How do u guys love ur gf/bf? I don't quite get it cause whenever I love someone n we start going out then end the relationship by saying they afraid to lose me someday cause am too good? I mean iam not really sure if an doing anything wrong to make them feel that way.. I had had 2 guys in my life and they both dumped me n said that (well I didn't have them at the same time tho hehe) .. Anyways how do u guys show it? N do u think I show it in a wrong way? I mean I keep telling them I loved them n stuff like that .. I cared a lot bout them n always remembered stuff.. Don't get wha iam doing wrong :( .. Iam trying to find new love but I don't wanna make the one I would love feel like he would lose me or something ..:(

well for starters you should know whether you are34 or 18 .

I sometimes find women hard to uderstand are we so differant

Iam 18.. This site made me 34 :/ weird can't change it

REALLY? Maybe a mod can help you change it.

Whas a mod? :)

they are site moderators. They are great people and will help you.
If you go to the help section and post your problem they will tell you how to fix it.

Nah too lazy dosnt matter anyways

It's easy to change your age, just change your birth year in settings. I just did it twice & I'm 99 now!lol My guess is that at a young age of 18 guys are telling you that they love you for sex. Sorry to be so blunt but unless you've been with someone for a number of years, true love hasn't had enough time to flourish & grow properly the way it should. Good luck kid

So, multiple guys have broken up with you saying that you are too good?

You can change your birthdate here:
http://mingle2.com/user/edit_profile

I'd like to roll mine back a few years while your at it.

I bought a car that's mileage was rolled back once.

Didn't make it a new car.

Just sharin'

did you sleep with them? don't mean to be nosy, but journeyman has a good point. but I have a different spin on it

they will tell you that you are too good if you won't have sex as an excuse to break up and find a girl who will have sex

BTW - I learned this thru experience, and I will add DO NOT take him back when he has got his buddy stretched and now wants to come back to you for the real thing

just say no....he doesn't deserve you (and...he will continue to "socialize" with the girls who will give him sex behind your back, and lie to u about it)...if that's what's going on, I mean

I know men. Love men. but I do know how they do.

Hell yeah sweetest, cuz at that age I wasn't looking for "Love"

how unfortunate....

ya I get cha tho...lotta guys in their early twenties just wanna get as much as they can

not all. there are some good ones out there too

are you telling me that men change?

Yes with out love life has nothing.

They both loved me and they are both "Virgins" n over 20 years ... I had a relationship with someone for 4 years n the other for a Half year ... I dot quiet Get why they say am too good but when i was with Them tey were hell jealous n Never let me do stuf cause they were afraid they Will Lose me.. So i Always stayed with Them.. But they both broke up.. I mens i did everythibh for Them.. So dont Get it.. N i do know they arent after sex

Sounds like you should consider yourself lucky they left.

If you're 18 and have had a four year relationship with a man in his 20's, then you were 14 when this relationship began?

I always got an A in math.

If this is true...I'm too upset with your parents to lecture you on your naivete.

If this is not true...I'm too upset with your math teacher to lecture you for story telling.