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Topic: Older women
Candiapples Joined Thu 07/18/13 Posts: 1941	Sat 10/12/13 01:09 PM
If you happened to get to know a woman who was older and you formed a relationship based on mutual interests, hobbies, activities, etc. I wouldn't have a problem with it. What bothers me is when people go out looking for a certain "other" it's like you're objectifying them, you're not dating them for them, you're dating them because of their age, race, etc. If you happened to click with an older woman as a person, and she clicks with you, as a person, by all means, go for it. But most of the time, someone is looking for something "different" and I think that's creepy. Also, you're saying we're lumping younger people into one category, but aren't you doing the same by saying they're all more mature and more attractive? All older women aren't one thing, just like all younger men aren't one thing. Again, my opinion..... You have a really good point..it feels like they are stalking out older women..creepy yes

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Sat 10/12/13 01:11 PM
If you happened to get to know a woman who was older and you formed a relationship based on mutual interests, hobbies, activities, etc. I wouldn't have a problem with it. What bothers me is when people go out looking for a certain "other" it's like you're objectifying them, you're not dating them for them, you're dating them because of their age, race, etc. If you happened to click with an older woman as a person, and she clicks with you, as a person, by all means, go for it. But most of the time, someone is looking for something "different" and I think that's creepy. Also, you're saying we're lumping younger people into one category, but aren't you doing the same by saying they're all more mature and more attractive? All older women aren't one thing, just like all younger men aren't one thing. Again, my opinion..... You have a really good point..it feels like they are stalking out older women..creepy yes Thank you. Glad someone gets it.

hellsboy Joined Tue 09/17/13 Posts: 2549	Sat 10/12/13 01:12 PM
Candi ur still young at heart

Candiapples Joined Thu 07/18/13 Posts: 1941	Sat 10/12/13 01:13 PM
Thankyou hun..I do feel yung [most days] lol

hellsboy Joined Tue 09/17/13 Posts: 2549	Sat 10/12/13 01:14 PM
Feel it always baby

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33285	Sat 10/12/13 01:35 PM
If you happened to get to know a woman who was older and you formed a relationship based on mutual interests, hobbies, activities, etc. I wouldn't have a problem with it. What bothers me is when people go out looking for a certain "other" it's like you're objectifying them, you're not dating them for them, you're dating them because of their age, race, etc. If you happened to click with an older woman as a person, and she clicks with you, as a person, by all means, go for it. But most of the time, someone is looking for something "different" and I think that's creepy. Also, you're saying we're lumping younger people into one category, but aren't you doing the same by saying they're all more mature and more attractive? All older women aren't one thing, just like all younger men aren't one thing. Again, my opinion..... Well said Lol and in another thread a guy complained that old women was all he could find here laugh

lionsbrew Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 14232	Sat 10/12/13 01:49 PM
I had a really screwed up experience with an older woman.(My ex wife and mother of my son). After that whole thing happened I put a limit to the age range I will date within. It was really bad and I know most of it is cause my ex is.............my ex for a reason.

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Sat 10/12/13 01:55 PM
I had a really screwed up experience with an older woman.(My ex wife and mother of my son). After that whole thing happened I put a limit to the age range I will date within. It was really bad and I know most of it is cause my ex is.............my ex for a reason. It's normal to react like that, I have certain types of people I don't trust for the same reason.

Luvs2Lafff Joined Thu 10/03/13 Posts: 201	Sat 10/12/13 01:56 PM
Most of us are done raising(or almost done)and don't want to raise anymore.. Stability comes with age and experience... you will get there... later

katskary Joined Mon 08/26/13 Posts: 178	Sun 10/13/13 01:06 AM
I agree and I respect your opinions and everyone's else's can just be frustrating sometimes we are all different men at a certain age bracket tend 2 think along the same line

Sweetnessrules1964 Joined Mon 10/14/13 Posts: 4	Mon 10/14/13 05:01 AM
You should try cougar.com

samkid106 Joined Mon 10/14/13 Posts: 1	Mon 10/14/13 07:45 AM
Hi every one

brian59c Joined Tue 10/08/13 Posts: 2	Mon 10/14/13 06:36 PM
"it's faster horses, younger women, older whiskey, and more money"

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Mon 10/14/13 07:01 PM
If you happened to get to know a woman who was older and you formed a relationship based on mutual interests, hobbies, activities, etc. I wouldn't have a problem with it. What bothers me is when people go out looking for a certain "other" it's like you're objectifying them, you're not dating them for them, you're dating them because of their age, race, etc. If you happened to click with an older woman as a person, and she clicks with you, as a person, by all means, go for it. But most of the time, someone is looking for something "different" and I think that's creepy. Also, you're saying we're lumping younger people into one category, but aren't you doing the same by saying they're all more mature and more attractive? All older women aren't one thing, just like all younger men aren't one thing. Again, my opinion..... You have a really good point..it feels like they are stalking out older women..creepy yes Agreed; I find it creepy as well.