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I am married to an army guy and have two kids with him. We are overseas and i am divorcing him and moving back to the states. Is it wrong to take his kids back to the states because I am miserable with him. I have a lot of issues with the inlaws just wanted to know if maybe i am wrong after all.
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If the kids were born in that country you need his permission to take them, legally.
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no they were not born in this country
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Oh. Well, if you get divorced and you get full custody, I don't think it's wrong. If he wants visitation that can be worked out.
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thanks ill keep that in mind.
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I am married to an army guy and have two kids with him. We are overseas and i am divorcing him and moving back to the states. Is it wrong to take his kids back to the states because I am miserable with him. I have a lot of issues with the inlaws just wanted to know if maybe i am wrong after all. tanyah, you don't give enough information for anyone to tell what should be done with your kids. What is your reason for divorcing your husband? |
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Dodo she already said she is miserable with him
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It all comes down to what the laws are where you are getting the Divorce if you can just pull up and leave... I know in most states that you can not just leave the state with the kids... Not sure what the laws are where you are or if you plan on getting a Divorce once back in the states...
I would be checking into what my rights are legally first.....But would not keep the kids from their dad either..... |
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Seek legal advice first is my opinion
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I am married to an army guy and have two kids with him. We are overseas and i am divorcing him and moving back to the states. Is it wrong to take his kids back to the states because I am miserable with him. I have a lot of issues with the inlaws just wanted to know if maybe i am wrong after all. Sounds to me like you're asking a moral question, not a legal one....For whatever reasons, being married to your husband is making you miserable...Miserable women make lousy mothers....It's going to be tough for all of you and the only "right" answer to your question lies within your own heart...All you can do is communicate your feelings honestly and openly and do everything in your power to ease the hardships a divorce will most definitely place upon your children..... 
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Dodo she already said she is miserable with him That claim doesn't necessarily imply that there is just cause for a divorce. |
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Edited by
tanyah
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Thu 10/24/13 04:14 AM
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Thanks guys for all the input
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Edited by
SparklingCrystal 💖💎
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Thu 10/24/13 04:46 AM
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Dodo she already said she is miserable with him That claim doesn't necessarily imply that there is just cause for a divorce. Just cause??? This is 2013! If you want to divorce, you want to divorce, simple as that. I believe kids are better of with their mum. Young kids need their mum. They need that particular mum's care, feel and so on. Take them with you. That's not selfish. Facts are plain and simple: they are going to have to miss out on one parent. It's either you or him, whether you're emotional about it or not, that fact remains. Don't think guilt or other emotional stuff. Think of what's most important to the kids, esp during the difficult period of going through divorce. Put emotions aside, be practical and realistic. Kids are versatile. They'll easily get used to new country, make new friends, learn another language if need be. What they DO need to keep them stable, is you. A parent that's there for them, emotionally, mentally etc. If you can manage to give them that stability and create a new home, they will adapt, and usually quite fast as well. If the kids are insecure now or then, YOU have to be strong. Good luck
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I am married to an army guy and have two kids with him. We are overseas and i am divorcing him and moving back to the states. Is it wrong to take his kids back to the states because I am miserable with him. I have a lot of issues with the inlaws just wanted to know if maybe i am wrong after all. yes you are wrong.don't feel bad,all women are wrong.it's just the way y'all were made 
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Edited by
hfjsdfhds
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Thu 10/24/13 07:44 AM
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I am married to an army guy and have two kids with him. We are overseas and i am divorcing him and moving back to the states. Is it wrong to take his kids back to the states because I am miserable with him. I have a lot of issues with the inlaws just wanted to know if maybe i am wrong after all. If you are married, it`s for life (you promised that after all). So good luck, make the best of it! And if you should end up divorcing him, please do everyone a favor and don`t marry again, you`re too weak for it then. |
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Thanks for your input but you don't know my life so if you don't have anything nice to say then don't say it no one needs your negativity.
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I am married to an army guy and have two kids with him. We are overseas and i am divorcing him and moving back to the states. Is it wrong to take his kids back to the states because I am miserable with him. I have a lot of issues with the inlaws just wanted to know if maybe i am wrong after all. yes you are wrong.don't feel bad,all women are wrong.it's just the way y'all were made Yeah and we all need a dildo at times, but not one with sunglasses. |
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Dodo she already said she is miserable with him That claim doesn't necessarily imply that there is just cause for a divorce. Just cause??? This is 2013! If you want to divorce, you want to divorce, simple as that. I believe kids are better of with their mum. Young kids need their mum. They need that particular mum's care, feel and so on. Take them with you. That's not selfish. Facts are plain and simple: they are going to have to miss out on one parent. It's either you or him, whether you're emotional about it or not, that fact remains. Don't think guilt or other emotional stuff. Think of what's most important to the kids, esp during the difficult period of going through divorce. Put emotions aside, be practical and realistic. Kids are versatile. They'll easily get used to new country, make new friends, learn another language if need be. What they DO need to keep them stable, is you. A parent that's there for them, emotionally, mentally etc. If you can manage to give them that stability and create a new home, they will adapt, and usually quite fast as well. If the kids are insecure now or then, YOU have to be strong. Good luck Yes to all of this. |
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