Topic: am i too deep ?
Stan4life's photo
Mon 09/02/13 01:08 AM
i'm wondering if i'm too deep because maybe i believe i am. The things that always matters the most to me is matters of the heart and im just not finding people like that. I tried to be romantic in my past relationships but it always got overlooked, i'm not a very materialistic person and that may turn some off but i can't change who i am.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Mon 09/02/13 03:17 AM
It isn't all that easy to find the right person for you. Maybe you just went for the wrong girls, maybe there's another reason. Sometimes it helps to look at how the relationship started, when and why things changed. What reasons for breaking up were you given?
If every girl you've been in a relationship with, tells you the same thing, there might be something there.
Maybe you're so focused on the love side of things, that you smother them?

pkh's photo
Mon 09/02/13 03:20 AM
I just saw you post in rate my profile maybe update it. Good luck

Stan4life's photo
Mon 09/02/13 03:20 AM
it doesn't always end the same way and i don't think i smothered them, i love in just the person that i am, but maybe you right, they were probably just the wrong girls.

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Mon 09/02/13 03:52 AM
Maybe it's the fact you're religious. Some may feel they have to be religious to date you. Some won't date non-religious. It all depends on what standards you have.

Stan4life's photo
Mon 09/02/13 05:26 AM
i'm not religeous, just spiritual and i don't have a problem with religion or the lack thereof but thanks for your opinion. Lets see how things go ;-)

sparkyae5's photo
Mon 09/02/13 02:43 PM
you can change,you can be the best you.....woman are looking for a sort of bad boy type, it has to do with him being able be strong and no lose it..... good guys have a hard time..... get a life coach to help you....you have to start on the inside and see what it is holding you back....get the inside handled ....the out will take care of its self.......check out david de angelo's self help video's and cd's for example.....good luck.. ..i wish you the best....

anita087's photo
Mon 09/02/13 08:58 PM
I am single, in my mid-20's and single. I can't seem to find a decent guy. I am not that picky, but like most people, won't get involved with just anyone. I don't go to bars, since I think Christians shouldn't be drinking and wasting time there, and I think it's innappropriate. There aren't really any coffee houses in my area, so its hard to meet a decent guy who is Christian. I used to go to other churches in the past, but everyone seems to be taken/ involved w/ someone. How am I supposed to meet guys? Would I need to get out of my comfrot zone, or sacrafice some of my good values? Any advice?