Topic: WHAT A WOMEN WANT IN A MAN
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Thu 10/24/13 12:07 PM
im impressed. But you cant get 100 percent of all dats in a man.

Candiapples's photo
Thu 10/24/13 12:27 PM


Not to be mean, but you settled in your marriage(divorce), your settling to be alone,..(no woman or man wants to be in their 50's on dating websites..) lets be honest you want a man... No cornflakes just telling it how it is and was....


What a pile of crap that is? Some people are just here for the forums. Not everyone is desperate to meet someone. I am single; never been married and plan to keep it that way. At 50; you know what you want out of life and one thing you won't do is settle. Also; I will add some of us are set in our ways and find no need to change the situation. You are not an expert on how people in their 50s feel; so don't act like you know it all as you don't.

Hes 23 and thinks hes an expert..well it takes 2 to tango and takes 2 to work it out..I was with him for 24 yrs..people change especially when you are young when you marry. I am not a quitter...but I have one life and dang it...Im going to be happy. If someone came along that peaked my intetest then maybe I would give it a shot...but I'm not.here looking. Sorry to burst your almighty bubble...

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Thu 10/24/13 01:24 PM



Not to be mean, but you settled in your marriage(divorce), your settling to be alone,..(no woman or man wants to be in their 50's on dating websites..) lets be honest you want a man... No cornflakes just telling it how it is and was....


What a pile of crap that is? Some people are just here for the forums. Not everyone is desperate to meet someone. I am single; never been married and plan to keep it that way. At 50; you know what you want out of life and one thing you won't do is settle. Also; I will add some of us are set in our ways and find no need to change the situation. You are not an expert on how people in their 50s feel; so don't act like you know it all as you don't.

Hes 23 and thinks hes an expert..well it takes 2 to tango and takes 2 to work it out..I was with him for 24 yrs..people change especially when you are young when you marry. I am not a quitter...but I have one life and dang it...Im going to be happy. If someone came along that peaked my intetest then maybe I would give it a shot...but I'm not.here looking. Sorry to burst your almighty bubble...


The truth just hurts sometime... Your not on here looking, but have nearly 1000 posts in only 3monthhs, alot of free time to me?.. And i have to be in my 50's to understand a 50 year old relationship, ? Are coaches that coach teams experts in their sports, many have never a played a sport in their lives.? Age doesnt make you an expert, I know ministers and bishops younger than me, doesnt mean your wiser because your older... I don't know it all, never said I did, but I come to the conclusion that not all old men are wise, some stay foolish... Maybe you should open your ears and learn something...

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Thu 10/24/13 01:30 PM
Some people are just here for the forums.? this is a dating website, before you knew of the forums you knew it was a dating website.. I guess you took what I said as saying that older women are desperate, never said that... im saying that ALL women need to stop looking for a superhero man's man, and stop having this fantasy list of what you want in a man like your Beyonce or something... no one's perfect so why want a perfect guy knowing this...?

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Thu 10/24/13 01:41 PM

Some people are just here for the forums.? this is a dating website, before you knew of the forums you knew it was a dating website.. I guess you took what I said as saying that older women are desperate, never said that... im saying that ALL women need to stop looking for a superhero man's man, and stop having this fantasy list of what you want in a man like your Beyonce or something... no one's perfect so why want a perfect guy knowing this...?
I agree with you mate! We're not Richard Gere, in Pretty Woman, or Patrick Swayze, in Dirty Dancing, but some women expect us to be though?

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Thu 10/24/13 01:45 PM


Not to be mean, but you settled in your marriage(divorce), your settling to be alone,..(no woman or man wants to be in their 50's on dating websites..) lets be honest you want a man... No cornflakes just telling it how it is and was....


What a pile of crap that is? Some people are just here for the forums. Not everyone is desperate to meet someone. I am single; never been married and plan to keep it that way. At 50; you know what you want out of life and one thing you won't do is settle. Also; I will add some of us are set in our ways and find no need to change the situation. You are not an expert on how people in their 50s feel; so don't act like you know it all as you don't.


"Never been married and plan to keep it that way".. You said yourself that men your age don't want an relationship, so who would want to marry you anyways.? isn't it the guys your age stopping you from having a relationship, not the other way around.? Why does the guy have to be around your age, whats wrong with a man in his 30's, how do you know you want relate to someone 20 years or 15years younger.? Its these stupid things keeping you from a relationship, which is what you truly want or you would not have put it on your profile, and thats another point, older women are "set in there ways".. But your "ways" obviously isn't working...

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Thu 10/24/13 02:18 PM
Edited by Candiapples on Thu 10/24/13 02:26 PM


Some people are just here for the forums.? this is a dating website, before you knew of the forums you knew it was a dating website.. I guess you took what I said as saying that older women are desperate, never said that... im saying that ALL women need to stop looking for a superhero man's man, and stop having this fantasy list of what you want in a man like your Beyonce or something... no one's perfect so why want a perfect guy knowing this...?
I agree with you mate! We're not Richard Gere, in Pretty Woman, or Patrick Swayze, in Dirty Dancing, but some women expect us to be though?

This is also a place to make fiends and pass time. Yes I do have alot of free time these days and its really none of your business why?

What truth hurt me? I'm not understanding? Fill me in?

I don't expect perfection.but what I want really isn't that much to ask for in any decent human..if it is, then I feel sorry for ya. I try to live up to all those expectations and I can also fall but I get right back up.

I think most men don't want to try or even bother with trying to be the best they can. Which is why there is so much animosity from you guys waving

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Thu 10/24/13 02:51 PM
What animosity.? I have no problem getting an older or younger woman.. You want a man to be the best they can but you yourself are not.. just by looking at your pic I can tell your overweight, you don't have to be.. also most women don't want to try to be the best they can be.. but don't lie to yourself to make you feel better, every woman wants a man around for comfort..

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Thu 10/24/13 02:52 PM
I LIKE ME !!!

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Thu 10/24/13 03:07 PM
I like you too kik :smile:

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Thu 10/24/13 03:14 PM
Thank You i like you too Ms Candi !
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Thu 10/24/13 03:23 PM
Huh! Boring...the last thing I'd do is arguing about relationship with ladies

Candiapples's photo
Thu 10/24/13 03:32 PM
This...exactly why I'm not looking..

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Thu 10/24/13 04:58 PM
Wow, just wow. LOL. To be young and know everything again...I was very much in love with my ex husband, until he started using drugs and destroyed everything we had built together after 9 years. I still stuck it out for 2 more years trying to make it work. I finally had to leave for myself and my children. Sometimes love, or being "in love" just isn't enough. Go ahead and judge :)

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Thu 10/24/13 05:53 PM

Lie number 1, no woman chooses to be single, thats BS, a man just has not came along to your liking yet.. What I don't understand is how two ppl are "in love" but end up getting a divorce.? Love is supposed to be unconditional.. I believe if two ppl are truly "in love" they will make that marriage work no matter what intill death.. I believe that some people have this mixed up definition of what "in love" truly is.. You probably love your ex, bbut you two we're not "in love".. Being "in love" is accepting ones faults and adjusting to it, not one day get tired and call the marriage off.. My assumptions, are based on an educated guess viewing your profile.. "I choose to be single".. lmao yea right...


Dude, are you deliberately trying to be abrasive, or are you doing so by accident? You are passing judgement on the women in this forum, and you don't even know them.

As it turns out, this site is not just for dating. It is also for fun and friendships that don't include dating.

And your alleged "truth" about these women would make good plant fertilizer.

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Thu 10/24/13 10:19 PM



Not to be mean, but you settled in your marriage(divorce), your settling to be alone,..(no woman or man wants to be in their 50's on dating websites..) lets be honest you want a man... No cornflakes just telling it how it is and was....


What a pile of crap that is? Some people are just here for the forums. Not everyone is desperate to meet someone. I am single; never been married and plan to keep it that way. At 50; you know what you want out of life and one thing you won't do is settle. Also; I will add some of us are set in our ways and find no need to change the situation. You are not an expert on how people in their 50s feel; so don't act like you know it all as you don't.


"Never been married and plan to keep it that way".. You said yourself that men your age don't want an relationship, so who would want to marry you anyways.? isn't it the guys your age stopping you from having a relationship, not the other way around.? Why does the guy have to be around your age, whats wrong with a man in his 30's, how do you know you want relate to someone 20 years or 15years younger.? Its these stupid things keeping you from a relationship, which is what you truly want or you would not have put it on your profile, and thats another point, older women are "set in there ways".. But your "ways" obviously isn't working...


What is wrong with a man in his 30s? You are a prime example of what is wrong with dating someone in their 30s and Dodo is correct that you are abrasive. That is not a sign of maturity as far as I am concerned. As with age; comes wisdom and I have the wisdom and experience to know I don't relate to someone 20 years younger than myself. As for my "ways"; they are working quite fine for me so you don't have a clue about me, my life, or my experiences but nice try with the BS. whoa

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Thu 10/24/13 10:20 PM


Lie number 1, no woman chooses to be single, thats BS, a man just has not came along to your liking yet.. What I don't understand is how two ppl are "in love" but end up getting a divorce.? Love is supposed to be unconditional.. I believe if two ppl are truly "in love" they will make that marriage work no matter what intill death.. I believe that some people have this mixed up definition of what "in love" truly is.. You probably love your ex, bbut you two we're not "in love".. Being "in love" is accepting ones faults and adjusting to it, not one day get tired and call the marriage off.. My assumptions, are based on an educated guess viewing your profile.. "I choose to be single".. lmao yea right...


Dude, are you deliberately trying to be abrasive, or are you doing so by accident? You are passing judgement on the women in this forum, and you don't even know them.

As it turns out, this site is not just for dating. It is also for fun and friendships that don't include dating.

And your alleged "truth" about these women would make good plant fertilizer.


Ah, Dodo you are the wise one. Good post. :thumbsup:

navygirl's photo
Thu 10/24/13 10:27 PM



Not to be mean, but you settled in your marriage(divorce), your settling to be alone,..(no woman or man wants to be in their 50's on dating websites..) lets be honest you want a man... No cornflakes just telling it how it is and was....


What a pile of crap that is? Some people are just here for the forums. Not everyone is desperate to meet someone. I am single; never been married and plan to keep it that way. At 50; you know what you want out of life and one thing you won't do is settle. Also; I will add some of us are set in our ways and find no need to change the situation. You are not an expert on how people in their 50s feel; so don't act like you know it all as you don't.

Hes 23 and thinks hes an expert..well it takes 2 to tango and takes 2 to work it out..I was with him for 24 yrs..people change especially when you are young when you marry. I am not a quitter...but I have one life and dang it...Im going to be happy. If someone came along that peaked my intetest then maybe I would give it a shot...but I'm not.here looking. Sorry to burst your almighty bubble...


:thumbsup:

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Fri 10/25/13 01:40 AM
Patience...

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Fri 10/25/13 02:23 AM

Patience...
Kind of ironic a woman asking a man to be patient, when all they seem to be these days is impatient themselves?