Topic: Is what you say you want, really how you feel?
jodago's photo
Thu 11/28/13 05:19 AM
Many people say they want someone nice but then they often fall in love
with someone completely different.
True? or False?

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Thu 11/28/13 05:21 AM

Many people say they want someone nice but then they often fall in love
with someone completely different.
True? or False?


False...What people consider nice is subjective....

yellowrose10's photo
Thu 11/28/13 05:23 AM
^^^ this
I say what I mean amd mean what I say. Some people might appear to be nice at first then true colors come out. Some are jerks at first and turn out to be very nice

halcyonmind's photo
Thu 11/28/13 05:33 AM
I have two sisters who've done exactly that: Say they want someone nice, but then get with jerks, users, etc. My one sister just got out of a bad relationship. The guy kept on stealing her money to blow at the casino. But thankfully he's gone now.

sybariticguy's photo
Thu 11/28/13 05:46 AM


Many people say they want someone nice but then they often fall in love
with someone completely different.
True? or False?


False...What people consider nice is subjective....
FALSE We dont choose whom to fall in love with,,

sybariticguy's photo
Thu 11/28/13 05:47 AM


Many people say they want someone nice but then they often fall in love
with someone completely different.
True? or False?


False...What people consider nice is subjective....
FALSE We dont choose whom to fall in love with,,

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Thu 11/28/13 06:34 AM



Many people say they want someone nice but then they often fall in love
with someone completely different.
True? or False?


False...What people consider nice is subjective....
FALSE We dont choose whom to fall in love with,,


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cha7385's photo
Thu 11/28/13 06:37 AM

Many people say they want someone nice but then they often fall in love
with someone completely different.
True? or False?


True... its because we tend to be idealistic. But in reality we cannot choose who we fall in love with. We are just merely fascinated with idea of who we want to be with.

lionsbrew's photo
Thu 11/28/13 06:40 AM
Edited by lionsbrew on Thu 11/28/13 06:40 AM
No but we do choose to stay with that person even after we find out they aren't so good for us. Which really isn't good because staying with them becomes an enabler for them to continue to treat us badly.

cha7385's photo
Thu 11/28/13 06:51 AM
sometimes or say mostly when in a relationship, when your partner treats you bad we seem to be hopeful that someday that person would change/or that you can make that person change, that's why we choose to stay.

amyuza's photo
Thu 11/28/13 06:47 PM
You first have to believe in love to fall on love and yes we so chose those we spend the rest of our lives with and when those you were with for a longperiod of time and totally rip your heart out and tear families apart then tthose people are ****. So this time I will choose more wisely and it will take more than a cheesy come on line

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 11/28/13 06:50 PM
Or they just didn't want you...That's always another option.

ridewytepony's photo
Thu 11/28/13 07:19 PM

Many people say they want someone nice but then they often fall in love
with someone completely different.
True? or False?


true...we play with fire! Your intention
may be to go after a sexual outgoing woman
that reeks of trouble. I may know better,
Not wanting to ever except her as a gf but
you play with fire one to many times and
you will get burned.

Bang! Your lust is now tainted love.

There's the woman you want to _ _ _ _ and then
there's the one's you think would be a better
deal in the long run.

no photo
Thu 11/28/13 07:47 PM
no I don;t really have a problem with that...but I hate relationship drama

jodago's photo
Fri 11/29/13 04:01 AM
Many people try to change there partner to be the kind of person they want but that doesn't really work. major change has to be something thing they themselves really want and even then it's hard.
But of course if someone truly loves someone enough and they are a good person it can happen.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Fri 11/29/13 04:37 AM
True, what we really want may not be what we need at this moment in time

no photo
Fri 11/29/13 05:12 AM


Many people say they want someone nice but then they often fall in love
with someone completely different.
True? or False?


true...we play with fire! Your intention
may be to go after a sexual outgoing woman
that reeks of trouble. I may know better,
Not wanting to ever except her as a gf but
you play with fire one to many times and
you will get burned.

Bang! Your lust is now tainted love.

There's the woman you want to _ _ _ _ and then
there's the one's you think would be a better
deal in the long run.


I agree with this, but it's something you will probably outgrownlaugh laugh