I had a date with a co-worker, and we had a nice time at a comedy club,
we have been friends for 5 years,
and now he asked me if we can have a serius relationship,
he said he likes me, and I like him to.
My consern is that if the relationship doen't work, we wont be the good
friends that we where.
and other co-worker told me that she likes him, didn't say anything to
her, he asked me out to disscuss our relationship and I realy need some
advice, because we work together and the situation can be unconfortable.

Morena

If you like him go for it.. Lifeis short.. anything you try you pay for
some how..so get out your check book and have fun..WILL

I guess I wouldn't be the best one to comment on this topic Morena. My
motto is that I most generally don't date people where I work. I learned
that the hard way in the past. Things can and often do become very
"weird" and uncomfortable. Please be careful, it also sounds as though
it might be more of a problem with a fellow female collegue. Just watch
your back baby cakes...

J

Morena, go out and sit down with your co-worker and tell him about your
concerns over any relationship that may form between you both. Tell him
that you think that you think your co-worker relationship, and your
personal relationship should be kept seperate from one another, and the
personal relationship part should be kept away from the workplace. If he
really wants a true serious relationship with you, he will respect these
terms. That way, should things go bad in the personal part, you should
still be able to stay friends as co-workers.

Im thinking, realy
I will be so hurt if I loose his friendship and also I don't want to
hurt my female co-worker who likes him,
I also don't know if he has spoken to her about this.

Hi Morena, I think u shouldn't date someone who works with u. It's
personal people start being nosiy and trying to find out about your
business. If things doesn't work out it could be a pretty uncomfortable
situations seeing that person every day.

I dated someone at work and it was a BIG mistake, But you never want to
let go of something that might of been, So it is a double edge wammy I
would say.
Keep the lines of cimmunication open with him and if it is ment to be it
will be if not it will not.
Dont stress just take it as it comes and have fun!

Morena gurl life is about takin risks, you gotta take them or else you
never grow as a person. I say go for it, but do express you concerns to
him. Let him know whats inside your head, it never hurts.

just go 4 it!

we will go out for dinner saturday
we will talk, and lets see what happens
your coments are realy, realy making me think clear about things.

Morena,

follow your gut feelings

read Ur 4 PM post

i don't normally date women that i work with but you said that the two
of you have been great friends for a few years. how strong are your
feelings for him? just my opinion but it doesn't sound like you are in
love with him but you do enjoy his friendship and company. if you do
have strong feelings above friendship, go fo it.

4me
I know what you mean
thanks.

king
I think I am tire of being alone and thought that if I when with him, I
was going to feel better but is not like that

thank you girls
it looks like is not a good idea
I will think how to explain things to him
and keep work and relationship separate
I know is the correct thing to do
thak you all.



morena

Morena,
You belong to me honey. You better not. Lolol

Listen I dtaed a co-worker. Married her. Raised 3 kids and divorced her
after 18 years together so needless to say the working together part was
not the cause of the divorce. You can do it if you really want to but it
takes alot of eefort and you have to remember you wont be able to come
home and complain about work because youre both at the same place.
Anything is possible. You just didnt sound to convincing as far as this
guy being really really someone you want to spent some major time with.
You just said " you liked him" Now if you had said this guy rocks my
world just by walking in the room then we might have something. So do
you really want him or you just want some company because you feel
alone?
Remember Im always here sweetie. Lolol
Good luck !!!!!

sounds like you are making the right decision for yourself morena. good
luck at dinner and i hope that guy you're looking for comes along real
soon

thank you King
I did not go
got upsed and canceled the date, I will see him at work monday and will
talk then

Tell him at work, you XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX, !

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