What do you do when one person is always on your mind, one person is all you can think of? What do you do wen your heart starts racing the moment that one person messages you? When you feel upset when you miss the opportunity to talk to them even if it is just for a moment. What do you do when you long to hold that one person in your arms, to walk with them, talk with them, feel there heart beat, and are willing to do anything that makes them happy. What do you do when you long to be with that person, but that person is not in that place yet?

You realize that your emotions are the only ones you can control. Accept and move on.

You buy a dog...LOL

I may be the only one that is in controll of my emotions, but sometimes your emotions and feelings are so strong that you can't just pack up and move on.

You go out and buy a huge vat of chocolate and pig out on it!!!

You do pack up and move on...but the feeling still dont fade.

You can't just pack up and move on and still have the feelings there. Cause if the feelings are still there, you are not really moving on. You can't be with anybody else when all you can think about is that one person.

hey whispertoascream i don't know but if you ever find out let me know i got the same problem i even think about him all the time hope every email might be from him or get a offline from him and you can't always control your emotions specially if your heart has taken over and some might be able to move on but some can't specially if the person you have the feelings for don't tell you too .

I didn't say it would be easy. You take it one minute, hour, day at a time. When you lose someone to death you must learn to cope without them in your life. If you live with the hope that they may someday change their mind you run the risk of never being happy. Mr. Right could walk in and out of your life while you are playing the waiting game with Mr. Wrong. If it is meant to be, it will.

And Gyps, I think I will take that chocolate, along with depressing music, my tears, hopes and dreams. DAMN is my life really that pathetic?

All Smiles, it has been 6 months now, six months of trying. Miss.Right is right. Once your heart has taken over it is almost hopeless.

Only hopeless if you let it be. Happiness is a choice.

Whisper, I do relate. I loved a man who for months said all the right things and yet his actions were totally telling me different. Hurts like hell. Still Hurts..Trying to move on now, but I still dial the phone even to hear his voice mail and look for emails that never come...He didnt fight for me, he said he would, dangit! Now I am depressed

I have heard it said true love will not hurt???? Not so sure about that

Oh that's such a YUMMY feeling to desire someone so strongly!!! You just can't let on how you feel! Think with your head not your heart until you're together, then BAM! Throw it on 'em!!!

whisper, your life is only as pathetic as you allow it to be. it hurts to miss someone you care for, its painful, but nothing in life is hopeless, we are separeted from the animal kingdom by our brains. they can not reason, we can, when we want to. YOU need to take a look and decide what is more important the empty feelings you have or a way to overcome those feelings. we all suffer in our own way, the big differance is how we choose to deal with it. by speaking out today, you have shown a desire to overcome those feelings and move on to a better life, but are unsure how to do that. who the hell knows but by trial and error. i speak from the voice of experiance, i still deal with issues every day, but time heals all wounds, and every day life brings new and happier things into our life if we allow it.

You realize your human,we all grow and love differently.If you really care put it out there for them.Wish you the best.

RUB ONE OUT AND MOVE ON TO THE NEXT FANTASY

If YOU LOVE anything or ONE,,,ENOUGH,,,YOU DEAR LADY,,,,,,,"CAN DO ANY and EVERYTHING, to MAKE life work, for the BOTH of YOU!!!!! Distance, work, time,...IT WILL ALWAYS WORK,,,IF YOU MAKE IT WORK!!!! Good luck.....

I agree with Gypsy. Chocolate works...unless you are diabetic.

My best therapy has always been getting pedicures with my girlies and then some retail therapy.

Whisper-I have no words of wisdom since it is too early to think clearly. Just try to get through each day as best as you can. If it is meant to be, you will be together. Ahhhh, sorry for the cliche. Too early in the morning.

M