how deep must u know someone b4 marrying or getting married 2 them? is sexual compatibility part ov it?

yes

Definitely. I've dated about three men from here who I already felt that for, but there isn't anyone I feel attracted to at this minute, unless you count all men who have a northern irish accent :P lol. I'm hoping to move to Northern Ireland, just so I can hear that hot as hell accent upon waking up every morning. It's better than any radio alarm, to me :) I normally have to know him quite well. About one and a half years, before getting too deep into it. It can work, with the right match.

you should deeply know all of his/her sides and habits , sexual compatibility is one of the main sides of the relation , what if he/she had a fetish or a sort of sexual habit you can't get along with ? I've read in a previous post that a girl had a fetish of her boyfriend watching her making love to another ... that's an example to how freak can someone be , which u have to know early enough ...
so yes , i prefer long term relationships before marriage , so u can discover all of the partner hidden sides of personality

Yes. Definitely Couples does not have to get married until they both are satisfied with each others performance.

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Definitely wait till your not on cloud nine anymore. And yes, to me sexual compatibility is part of it.
Not only what both like to do, but also the frequency. --> Been in a long term relationship with a man who hardly ever wanted sex. Drove me up the wall.
Not sure how long I'd wait to get married. Depends on the connection, relationship etc.

sex is not that difficult really,

its in the mind and in the body,, and even during forced sexual relations,, the body has very similar reactions to the 'arousal' of consentual sex

if we can get in touch with our mind, and our partners mind,, and make that connection

and if we are open to sharing and receiving in communication

the 'compatibility' will take care of itself

if we place too much pressure on the strict 'physical' side of it,, we may get discouraged or miss out on developing something amazing,,

we were all first timers once,, we learn with practice and commitment from that time on,, and we start over with each new partner,, learning and practicing what works with and for them

some guyz use sexual compatibility as a way 2 sleep around wit every woman they date.

so ? do u dance according to their rhythm ? do you want to spend a negative life just in case ? those are sick people , and identifying their sickness is as easy as knowing if someone is sad or happy by looking at his face ...
live your life as it should be lived , and when u face such people ... a kick on balls will solve the issue

Sexual compatibility is very important in a "relatonship" for me.
I would ask a lot of personal questions and listen for the responses if I believe them to be true or not, may take some time to find out
all I need to know.

I think it's pretty important. I mean if you're into different stuff...both of you will end up trying to do things you're uncomfortable with to please the other...or if you don't, you won't have any means of pleasing the other. So...how will you share yourselves physically?

There is a reason why irreconcilable differences is grounds for divorce and is probably cited as the reason for most divorces. People do not know each other and they find out when certain situations arise and they see each others reaction or non-reaction to things.

To answer the question, I think time should be taken to get to know one another. I mean anybody can say anything right but when you see who they are in action is what really matters.

Hell yes, sexual compatibility is a huge part of having a successful relationship! For those who want to wait until after the marriage to sample the goods, good luck.

they really nag...chopping them off sounds much better!

yah im 18 and a big difference with women in their 30's is that they often dont.. err .. shave as neatly as gilrs my age-can be a turnoff-or maybe im just not used to it

for me, knowing their standards, values, moral compass
how they treat others and how they carry themselves,, how they relate to and with friends and family

are all important to know before tying the knot,,,as far as sexual compatibility,, I have been blessed/cursed to not have any partner who couldn't figure out how sex works,,,,it only takes PAYING ATTENTION and communicating,, it isn't rocket science to learn compatibility with a partner,,,,,,,

Sex is something you can learn about and an emotional connection really helps improve that. So having an emotional connection with someone and seeing that she has all the qualities I want in a partner I would have to say its not as important as something like loyalty is to me.

I expect to have to run in a new girlfriend. All I really need to know is how much sex she can handle and how often she wants it.

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