Topic: Another date not working out
willing2's photo
Sat 10/19/13 06:26 PM
He missed out.

He showed up, he might have had a chance to be into you. :wink:

Ruth34611's photo
Sat 10/19/13 06:53 PM

Sorry that your date didn't work out. I don't know why people do things like this. Getting stood up sucks. CF, I doubt you are ready for the convent. Its his loss and not yours. Just think; you may have just dodged a bullet with this character. I would just spend the night with some friends and forget this wanker. flowerforyou


Ditto this.

And, you are looking really good NavyGirl! flowerforyou waving

afriQueen22's photo
Sat 10/19/13 11:06 PM
There must have been a misalignment of the planets because the same thing happened to me this Friday. He messaged me at 10pm saying that he's stuck in a town that's about two hours away from where I live and that he's feeling alone and horny. No apology or anything.
CF atleast you can just block this joker, I have to deal with him in real life.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sun 10/20/13 02:47 AM
Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Sun 10/20/13 02:48 AM

There must have been a misalignment of the planets because the same thing happened to me this Friday. He messaged me at 10pm saying that he's stuck in a town that's about two hours away from where I live and that he's feeling alone and horny. No apology or anything.
CF atleast you can just block this joker, I have to deal with him in real life.

Now you mention it: Mercury is about to go retrograde. But not yet, on the 21st.
Attraction is a weird thing. Had a date with this really nice man earlier this year. All the perimeters were right: he was tall, a musician, writer, intelligent, similar interests, good-looking etc. But I didn't feel a buzzzzz at all whoa And he started talking about "When we move in together ... " On the first date, mummy!! scared
Technically speaking it could've been great. But I didn't feel attracted to him. Always the same.
I gotta get this Law of Attraction sussed, haha. I must be doing something wrong.

TawtStrat's photo
Sun 10/20/13 04:18 AM
You are too picky and go for the wrong type. I told you that I would be prepared to date you but all that you could say was that it doesn't feel right. Your loss honey. Good luck with your search and if you ever feel like meeting a real man look me up.

lionsbrew's photo
Sun 10/20/13 04:55 AM
Being left hanging sucks. However next time I'd suggesting going out anyway. You never know you could run into someone who may just blow your mind.flowerforyou

hfjsdfhds's photo
Sun 10/20/13 05:01 AM
Thing is, dating doesn`t really work. You will have to be ready for a relationship, I mean really ready, to begin with - then you can meet someone. But there is no point in just "dating" someone to see if you match, it`s just stupid. Dating and relationship are two different things, the latter is when you are ready to create something real, dating is when you aren`t ready but just playing the field.

TawtStrat's photo
Sun 10/20/13 05:30 AM

Thing is, dating doesn`t really work. You will have to be ready for a relationship, I mean really ready, to begin with - then you can meet someone. But there is no point in just "dating" someone to see if you match, it`s just stupid. Dating and relationship are two different things, the latter is when you are ready to create something real, dating is when you aren`t ready but just playing the field.


She's a woman that doesn't even know what she wants. Most of them that I've met in my years of dating are like that.

You can't jump straight into a relationship but if you are genuinely ready for one and actually want one you can give it a go with someone that you hit it off with. It's better than this BS where people say that they are looking for marriage and expect proposals over the internet, or these idiots that make up their minds before even meeting you.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sun 10/20/13 05:37 AM

Thing is, dating doesn`t really work. You will have to be ready for a relationship, I mean really ready, to begin with - then you can meet someone. But there is no point in just "dating" someone to see if you match, it`s just stupid. Dating and relationship are two different things, the latter is when you are ready to create something real, dating is when you aren`t ready but just playing the field.

I don't totally agree with you.
Dating can lead to a relationship.
You can indeed date when you're not ready for a relationship but
you can also date when you are, but simply haven't met the right one yet.
Playing the field doesn't mean you're not ready. You can also enjoy dating, meeting ppl, having a good time.

You are too picky and go for the wrong type. I told you that I would be prepared to date you but all that you could say was that it doesn't feel right. Your loss honey. Good luck with your search and if you ever feel like meeting a real man look me up.

I guess I'm just not ready for a real man. Be patient, one never knows.

Marshallkingsley's photo
Sun 10/20/13 05:38 AM
You just have to look for someone else crystalfairy ..for a guy to ditch his date is an insult on the part of the lady ....be yourself flowerforyou

navygirl's photo
Sun 10/20/13 02:33 PM


Sorry that your date didn't work out. I don't know why people do things like this. Getting stood up sucks. CF, I doubt you are ready for the convent. Its his loss and not yours. Just think; you may have just dodged a bullet with this character. I would just spend the night with some friends and forget this wanker. flowerforyou


Ditto this.

And, you are looking really good NavyGirl! flowerforyou waving


Thank you for the compliment. flowerforyou

larsson71's photo
Sun 10/20/13 02:43 PM

You are inexperienced only four guys and you are frustrated... If you are smart you would assume some responsibility and have his number so you could confirm if you did not hear from him as you give the other person control! If you let them confirm and not do the same. I would suggest you forget age as its not a valid criteria for dating evaluation and spend more time conversing with a guy to better know him and reduce the liklihood of being stood up, I support your efforts but four guys is insufficient. I met 63 women before finding a compatible match and that one lasted a year...Granted my standards are high but the rewards justify the traffic and subsequent great match...
Oi Santa Claus away and get ready for xmas! 63 women my arse! Remember Santa only comes once a year! laugh laugh laugh

no photo
Sun 10/20/13 02:46 PM
Did you both conversate enough, first? Just wondering

larsson71's photo
Sun 10/20/13 03:01 PM


Thing is, dating doesn`t really work. You will have to be ready for a relationship, I mean really ready, to begin with - then you can meet someone. But there is no point in just "dating" someone to see if you match, it`s just stupid. Dating and relationship are two different things, the latter is when you are ready to create something real, dating is when you aren`t ready but just playing the field.


She's a woman that doesn't even know what she wants. Most of them that I've met in my years of dating are like that.

You can't jump straight into a relationship but if you are genuinely ready for one and actually want one you can give it a go with someone that you hit it off with. It's better than this BS where people say that they are looking for marriage and expect proposals over the internet, or these idiots that make up their minds before even meeting you.
Look at yourself before you judge Crystal? Im sure the women are throwing themselves at you? Aye right! laugh laugh laugh

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sun 10/20/13 03:15 PM



Thing is, dating doesn`t really work. You will have to be ready for a relationship, I mean really ready, to begin with - then you can meet someone. But there is no point in just "dating" someone to see if you match, it`s just stupid. Dating and relationship are two different things, the latter is when you are ready to create something real, dating is when you aren`t ready but just playing the field.


She's a woman that doesn't even know what she wants. Most of them that I've met in my years of dating are like that.

You can't jump straight into a relationship but if you are genuinely ready for one and actually want one you can give it a go with someone that you hit it off with. It's better than this BS where people say that they are looking for marriage and expect proposals over the internet, or these idiots that make up their minds before even meeting you.
Look at yourself before you judge Crystal? Im sure the women are throwing themselves at you? Aye right! laugh laugh laugh

I totally missed that comment.
:laughing:
Thank you for clearing it up, Larsson
flowerforyou

larsson71's photo
Sun 10/20/13 03:24 PM
flowerforyou




Thing is, dating doesn`t really work. You will have to be ready for a relationship, I mean really ready, to begin with - then you can meet someone. But there is no point in just "dating" someone to see if you match, it`s just stupid. Dating and relationship are two different things, the latter is when you are ready to create something real, dating is when you aren`t ready but just playing the field.


She's a woman that doesn't even know what she wants. Most of them that I've met in my years of dating are like that.

You can't jump straight into a relationship but if you are genuinely ready for one and actually want one you can give it a go with someone that you hit it off with. It's better than this BS where people say that they are looking for marriage and expect proposals over the internet, or these idiots that make up their minds before even meeting you.
Look at yourself before you judge Crystal? Im sure the women are throwing themselves at you? Aye right! laugh laugh laugh

I totally missed that comment.
:laughing:
Thank you for clearing it up, Larsson
flowerforyou
No probs Crystal, you're 1 of the better 1s on here.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sun 10/20/13 03:34 PM

flowerforyou




Thing is, dating doesn`t really work. You will have to be ready for a relationship, I mean really ready, to begin with - then you can meet someone. But there is no point in just "dating" someone to see if you match, it`s just stupid. Dating and relationship are two different things, the latter is when you are ready to create something real, dating is when you aren`t ready but just playing the field.


She's a woman that doesn't even know what she wants. Most of them that I've met in my years of dating are like that.

You can't jump straight into a relationship but if you are genuinely ready for one and actually want one you can give it a go with someone that you hit it off with. It's better than this BS where people say that they are looking for marriage and expect proposals over the internet, or these idiots that make up their minds before even meeting you.
Look at yourself before you judge Crystal? Im sure the women are throwing themselves at you? Aye right! laugh laugh laugh

I totally missed that comment.
:laughing:
Thank you for clearing it up, Larsson
flowerforyou
No probs Crystal, you're 1 of the better 1s on here.

blushing flowers

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sun 10/20/13 03:35 PM
PS You are spoken for, right?
:laughing:

larsson71's photo
Sun 10/20/13 03:55 PM

PS You are spoken for, right?
:laughing:
It's early days yet, but i'll keep you posted, ok? flowerforyou

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sun 10/20/13 03:59 PM


PS You are spoken for, right?
:laughing:
It's early days yet, but i'll keep you posted, ok? flowerforyou

Hahaha, you do that.