Thank God, and the Goddess I ain't a Christian :) I'll just go to the Summerlands and reincarnate at some point.

Thank you.

I'm not telling anyone how to live their life. I just think if you want to have multiple partners, you should stay single or dating your lover and forego marriage altogether. Marriage is SUPPOSED to be a union that foresakes all others, meaning a monogamous relationship, so TO ME it's disrespecting the institution of marriage to screw around on your partner, with or without their blessing. I don't buy into this new age thinking that more freedom to screw around with other people is better, that satisfying one's own desires is more important than honoring your commitment to your partner to love them and only them forever. I personally would just have a hard time whispering "I love you so much baby!" in my husband's ear while I'm getting plowed by some other dude and he's got some bimbo riding him like a bucking bronco.

Yah, no! I'll stay stuck in the dark ages, thanks very much.

Again, to each their own. Not judging others. If that gives ya a woody or soaks your drawers, then you're free to engage in whatever extracurricular activities you see fit. Just don't try to convince me that I'm wrong for wanting monogamy with my man, or for thinking that marriage, traditional marriage, still has value for some people.

Errr ... "new age thing" is not about screwing around with other people, satisfying your own desire and so on.
If you wanna compare or give your opinion on ppl who do that, fair enough, but pls don't mix them or that up with spirituality or " that new age thing". Screwing around, lust and so on have nothing to do with spirituality, that new age thing or matriarchal culture. In actual fact simply screwing around is very patriarchal.

Pretty sure I said "new age thinking" not "new age thing", so I'm guessing you think I meant this "New Golden Age" or the "age of Aquarius" that you mentioned earlier when you misread "new age thing". I know nothing about this new age thing you speak of so I wouldn't comment on it.

I called it new age thinking because we actually have come into a new age with the sexual revolution changing the parameters of acceptable behavior and how people think of marriage and monogamy. I dont' claim to be anymore spiritual than anybody else. I merely stated that I want to remain in the dark ages instead of changing my thinking to the new age thinking these days that surrounds sexual behavior. I value monogamy highly, married or not, simple as that. I give it in my relationship, and I expect it in return. If you don't, that's your perogative, not you as in you personally but in the general sense. Didn't mean to ruffle your feathers.

Now that's really sweet of you