? That's how I see it?
PLEASE tell me if you feel im wrong, not just now, but anytime? Little
shit rolls off alot better while it still small. It's that bucket of
shit on your head that really gets messy? LOL.

I can't say I always do but I do try to look at the whole picture, and
take some of the things with a grain of salt.
I always go back and read and re-read what one says before I answer on
these post for each have there different reasons for what they do and I
do try to consider that. But.. we are all human and make mistakes I as
well have jumped before I should have.

I truly believe I can hear and weigh both side of a situation, but I am
not going to be involved in any "opinion shopping" here. Sorry...

yeah i dont bother with the posts that are he said she said its kinda
juvenille in my opinion .i was done with that stuff in my teens.the only
posts i give my two cents on are like topics of debate like example>what
is your fav albumn..the dirty laundry posts are just that. dirty laundry
i dont wanna smell my own dirty laundry let alone someone elses lol.

W e all love dirty laundry Just ask don henely ,,Humans love it it is
what this site thrives on..We can have posts about blowjob and sex and
all kinds of raunchy shitbut if some one has an argument you start
acting like it is wrong.. all smut id the same be it sex or slung mud
jesus.. get some perspective>>WILL

thats why there is a whole other group of posts marked sex and a topic
general discussion this is general discussion id like to be able to
discuss with adults without name calling and mud slinging like
juvenilles and i know everyone gets aggitated by politics but to start
calling someone else a name over a difference in belief is childish i
thought this was a site for mature adults were you could have a
conversation dabate without biting someones head off....not to mention
if you are trying to convert some ones point of veiw insulting them
never works.and its just common courtesy to be conciderate of the other
people reading the posts. now i know we all slip but some of us do try
because some people are offended by foul language so i try not to use it
but im not perfect and noone else is either

I don't think that's truly possible to understand both sides of the
story at all times. We all have our biases. Besides would you feel
comfortable if I kissed your ass just to avoid an argument?

WELL SAID GHOST. AND WHEN WE TALK ABOUT ALL KINDS OF SEX STUFF. WE ARE
NOT BASHING EACH OTHER IN ANY WAY???

The fist time I posted here was in the sex forum or something. It was
about anal sex and i thought it was discussing for a woman to do. I
thought forsure I was going to be flamed for that. But low and behold I
didn't. In fact it started a dissuasion maybe it was the way in which I
discussed it?