Topic: how to know she is in love with me
ramdya's photo
Sat 09/14/13 11:39 PM
am in love with a girl but she is simply quit not even answering.. i expressed to her many times but she s simply looking down. wt to do

Homeless_Butterfly's photo
Sun 09/15/13 12:37 AM
if she would be interesting she would answer :) move on and search for someone else even its hard :)

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sun 09/15/13 04:03 AM
Difficult to say. I'm assuming you're in a Muslim country (?) and societal/behavioral rules are different from western countries.

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Sun 09/15/13 05:01 AM

am in love with a girl but she is simply quit not even answering.. i expressed to her many times but she s simply looking down. wt to do


Listen to her, she is telling you something....flowerforyou

metalwing's photo
Sun 09/15/13 05:05 AM
She is polite and giving you a hint. Can you guess what that might be?

sparkyae5's photo
Sun 09/15/13 07:26 AM
ramdya,,,,,, "actions speak louder than words" her body language is shouting at you,,,,,,,,over 90% of what people say is not the words,,,,,,,,the tone,,,,is she looking in the eye....is the pupil in each enlarged i could go on and on with this ,, we can not do anything about anyone but ourselves,,,,,,,,,,,,,i have had the same problem in the past,,,,,i asked myself why did i pick this person? what part did i play.....what i have found is that "attraction is not a choice" ........example:what i have found is that if a person believes in there heart of hearts that they do not deserve to be happy,,they will do things out of there awareness to push people away especially there other....you have to see your part in your relationships.....this is not a blame thing,,,,,its about growth and change,,, there will always be some pain with growth.......good luck,,,,,smile2

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Sun 09/15/13 08:57 AM
You're all basing your replies on western culture. And the OP doesn't live in a western country. In non-western countries a whole different set of body-language rules apply. Sometimes a woman isn't even supposed to look a (strange) man in the eye. She has to be humble and look down.
If I'm not mistaken, a woman can get corporal punishment in certain countries if she's looked a (strange) man in the eye. Not saying this is the case in the OP's country, but we don't know.

So unless you have knowledge of the OP's culture, we might want to take this into consideration and be somewhat careful with the advice we give.

sparkyae5's photo
Sun 09/15/13 11:41 AM
crystalfairy,,, very well put...........

Wizdad's photo
Sun 09/15/13 03:35 PM
Yes, you are right but what if the guy realy love are deeply than how she thaught ?

marketer11984's photo
Mon 09/16/13 09:16 AM

You're all basing your replies on western culture. And the OP doesn't live in a western country. In non-western countries a whole different set of body-language rules apply. Sometimes a woman isn't even supposed to look a (strange) man in the eye. She has to be humble and look down.
If I'm not mistaken, a woman can get corporal punishment in certain countries if she's looked a (strange) man in the eye. Not saying this is the case in the OP's country, but we don't know.

So unless you have knowledge of the OP's culture, we might want to take this into consideration and be somewhat careful with the advice we give.

Toodygirl5's photo
Mon 09/16/13 11:24 AM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Mon 09/16/13 11:29 AM

You're all basing your replies on western culture. And the OP doesn't live in a western country. In non-western countries a whole different set of body-language rules apply. Sometimes a woman isn't even supposed to look a (strange) man in the eye. She has to be humble and look down.
If I'm not mistaken, a woman can get corporal punishment in certain countries if she's looked a (strange) man in the eye. Not saying this is the case in the OP's country, but we don't know.

So unless you have knowledge of the OP's culture, we might want to take this into consideration and be somewhat careful with the advice we give.


Well said!