Say ...Hello.

I have no idea what you're talking about, teebee.

and she'll reply, "Oh, Porky! I thought you had the sports "package" in your lap!"

Always cracks me up!

*Tommy once again returns to the shadows*

White black green or purple (Purple girls are amazing) if you're with them just for their race then you're dating for the, as Msharmony said, for the novelty. Interracial dating isn't easy. When you go to family events it'll always be Aunt Ellen will say he's such a nice white boy. He dates a black girl but she very nice. get use to behind your back talk. Not that I'm against it in fact one of my most memorable moments was at a bar I met a girl who happen to be black, we talked laughed danced. when we held hands it was as if we were one. she gave me her number and it got washed so I never got to call her. 8yrs ago and I remember as if it were yesterday, there was no black or white just us. I want to feel that again you see my topic is "I want to hold your hand"

Kind of an "I rest my case" argument: did you see any white woman speak up? Even though it was suggested (if you interpret it that way, that is) that they are less strong?

He's a one-eyed, one-horned, flying, purple people eater!

the lack of ability to dominate me is prolly why I am single. I refused to be bossed around by some man....even if he is cute..so there


and I am as white as the pure driven snow (but prolly not as pure lol)

you've met the dept head at my job!!....lol (kidding)

Hmmm, that's weird, I know more than a few white women who don't take **** from any guy and I know a few black women who let men walk all over them. I guess that's the thing with stereotypes, they're not always true.

And to answer the OPs question, I've never had any problem getting white guys to notice me, so I don't know what to tell you.

I believe the whole place is full of them! They hide it well.

agreed stereotypical bs .

Ask him out? If that fails boot him in the baws? I'm a guy and i'd certainly notice someone if they did that to me!!

not many women would do that lol ,still believe it's the men who should ask them out - guess it bring off a " I am desperate vibe "smh how time have changed lol

To ensure he will "notice" you, slap him. If you want more "make him an offer he can't refuse."

I've found talking about activities I enjoy doing or somewhere I want to go but not being able to/have someone to go with to be a good way of giving the guy an opportunity to ask me to spend time with them without having to do the asking. If they don't ask, I know they're not interested and I don't have to suffer through rejection. Win-win. XD

Thats pretty smart. Only problem is most guys are to daft to pick up on such subtleties. Not all guys tho some of us who did get it might make you blush with the things they say to let you know they are interested tho I'm sure.

Thanks :D I've found it to be quite effective in the right situations. It tends to be something I do with both guys I'm interested in and guys I'm friends with so I know that, for the most part, it does work. The hardest part is setting an actual day as, if the conversation passes with a "yeah, let's do that sometime" and nothing cemented, you then have to attempt to go over the same ground or you're left wondering if they were just being polite but actually don't want to.