This is a question that usually raise a lot of disagreements .With sentiments apart, who do you think is the most jealous,man or woman?

Senseless question Men and women both have varying ranges of emotional expression. Each gender has its own way for self expression too!!

yup..agree with u..

i think that most often it's the one who is the most fearful of loss, distrustful of partners or sometimes is lacking self confidence.

Since we are the sum of our past...basically jealousy is the most prevelent in those having trouble letting go of a part of their past.

I believe this is equally true of men and women alike.

i think men r more jealous though dy dont express it like ladies do

I think, GENERALLY, women are more emotional but are more likely to or end their life or someone elses over a relationship


men, generally, are more likely to commit domestic abuse against the woman

The most jealous are men, because of their Big Egos.

Both.
Everyone is jealous.
No one sex can be more jealous than the other.

Next question.

The one who is insecure and who operates from fear and control rather than the fullness of themselves. They gets their needs filled by outside sources they think they have to control because they don't know that there is another way.

Gender is irrelevant.


and ... as a sidebar... many people confuse jealousy with love or jealousy with caring. If you really care about me, you will be jealous ... nonsense!!!

Smart cookie ^^^


It's all about Fear, Fear of the unknown, fear of getting duped and Fear of losing someone special.

I think there's a way to express our fears but anger is the most common reaction... it gets all weird and controlling when anger sets in.... Toxic!


Men & Women... same

men

To me, men are more jealous but us being men we hold in alot emotion, women on the other hand being the emotional creature will express her jealousy with arguements. Men most of the time will just go out and cheat once he starts feeling jealous to build that confidence back up. When u cross certain boundaries in any relationship/marriage the trust is very hard to build back up.

It's not as simple as who is more jealous men or women, it's a matter of how we react to jealousy. Women tend to me more emotional and express their jealousy in an emotional manner. Men on the other hand are more physical and tend to express their jealousy in a more physical manner.

Well i think the one who feels more insecure and act from fear rather than be more realistic.

let go of my eggo

dogs

not sure that Greeneyed Monster has any particular Gender!

no really it is not nonsense. it's a perfectly normal emotion. it's healthier I think to acknowledge the full range of emotions.

Where jealousy is destructive is where it exists when ones partner has not behaved in a way that should make you feel jealous. the responsibility we have is to behave in a respectful manner that is not going to cause a healthy individual to feel jealous.

so jealousy can occur and be either warranted or unwarranted. but nothing is wrong with jealous twinges when our partner is not making us a prioity in an appropriate manner. it's how we deal with it that is salient. emotions are not right or wrong, good or bad. it's how we deal with them that makes or breaks a relationship

only if you allow it to become toxic, which usually happens when you do not take a healthy approach at delaing with it.

it is also sometimes about knowledge. We haven;t paid much attention here to partners who behave in manner that causes jealousy yet that definitely happens

if you are at a party flirting all night with other women, then later, or the next day don;t even try to pretend that you can't understand why your partner feels a little jealous and probably a little devalued also. in a situation where jealousy arises, it is important that BOTH partners examine how they may have contributed

irrespective of gender. gender issues are irrelevant

Are you saying that love and caring require jealousy?

What is jealousy? It is fear and anxiety about losing something. It is a belief that someone else is getting what you want and that somehow you couldn't have it. It is a belief in lack and that there is not enough to go around. It is a need to control. That may be normal in your world but it is not in mine.

If I am in a jealous place, I am not living the fullness of me. In a jealous place there is insecurity. In a jealous place their is control. And in a jealous place, I would have to believe that someone has something that I do not or could not have.

When I am out with my guy and another woman hits on him, I don't get jealous. I think...yeah he is awesome and cute as hell, I can see why you would want some of that...how lucky am I that he is coming home with me. I have no need to control another nor do I require them to alter who they are so that I can feel secure and whole.

We are each responsible for our own emotions, our own fulfillment and our own happiness. Jealousy turns us away from ourselves every time and is a distraction from fully living.