it's not as kissing recon. i do it all the time, i can see where you are
coming from and how you formed your opinion but it does not change my
opinion or how i feel about it.

I don't think enyone is trying to change your opinion. But to express
their own and be heard. Biaseness is a very powerful thing. It lets no
room for other possibilies. We all shear this in common. We just have
to recordnise that and go on.

that is what i'm sayin though. i can put my feelings aside to hear what
someone else is sayin. just because you are bias or feel strongly about
something doesn't mean that you don't have the ability to understand
where the other person is coming from.

Hope you all do not mind if I chime in at this point,but it was
not th open of our talks,that I asked,it was our third talk,and she did
not allow me to explain why I asked those kind of questions,just lied to
me that she had to go,I knew she was a
frigid person,only after the first question was asked,how else does one
find out these things if one does not ASK first.
like th man who went to EGYPT...he should have asked if there was to be
any action,and if not,just be her friend.th next thing that I knew,MY
name was bunched in with somebody that I do not know,nor do I go by that
name.
From my point of view,MY NAME was slandered by her,th very next time I
got to this site,I had been ATTACKED by her!
this is my side of it,we all saw her side.
but I am man enough that I apologized,and did,but have not heard one
word of constructive help on this matter...
how does one find out these things,if one does not ask?

i understand what you are sayin michael1313 but i wasn't here when it
happened and i don't waste my time readin that stuff. my comment right
here doesn't have anything to do with anything except for the first
post, not any implications it may have had if it had any. if someone had
a probelm with you and made it public i don't blame you for sayin
something but i don't get involved in this stuff so i ain't judgeing
either of you. the best advice i could give to someone in your situation
is to calmly and politely put your side of the story in if they make it
public. i know it is hard when you are being attacked and i wouldn't
blame a person who was being attacked for slingin some TRUTH back but
unfortunately this stuff goes on all the time man and it cannot be
avoided. there is often times a lack of communication or a
misunderstanding and before it can get straightened out people put up
their shields and start firing forgeting all about a resolution.