Topic: Sex before marriage...
ouylm's photo
Mon 02/17/14 03:46 PM
sex outside marrige is a sin again onces own body, for we have been bought wth a price which jesus christ paid for our ransom on d cross.

CowboyGH's photo
Tue 02/18/14 07:52 PM

You gotta test drive a car before you just go all in and buy it lol that's all I'm saying


Oh, so your entire relationship and or view of the relationship is the same as when you go to buy a vehicle? If the ride isn't like how you prefer it, you don't get it?

And that's the only reason you're looking for a "relationship"? Because if that weren't true, on the level of the relationship working or not wouldn't depend on sexual intercourse and if it didn't depend on the intercourse then there would be no reason for a test drive.

And also that places the "value" to it equal to again purchasing a car. Is that as high as you or another(s) value "sexual intercourse" these days? Have people truly lost the magic and passion in love making? On that note, is "love making" still in existence? Or is everyone just having sex these days?

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Thu 02/20/14 12:52 AM
Edited by angelsplash on Thu 02/20/14 12:55 AM
Sex before marriage is a sin and it also wrong but bcx of d world we are now in, u hardly find a husband with bring lay-ed

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Thu 02/20/14 11:05 AM
how it possible

larsson71's photo
Thu 02/20/14 01:00 PM
Gotta try before you buy though? Who wants to get to their wedding night and then find out that you've bought the only wheelbarrow with the squeaky wheel ! ha ha ha ha

CowboyGH's photo
Thu 02/20/14 03:10 PM
Edited by CowboyGH on Thu 02/20/14 03:12 PM

Gotta try before you buy though? Who wants to get to their wedding night and then find out that you've bought the only wheelbarrow with the squeaky wheel ! ha ha ha ha


But what does it matter if you did? Would that be the only thing you could/can love on a woman? And if you don't love that with her, you don't love her?

And does it not make it so incredibly much more special if you knew that you were the only person your spouse has been with? Sex is a bonding thing, only ONE time will that woman break her "skin". And that is the way God made it, and works out perfectly with his reasoning of being with one spouse through life. And thus is why it's "wrong" why then it's a sin.

And even side note, thus the reason a wedding dress is traditionally white. To symbolize purity, to symbolize virgin.

larsson71's photo
Fri 02/21/14 01:54 AM


Gotta try before you buy though? Who wants to get to their wedding night and then find out that you've bought the only wheelbarrow with the squeaky wheel ! ha ha ha ha


But what does it matter if you did? Would that be the only thing you could/can love on a woman? And if you don't love that with her, you don't love her?

And does it not make it so incredibly much more special if you knew that you were the only person your spouse has been with? Sex is a bonding thing, only ONE time will that woman break her "skin". And that is the way God made it, and works out perfectly with his reasoning of being with one spouse through life. And thus is why it's "wrong" why then it's a sin.

And even side note, thus the reason a wedding dress is traditionally white. To symbolize purity, to symbolize virgin.
Yeah, I wanna try before I buy and if it has a squeaky wheel, I will replace it for one that hasn't. Oh an save yer preaching for somebody that gives a hoot, eh? Cos I don't!

CowboyGH's photo
Fri 02/21/14 04:45 AM



Gotta try before you buy though? Who wants to get to their wedding night and then find out that you've bought the only wheelbarrow with the squeaky wheel ! ha ha ha ha


But what does it matter if you did? Would that be the only thing you could/can love on a woman? And if you don't love that with her, you don't love her?

And does it not make it so incredibly much more special if you knew that you were the only person your spouse has been with? Sex is a bonding thing, only ONE time will that woman break her "skin". And that is the way God made it, and works out perfectly with his reasoning of being with one spouse through life. And thus is why it's "wrong" why then it's a sin.

And even side note, thus the reason a wedding dress is traditionally white. To symbolize purity, to symbolize virgin.
Yeah, I wanna try before I buy and if it has a squeaky wheel, I will replace it for one that hasn't. Oh an save yer preaching for somebody that gives a hoot, eh? Cos I don't!


So she would be no more importance to you then a used car? And preaching? What preaching? Merely having a discussion. Sorry you don't agree with what I say so then try to use the scapegoat of claiming it to be preaching. Sad part about that though, is you are doing the exact same thing just with the shoes on the other feet. You said what you believe, so I responded with what I believe. It's called a discussion. And why so surprised someone is discussing the "religion" they believe in? You would think this was a general "religion" chat or something.


Heskey2219's photo
Fri 02/21/14 05:31 AM
Your conscience will tell you if it is a sin or not. So many Christians believe that it is a sin therefore if they go into it it becomes sin. The second group sees it as not a sin and therefore are not committing any sin.

CowboyGH's photo
Fri 02/21/14 05:47 AM
Edited by CowboyGH on Fri 02/21/14 05:48 AM

Your conscience will tell you if it is a sin or not. So many Christians believe that it is a sin therefore if they go into it it becomes sin. The second group sees it as not a sin and therefore are not committing any sin.


It's not our opinion or our choice on if it's a sin or not, that's God's choice. And have shared some things on what God has said along these lines. Your conscience will only tell you it's a sin if your conscience is with God.

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Tue 02/07/17 01:22 PM


well, Id say, if a man takes and clings to one woman, or one woman to one man,, with or without a ceremony or papers,, if their intent and promise to God is to be bound together,, those two having sex is not a sin,,,


the vow before God , imho, makes them husband and wife before God

if they have sex BEFORE The include God in such a vow,, its a sin


huh msharmony, I find nothing in the Bible to support what you said. It appears to me that you are making an excuse for two people having sex with each other without becoming legally married. It is as if you are redefining marriage in order to satisfy one's desire for sex.


The Christian churches made up that rule not God. Nowhere in the Bible does it says sex without marriage is a sin - look at the prophet David for example. When the Bible was written marriage was a contract usually between 2 families.
I was raised Catholic where they teach that sex is only for procreation ( thus the ban on birth control) I say if God created sex only for procreation he wouldn't have made it so enjoyable.

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Sun 02/12/17 09:51 AM
well, Id say, if a man takes and clings to one woman, or one woman to one man,, with or without a ceremony or papers,, if their intent and promise to God is to be bound together,, those two having sex is not a sin,,,


the vow before God , imho, makes them husband and wife before God

if they have sex BEFORE The include God in such a vow,, its a sin[/quote



very good

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Mon 02/20/17 09:17 AM
r u.muslim

Blizi's photo
Mon 02/20/17 10:04 AM

If you are a Christian and you have sex before marriage, it is a sin against your own body. If you are not a Christian then you are already living in sin.


whoa


msharmony's photo
Mon 02/20/17 12:19 PM
Edited by msharmony on Mon 02/20/17 12:21 PM
there are a few interpretations of how the Bible reads on the subject

there is no specific mention of 'sex before marriage'


but there is guidance that each man should have their own wife and each woman should have her own husband (to avoid sexual immorality)

but the bible does not clearly state when God considers a man and woman to be married

in that sense, I am not clear if one is mandated to have a document proclaiming another to be a spouse to be considered married
or if a commitment between a man and a woman and God (without government involvement) qualifies just as much


I think the fool proof route is to be married (government)
I believe its possible to also be committed to each other and God


(without government)


so, sex before government marriage,,,,doesn't hurt

sex before spiritual commitment,,,,bad idea

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Tue 02/21/17 07:55 AM
and this topic on the web I call it the truth.........then whom will aye so......drinker

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Mon 03/06/17 12:43 AM
hi

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Sat 03/25/17 03:09 PM
Christians are followers of Christ. They live not of the flesh but in spirit even though they live in this world. They can do all things through Christ who strengthens them and the word of God is their daily bread. These are a few of the many characteristics of a Christian. So in my opinion, Christians can't and shouldn't fornicate as the Bible said that "flee from fornication " and if by weakness of the flesh we do it, we should repent and not make excuses to justify our sins. It's really not right for a christian to fornicate and not regret his/her actions . God help us all!

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Sat 03/25/17 04:30 PM



Sex before marriage...

Do Christians do it? If so, do they consider it to be a sin?


yep.. we do.. and it is a sin... but its a lot of fun committing that particular sin...

that's why we go to confession every Saturday.. say 3 hail Mary's and 2 our fathers.. light a candle and get a clean slate.

that's how us Catholic get around it... pretty good set up ;)

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Sun 03/26/17 02:37 AM
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