So me and my girlfriend head to a bar, and we meet her friends there for her friends birthday party and then I saw that her best mates boyfriend is proper chatting her up, so I confront him and he's like saying someone he knows is in the corner what aload of be. Anyways the next day she tells me that he kept asking her for a blowjob, to which she then says oh don't worry about it he can't still come to my birthday party in a few days with his girlfriend agan.

And she's getting all pissy wih me because I don't think he should be aload to go to the birthday party as I don't feel comfortable with it and these sort of things shouldont be said to someone if you know full well that someone is in a realsonship with them but et she thinks I've blown it out of proportion.

Your thoughts

Jmo.....To much Drama....not worth it
Have to worry...not worth it
Stress full....not worth it
No effort.......not worth it
If I have to worry.and wonder not worth it
If I have to chase.....not worth it


a relationship should not be hard or have to be forced
to me it should come easy ...or maybe it's not meant to be

I agree and don't let the stress get to you and make a bad choice about the other stuff

Chatting up sounds wet and dirty!

Just to be on the safe side, I'd make sure she gargled real good before kissing her.

SMACK him with a baseball bat !
lol

just playing...

why are you confronting HIM about it?

honestly you could probably care less about what HE does,

However, what's bothering you is your GF's Behavior confront HER about it. If she doesn't want to change anything with the way he is interacting with her(tell him off), than you should move on. Just my opinion.

No the problem I have is at even though she said no her him and her best friend dont see any problem with him coming to the next birthday party, which I think is totally out or Oder seeming as he's trying to hit on my woman but them three song see it like that :/

her best mates boyfriend asked her for a blow j more than once? seems like she kept turning this bloke down. lucky for you, she could have taken up sword swallowing in a broom closet

since he doesn't think it's rude to ask a women who has a boyfriend for a blow j, why don't you ask his girlfriend to blow you? remember to be persistent like he was. maybe his girlfriend isn't as loyal as yours

dude, i guarantee i guarantee if your girlfriend isn't taking this cat seriously than you shouldn't either
(bulldog double guarantee - patent pending)

Well, you are the only one that has a problem with him then. Sounds like your woman wants you to fight for her. Is he a big bloke and do you think that you can take him mate?

This was the email I sent to Stacey once I had found out, obviously I was angry at the time see bulldog respect to you.

Im going to be totally honest with you now.

I don't want your boyfriend attending Stephanie's birthday party because I think he's a complete jackass, showing such disrespect not to just you but to me also by saying one thing to me and it turning to be another and also why on earth are you dating a guy that's secretly sending messages to people and going through your phone? Yes I saw it. Another thing, Stephanie always ends up crying when she's drunk and I don't want vile human being to do the same thing again, and make her cross on her birthday because that's not fair. And in terms of the blowjob, Stacey I've even told Stephanie how I find you extremely sexually attractive, however I don't go and ask mŷ best friends partner to shuve a cock in your mouth.

I don't want a reply, as I'm very cross about this especially as Stephanie hasont given a damn about my feelings in this.

My advice to you is go and find someone who treats you with a level of respect that you disereve, however in life you set your own limits and you set standards to which you find to be deemed acceptable and ones that arnt and to be honest from what I've seen your definition of acceptable is incredibly blurred.

I don't hold a grudge against you, however I'm well and truly pissed about this.

All the best sweetheart

Sent from my iPad

so you told your girlfriend (stephanie) that you find her friend (stacey) extremely sexually attractive, and you still have all your teeth? sounds like stephanie is a really laid back girl

well bro, looks like you are going to have to let stephanie have her birthday party guests be whoever she wants them to be. it's cool bro, just keep an eye on this bloke and make sure he doesn't have an opportunity to be alone with stephanie. i would get some of stephanie's other girlfriends to keep her company so this bloke doesn't have a chance to say anything to her

you could always "accidentally" spill a drink on him so he would be forced to leave the party early

The reason why I said that though to her was because I was using it sort of as an an analgery. For example I might find her attractive but it dosont mean I want her to suck my dick you know because I'm happy with the girl that I'm with but Stephanie is like oh well Stacey Isent coming now blah blah blah when to be honest with you I honestly feel like Stacey was bei selfish to not just me but to Stephanie when she got any pissy about when I asked for her boyfriend not to come because it would just make the party Awkward.

Im liking the accidental bit ;)

Are u at least getting laid?

I know if my old lady didn't mind getting allow chatted up and asked for blow jobs, I'd make sure my stick was getting dipped.

In terms of me wanting to fight the guy, I wouldont want to do that as I have been professionally trained in mixed martial arts so I know I could really hurt him if i wanted to. And in terms of getting laid, yes I'm still getting laid or etleast I was until today :/

No fight



just a smack down...



Yeah you gotta deal with it in your own way pard
Good luck with that !

Pard?

Well, tell her that she can go to the party on her own then because you aren't going to be able to just stand there doing nothing when this guy is doing that.

It's a win win solution for you mate. Either this guy that you don't like doesn't come or you get out of going to another boring party that your girlfriend's trying to drag you along to.

Pard =Partner/pal/friend

Yup, too much drama.

Either take him out back and beat the crap outta him or forget about it.