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Topic: Black guys and whites ladies: what do you think?
shrxfn68 Joined Thu 07/16/09 Posts: 1482	Fri 10/18/13 12:34 PM
I'm going to modify a response I gave in another thread, because it fits this topic and I'm too lazy to completely write a new one. If you happened to get to know a person of another race and you formed a relationship based on mutual interests, hobbies, activities, etc. I wouldn't have a problem with it. What bothers me is when people go out looking for a certain "other" it's like you're objectifying them, you're not dating them for them, you're dating them because of their age, race, etc. If you happened to click with a person of a different race as a person, and they click with you, as a person, by all means, go for it. But most of the time, someone is looking for something "different" and "exotic" and they get off on the fact that you're different and exotic and I think that's creepy. There, you asked for input from a black woman, you have it. I never considered other races exotic outside of like Brazil or the Caribbean. Must have accent too...not Nigerian accent. In America there's rich, middle class and hood. All three classes include all races. I agree with you that people who are obsessed with a particular race or look can be creepy or it could be a fetish like tickling. If two hearts and minds click though ....there are no boundaries. Hood? As in ghetto? You mean the poor, lower, underclass, or working poor don't you? I'll be watching for Wikipedia edits in next few days I live in the Hood. Hood isn't a type of class

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Fri 10/18/13 12:50 PM
I'm going to modify a response I gave in another thread, because it fits this topic and I'm too lazy to completely write a new one. If you happened to get to know a person of another race and you formed a relationship based on mutual interests, hobbies, activities, etc. I wouldn't have a problem with it. What bothers me is when people go out looking for a certain "other" it's like you're objectifying them, you're not dating them for them, you're dating them because of their age, race, etc. If you happened to click with a person of a different race as a person, and they click with you, as a person, by all means, go for it. But most of the time, someone is looking for something "different" and "exotic" and they get off on the fact that you're different and exotic and I think that's creepy. There, you asked for input from a black woman, you have it. I never considered other races exotic outside of like Brazil or the Caribbean. Must have accent too...not Nigerian accent. In America there's rich, middle class and hood. All three classes include all races. I agree with you that people who are obsessed with a particular race or look can be creepy or it could be a fetish like tickling. If two hearts and minds click though ....there are no boundaries. Hood? As in ghetto? You mean the poor, lower, underclass, or working poor don't you? I'll be watching for Wikipedia edits in next few days I live in the Hood. Hood isn't a type of class

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Fri 10/18/13 01:00 PM
I agree, living in the 'hood has nothing to do with class. Sometimes it's due to circumstance or sometimes it's a preference; the principal of my elementary school lives in the 'hood by choice, he says he'd never live anyplace else because there he can do as he pleases, he knows all of his neighbors personally he can enjoy life. I've lived in the 'burbs and the 'hood, and I kind of get his point.

shrxfn68 Joined Thu 07/16/09 Posts: 1482	Fri 10/18/13 01:52 PM
I agree, living in the 'hood has nothing to do with class. Sometimes it's due to circumstance or sometimes it's a preference; the principal of my elementary school lives in the 'hood by choice, he says he'd never live anyplace else because there he can do as he pleases, he knows all of his neighbors personally he can enjoy life. I've lived in the 'burbs and the 'hood, and I kind of get his point. Due to circumstances beyond my control. I was living in ''the hood'' in NOLA. I actually liked it. Funny thing was is that I didn't know anyone, and became pretty cool with the other people that lived there. I actually enjoyed the neighbors and they way they watched out for everyone. I also lived in the ''burbs'' too. Neighboring with the ''Im holier than thou art'' and the ''My car is way better than yours'' I find no matter where you live there's evil/arrogant and ignorance everywhere.

shrxfn68 Joined Thu 07/16/09 Posts: 1482	Fri 10/18/13 01:53 PM
I'm going to modify a response I gave in another thread, because it fits this topic and I'm too lazy to completely write a new one. If you happened to get to know a person of another race and you formed a relationship based on mutual interests, hobbies, activities, etc. I wouldn't have a problem with it. What bothers me is when people go out looking for a certain "other" it's like you're objectifying them, you're not dating them for them, you're dating them because of their age, race, etc. If you happened to click with a person of a different race as a person, and they click with you, as a person, by all means, go for it. But most of the time, someone is looking for something "different" and "exotic" and they get off on the fact that you're different and exotic and I think that's creepy. There, you asked for input from a black woman, you have it. I never considered other races exotic outside of like Brazil or the Caribbean. Must have accent too...not Nigerian accent. In America there's rich, middle class and hood. All three classes include all races. I agree with you that people who are obsessed with a particular race or look can be creepy or it could be a fetish like tickling. If two hearts and minds click though ....there are no boundaries. Hood? As in ghetto? You mean the poor, lower, underclass, or working poor don't you? I'll be watching for Wikipedia edits in next few days I live in the Hood. Hood isn't a type of class Can I be your hood Rat...lol

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Fri 10/18/13 02:13 PM
I agree, living in the 'hood has nothing to do with class. Sometimes it's due to circumstance or sometimes it's a preference; the principal of my elementary school lives in the 'hood by choice, he says he'd never live anyplace else because there he can do as he pleases, he knows all of his neighbors personally he can enjoy life. I've lived in the 'burbs and the 'hood, and I kind of get his point. Due to circumstances beyond my control. I was living in ''the hood'' in NOLA. I actually liked it. Funny thing was is that I didn't know anyone, and became pretty cool with the other people that lived there. I actually enjoyed the neighbors and they way they watched out for everyone. I also lived in the ''burbs'' too. Neighboring with the ''Im holier than thou art'' and the ''My car is way better than yours'' I find no matter where you live there's evil/arrogant and ignorance everywhere. Exactly. Elitism is sh!tty, no matter where it occurs.

Kudzet Joined Sat 09/28/13 Posts: 3	Fri 10/18/13 02:28 PM
True

Jesicav Joined Sun 06/02/13 Posts: 10	Fri 10/18/13 03:25 PM
i would date a white guy... i dnt travel the world very much but from here white guys are mainly into white girls.

dlaw4g Joined Tue 08/06/13 Posts: 36	Fri 10/18/13 11:30 PM
I'm going to modify a response I gave in another thread, because it fits this topic and I'm too lazy to completely write a new one. If you happened to get to know a person of another race and you formed a relationship based on mutual interests, hobbies, activities, etc. I wouldn't have a problem with it. What bothers me is when people go out looking for a certain "other" it's like you're objectifying them, you're not dating them for them, you're dating them because of their age, race, etc. If you happened to click with a person of a different race as a person, and they click with you, as a person, by all means, go for it. But most of the time, someone is looking for something "different" and "exotic" and they get off on the fact that you're different and exotic and I think that's creepy. There, you asked for input from a black woman, you have it. I never considered other races exotic outside of like Brazil or the Caribbean. Must have accent too...not Nigerian accent. In America there's rich, middle class and hood. All three classes include all races. I agree with you that people who are obsessed with a particular race or look can be creepy or it could be a fetish like tickling. If two hearts and minds click though ....there are no boundaries. ..........Someone please go through her profile and give us one reason why we should believe her to be genuine..... ...She is genuine. I did not say you should say it;i said give one reason why she is....

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Fri 10/18/13 11:48 PM
i say whatever floats your boat,go for it

youngfrance92 Joined Fri 10/18/13 Posts: 23	Sat 10/19/13 09:17 AM
You love black guys?

youngfrance92 Joined Fri 10/18/13 Posts: 23	Sat 10/19/13 09:20 AM
I love that baby

youngfrance92 Joined Fri 10/18/13 Posts: 23	Sat 10/19/13 09:23 AM
I like that comment

youngfrance92 Joined Fri 10/18/13 Posts: 23	Sat 10/19/13 09:26 AM
Your comment touches my heart

youngfrance92 Joined Fri 10/18/13 Posts: 23	Sat 10/19/13 09:27 AM
Hello

youngfrance92 Joined Fri 10/18/13 Posts: 23	Sat 10/19/13 09:28 AM
Y did u say such thing

youngfrance92 Joined Fri 10/18/13 Posts: 23	Sat 10/19/13 09:34 AM
Well it seams white girls don't like black guys but I like both white and black girls

youngfrance92 Joined Fri 10/18/13 Posts: 23	Sat 10/19/13 09:35 AM
Well it seams white girls don't like black guys but I like both white and black girls

youngfrance92 Joined Fri 10/18/13 Posts: 23	Sat 10/19/13 09:40 AM
I think white ladies are afraid of black guys why?

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Sat 10/19/13 10:48 AM
Love does not see skin color....Skin color does not dictate love.... Because we all have emotions,feelings,thoughts,pains,moodswings and only and only red blood running in our veins!