Well I must say after reading quite a few posts in different forums on here that I cant believe how many deluded, rude, arrogant, and self righteous men are on this site!! Wow!! Seems pretty sad to me. You know its not all about the battle of the sexes......its more about personality and the type of person you are. Men and women both I think are just looking for a honest, loving, and loyal partner they can share interests with and spend a lifetime of love with. Unfortunately due to a few bad circumstances many people typecast all of one gender into the same category unfairly. So here's my advice guys.....if shes not interested it doesn't mean shes stupid, vain or a whore....it simply means she wasn't the one for you and you either need to keep looking or fix some of those things scaring people away. And please don't take offense!! I'm not saying there's anything wrong with you but if the opposite sex keeps running away from you maybe you should take a hard look at why and fix it. For either sex I'd have to say arrogance, self righteousness, a false sense of superiority, vanity, lying, and unfaithfulness are all going to be big turn offs. So please understand that not all women (or men for that matter) are the same, quit playing the blame game, FIX YOURSELF, and keep looking till you find that person meant for you. Oh and as for the guys and girls on here just looking for a booty call talking trash.....good luck with that but kindly keep your opinions to yourselves.

hi sheelly here is so many posts if choose your interest and dont be sd about just try to find and date online u r partner first u can use messenger for privacy nobody will disturb u thr....and after then follow the flow of thoughts and mind of public here in diff,posts dont worry be happy

Hahaha.....thanks sanjeev but I'm not sad :) Im just a strong woman expressing her disgust at the sad line of thoughts coming from so many on this site....:) I am a very happy person so all good....but thanks :)

your welcome u know u r so sweet girl......keep it up bravo

Sure, if I had anything about me needing to be fixed...I'll just wait until I come across a Goddess with dreams of conquering this petty world side by side with me.*

*Fully understanding that she will only ever hold second in command.

I donno...

One person's deluded and arrogant...is another person's self confidence.

Hey..it worked for me.

I am as mouthy and conceited as they come. Yet I found the love of my life right here.

I guess my point is diversity gives us options beyond "plain"

So Shellie....just ignore the ones that obviously you don't like....and focus on the rest of the fine gentlemen here.

There are plenty of good folks here...just like there are plenty of douches. (That's French)

:)

Humm well regardless if it is this site or other sites...Everyone has their own issues... Some can be crude and rude within their responses but many times they are just ranting such as you have and in reality they could be some of the best people...

I've always been a true believer to take a deep look in the mirror before I judge when another is only forming a opinion...

Believe me there are a lot of great guys that post within the forums...Those that have issues that turn you away from them don't let them get to you......there are more good then bad ones within the forums....

Hi Shelley :) I hear ya. Also, I much doubt they'll stop, despite your best interests. I only broke up with someone a few month ago, so I put in my profile that I'm only seeking friend's. I think that should be enough to let em know I don't want another boyfriend yet. I think it's good to talk with the forum peeps, as you get to know them. You get to know in due time, who is serious, and who isn't. If it annoys you that much, just block em. Then there's no way they can carry on doing it.


Right. Off to do some exercise now. See ya later.

Men are dogs.

Oh, gee. If it is permissible for you to share your opinion in a public forum, then why isn't it permissible for the aforementioned "guys and girls on here just looking for a booty call talking trash" to share their opinions in the same forum?

Telling people to keep their opinions to themselves is a form of rudeness, too.

Just because she isn't Filipina doesn't mean you can be mean to her.

Sorry Shellie, I spelt your name wrong. Excuse my dyslexia. It's just that sometimes my mind can see three or more other versions of a word, if it has a lot of the same letters in it. . It's like playing 'Scrabble', but in my head. For all I said I'm not looking to be with anyone right now, I kinda am, but he hasn't returned yet, so I can't ask him. I only remember how much love I feel for him. But I'm also not sure if I should. As he neglected our friendship. I'll stop going on about that. I'm probably just annoying you with it. Hope you feel better soon.

the forums are here too express your thoughts long you are not rude i come on here for forums dont judge us all same way as we dont judge women all same way hope iv not miss point lol coz sometime i do hehe

Deluded,hmmmmmm?

Pointing out rudeness in the OP is mean? According to what standard?

I agree. I alos think sometimes for the sake of brevity we generalize a little when we don't mean to. so if I say why do guys tend to their butt cracks show...I am NOT saying why do all guys let their butt cracks show

there's a few who don't ( )


seriously - It might be best to assume that people do not mean all men or all women when they post

Fyi to all.....I'm not bothered by these types of people personally per say......I as an enlightened person find it sad and pathetic that so many men from the posts I've read on here feel this way and choose to display their obvious disrespect and contempt of the opposite sex on a venue meant to attract a partner not push one away.....:) You would think we were still stuck in the 1800's not 2013.....Lmao.....:)

Excuse me, but in the OP, the author tells a certain group of people to keep their opinions to themselves, and you find nothing wrong with that?

Well, I'm not all the other men on here. I personally resent that observation.

Why? Because I pride myself on being different. I don't care to emulate others, hold court, or I have better toys than you. I could care less if I've impressed them or not. I don't speak badly of them, and I'll walk away from pi**ing contest, because I want no part of it. I'm not a win-lose type of person. Quite honestly, men can be da**ed boring to me.

I have a few close female friends that I'd much rather spend time with. And, they aren't "friends with benefits", because I respect them for who they are.

You really don't know me. Don't put me in a group and label me.