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Topic: would you date some one who is HIV positive or has a STI?
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Thu 10/17/13 03:51 PM
Also, just for the record, it's easy to say you'd stand by someone who had a fatal/serious illness and needed a lot of care, could possibly pass that illness on to you, etc. but until you're faced with that situation, you really don't know what you'd do.

I'd be there for one of my immediate family members, no question, but for someone I'm not related to, I seriously doubt it.

Ɔʎɹɐx's photo
Thu 10/17/13 03:54 PM
dating like spending time together without sexual relation ?
yes ... why not

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Thu 10/17/13 04:01 PM
HELLLLLLLL NO !

noway


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Thu 10/17/13 04:09 PM
IDK, that was a b_tch to get rid of the first time

l remember having a conversation with my gf of last year,waiting for results for everything.
I was being suggestive,that if I was HIV positive
that I wouldn't expect her to be with me.
she said that it wouldn't have concerned her
any different.
The results were negative,but we still broke up
a few weeks latter ..lol go figure.

Having said that,I'd say the same, if she's my girl.

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Thu 10/17/13 04:15 PM

dating like spending time together without sexual relation ?
yes ... why not


isn't that basically just a friendship though? being romantically involved usually requires some sort of affection, even if it's just kissing.

Ɔʎɹɐx's photo
Thu 10/17/13 04:25 PM


dating like spending time together without sexual relation ?
yes ... why not


isn't that basically just a friendship though? being romantically involved usually requires some sort of affection, even if it's just kissing.

we can use "cheek kissing" method bigsmile

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Thu 10/17/13 07:42 PM

Also, just for the record, it's easy to say you'd stand by someone who had a fatal/serious illness and needed a lot of care, could possibly pass that illness on to you, etc. but until you're faced with that situation, you really don't know what you'd do.

I'd be there for one of my immediate family members, no question, but for someone I'm not related to, I seriously doubt it.



Sadly ..I'm sure a lot feel this way.

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Thu 10/17/13 11:23 PM
Edited by Simonedemidova on Thu 10/17/13 11:28 PM


Ah, but for those who said ''hell no''.

What would happen if he/she that you loved so dearly/married/ etc... accidentally became infected through a blood transfusion or received it from occupational exposure?


Hmmm. Thoughts or would just leave them high or dry.

2Kids Mom. You happy I posted something...lol:tongue:



I'm one of those that said no... But what your asking is a totally different situation.

No I would not start a New Relationship with someone that was HIV positive.

But if I was already in a relationship with someone that had actually been infected through a blood transfusion then it would be a different issue. For you have already been with that person there is a bond there and your in love with them.. It would be no different then if it was cancer. I would stick by them.

But in no way would I start a new relationship with someone I knew was HIV positive prior to having that bond or love with them.


Ditto! I'm a huge H E L L 2 the NO! If my love got it afterwards of course I'd stay cuz I'd probably have anyways. Birds of a feather flock together! :heart:

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Thu 10/17/13 11:26 PM



dating like spending time together without sexual relation ?
yes ... why not


isn't that basically just a friendship though? being romantically involved usually requires some sort of affection, even if it's just kissing.

we can use "cheek kissing" method bigsmile


If someone has aids/HIV I do not want their saliva anywhere near me! Not on my cheek or my pillow!

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Thu 10/17/13 11:35 PM
I can't..I don't want to put my life into risk.

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Thu 10/17/13 11:43 PM
Honestly I would be to afraid for my own life. Friends yes ,but any thing on a physical level no way.

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Fri 10/18/13 10:55 AM
thank you all for your input, quite interesting

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Fri 10/18/13 06:31 PM
Dating someone you know doesn't guarantee you are secure neither he/she got an HIV+ or STD but it is more risky dating someone you dont know yet but I believe if that someone aware he/she had infected would not put you in the same situation. But in case of unawareness of it if they've got it or not. So,it is now our responsibility to protect ourselves from being infected because we also care for our life as God give this precious gift to us to protect it, care for it and use in a special way that could not harm our fellow.

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Fri 10/18/13 06:34 PM

please share your thoughts..


7 billion people in the world, i think i could find one that doesn't...

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Sat 10/19/13 07:41 AM
I would have to say no! We could be friends but life itself is already risky. No matter how nice they are and how smart, outgoing and caring; there could never be anything pass a friendship. It's already hard for individuals now to be honest about their health status.

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Sat 10/19/13 02:17 PM
who has got sti yes,not HIV unless u are HIV POSITIVE.

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Mon 10/21/13 10:37 AM
Would I f**k! No way!

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Sat 10/26/13 08:50 AM

It can be done, with a certain level of caution and understanding.

Yeah, but if I'm not mistaken I read the other day that most people with an HIV infected partner end up being infected as well after a longer period of time, in spite of safety and precautionary measures.

I wouldn't go there.
how is that possible, pls elaborate *for my infor*

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Sat 10/26/13 11:36 AM
Just as a friend....shudnt b any problem but we wouldnt know what wil happen next,might fall in love....well.....as one said,'Til death do us part'.....

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