WHAT RE THE MAIN ISSUE THAT MAKE A WOMAN TO FALL FOR A MAN THAT DNT LOVE HER?

The heart of a woman is very blind and I can say this on personal experience....my sons father says he loves me but he never really shows it. He doesn't wanna do anything special for or with me, he just wants to do what he wants and I get what is leftover. Then to top that off you don't think you can ever find a good man, and truth be told that is a very rare thing to find.

You could fill a telephone directory with the things that some women expect us guys to be and it still wouldn't be enough!

Goes the other way round as well.

A woman falling for a guy even though he doesn't love her: men and women are wired differently. So women tend to think there's something going on, while the guy is just having a bit of fun.
Miscommunication of the sexes

Not sure that I follow you but yeah, women seem to want the moon on a stick, while for me it's pretty much enough if we have some things in common and have a good time together.

Well, not strictly true because I want someone that I can see a future with that's going to be there for me when I need her but I don't really have a bunch of preconceived ideas about what sort of woman that should be.

TL;DR I'm not picky and take it as it comes and see how it goes.

Well I have to feel mentally and physically attracted to him, first.

I want love, respect, honest, companionship...I want him to be my best friend. I'm not interested on his money or properties; just to be there for me and to accept me and love me the way I am.

1. Total honesty

2. Good sense of humour

3. Great personality

4. Fun to be with

5. Understanding

6. Passionate and giving

7. Thoughtful

8. Has integrity and morals

9. A Great smile

10. loves and respexts me with all his heart

Sighs!! A girl can only dream

The question is not "what makes a woman fall for a man" but
"what makes a woman fall for a man that doesn't love her"

A woman wants a man that wants her but do not need her.. A man thats confident in his surroundings, that "Honesty" BS is always at the top of a womens list, but tell me this why do most women fall for players and "bad boys"? is it they believe in the **** there saying? no its because they always want something they cannot have, or another womens man, always trying to beat out the next lady.. To answer your question with the most honesty, to get a woman you need to be yourself, cool, calm and collective,(a woman can smell when a guy is uncomfortable or out of his element), and confident, and its three things that will keep a woman, its money, companionship, and sex(most settle on either of the three)

I don't want a badboy..fun to mess around with an thats it

Pfffft...yes I want honesty [at the TOP] of my list or there is no point in continuing.. Capisce? And I promise to give it back

lol exactly women want superman, a man's man, smooth talker, funny, tall, faithful, then end up settling... thats why its so many old lonely old women on this sight..seeking a "10 commandment" man lol... It should be three things a woman look for in a man and thats, 1)goal-minded, 2)likes you for you, and 3)loves him self and family-oriented... because when it comes down to it if he's planning a future from having goals set, he'll want you in it, if he like's you for you there will always be an attraction, and if hes family oriented he will try his best to provide for his family, try his best to please his wife because he wants her happy and content just like he would his mom and his kids, and truly values family...

Just that!
"I pursued and she withdrew
then I withdrew & she pursued"

1 out of 10 isn't bad

1) A man that wont cheat

2) A man that well love with all of his heart

3) A man that love's Kid's ( this is for women that have or want kid's)

4) A man that wont lie or try to hide stuff from us


This is what us women really want the most. I hope this help's some of you men out there.

We want it all? Then we settle? But we are lonely old women?
I'm not lonely..I'm quite happy and no I won't settle

I remember posting here cuz somebody asked what women want, so I gave my answer

Who peed in your cornflakes today?

Not to be mean, but you settled in your marriage(divorce), your settling to be alone,..(no woman or man wants to be in their 50's on dating websites..) lets be honest you want a man... No cornflakes just telling it how it is and was....

You are really something..when did I tell you that I SETTLED and was never in love with my ex husband...WoW!
Im not settling to be single..how does.that make sense..I choose.to be single since I will.not settle
..you assume too much..

Lie number 1, no woman chooses to be single, thats BS, a man just has not came along to your liking yet.. What I don't understand is how two ppl are "in love" but end up getting a divorce.? Love is supposed to be unconditional.. I believe if two ppl are truly "in love" they will make that marriage work no matter what intill death.. I believe that some people have this mixed up definition of what "in love" truly is.. You probably love your ex, bbut you two we're not "in love".. Being "in love" is accepting ones faults and adjusting to it, not one day get tired and call the marriage off.. My assumptions, are based on an educated guess viewing your profile.. "I choose to be single".. lmao yea right...

What a pile of crap that is? Some people are just here for the forums. Not everyone is desperate to meet someone. I am single; never been married and plan to keep it that way. At 50; you know what you want out of life and one thing you won't do is settle. Also; I will add some of us are set in our ways and find no need to change the situation. You are not an expert on how people in their 50s feel; so don't act like you know it all as you don't.