I can't figure it out myself. lol Maybe someone else can shed a light on the subject.

luvmeforlife, perhaps you are single because you live too far away from me.

haha! I also meant why is everyone else single.

Because I refuse to 'settle'. By that I mean that I think everyone deserves to be loved, to love and to feel loved, to feel respected, to feel secure in the relationship they're in, to be happy with the person they're with... if you're not getting that from the person you're with, then it's not something I would settle for. That's why I'm single.

I'm single cos my ex was a pain in the arse and a bunnyboiler? She had to go, simple as!

The simple answer to your question is that I'm single because I've had a series of relationships that didn't work out. I think that I'm getting better at relationships now though and it's not my fault that at least the last two didn't work out.

Was discussing my love life on this forum last year and said that I wasn't going to do anymore casual relationships because even if you do sort of have to start off that way, if that's all that they say that they're looking for that's all you're going to get from them. Then I met someone that said that she did want to find "Mr Right" and settle down but she messed me about as well and was really not ready for anything serious.

Basically, I can't find the combo that I'm looking for, which is a woman that wants "fun" but also wants to get serious. No point in telling me that I'm going for the wrong women because even my ex says that I sure know how to pick them and I tell her that it's not like that and that they pick me.

ditto

Good question !

Because I like it.

Because there is a lot of damaged goods out there lol. Also 90% of women are after 5% of the guys.

Because there is a lot of damaged goods out there lol. Also 90% of women are after 5% of the guys.

For me it's trust issues like the previous person said damaged goods sad but true I don't let anyone in but that's ok I have my kids and grand kids. And it wasn't because of cheating way more deeper then that

Because it is just gets old having to listen to the same old stuff about how I can help some guy chase after his dreams by uprooting my life and being cookie "cutter-ed" into what he wants. I do not see spending my retirement being a nanny, purse, or nurse.

I'm single cause I'm not where I want to be in my life at the moment.

I'm single because I'm looking for someone who's in the same place in life that I am.

Replying from my phone so ill keep it short, all the comments are sad but true. ive lived both sides and finding mututal loyalty and reciprication is rare and besides the obvious of being in a world of deception, people in general have become shallow and selfish.

Alien excuses!!