Community > 50 and over

Topic: What are men over fifty looking for in a relationship?
DatingOnMyMind Joined Wed 06/04/14 Posts: 24	Sat 07/12/14 06:17 PM
Absolutely sex is important at any age!! But liking one another first, friendship, relationship should come first. Sorry to say it, guys, but sooner or later the equipment doesn't work - then what if that's your priority and focus when meeting someone new? Met a guy this week - he wanted sex right away - then he couldn't perform. He was devastated to find this out, as it had been a while & he thought he was still good to go. Now, if he had waited to develop a proper friendship with me first then I would still be seeing him. But, he made sex the focus, so............why should I stick around. He shot himself in the foot.

MrWonderfll3000 Joined Sun 06/15/14 Posts: 41	Sun 07/13/14 06:37 PM
I want my soulmate, romance. Literally. I wish I could find my wonderful woman.

msbez Joined Fri 07/25/14 Posts: 2	Fri 07/25/14 12:46 PM
I speak with a man over 60, and he seems to desire and want the same things I do at 50.

rideAharley Joined Mon 03/03/14 Posts: 2	Sat 07/26/14 01:34 AM
I want a woman to be a life partner... I now do all my own cleaning.. dishes... cooking.. clothing repair.. all of it! A woman can help with those things when I am fixing the plumbing, installing an additional electrical plug for her, or fixing her car or motorcycle.. its a partnership... You take her with you when she would like to go to the hardware store.. she is welcome to join you when you meet the guys at the local pub to watch a football game... She will help you pack your saddle bags for the motorcycle trip you take together to ... where you like to go.. then where she likes to go.. If you don't share your life experiences with her, and have her share hers with you... then your missing what a true relationship is all about.. Love her, and respect her.. show her you care every day with her. Make sure you have her respect by earning it... never sell your integrity because it's like virginity.. once it's gone.. it's gone forever... If you treat her right... like a queen.. she will treat you like a king... That is all I want.. I want it all.. Yes.. I will provide her with a home... I will provide her with a car, and whatever she wants because a man builds a house, and a woman makes it a home... I am not intimidated by frilly curtains, pink pastel paint in the bathroom, or fuzzy slippers... I know my manhood can survive this and much more... I want a woman I can love, who I can trust, and who will love, respect and trust me.. is that too much to ask?

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Sat 07/26/14 05:54 PM
Most Guys Over 50 wants a Young Sexy Chick on their arm,just to show off. Isn't that the truth.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Sat 07/26/14 05:59 PM
Absolutely sex is important at any age!! But liking one another first, friendship, relationship should come first. Sorry to say it, guys, but sooner or later the equipment doesn't work - then what if that's your priority and focus when meeting someone new? Met a guy this week - he wanted sex right away - then he couldn't perform. He was devastated to find this out, as it had been a while & he thought he was still good to go. Now, if he had waited to develop a proper friendship with me first then I would still be seeing him. But, he made sex the focus, so............why should I stick around. He shot himself in the foot. Hmm, I am thinking this is Karma. Sounds like this jerk just wanted to use a woman for sex and Karma hit him not letting him perform. Love it.

panchovanilla Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 5396	Sat 07/26/14 06:01 PM
Most Guys Over 50 wants a Young Sexy Chick on their arm,just to show off. Isn't that the truth. Not necessarily. I personally would just like someone I can feel totally at ease, to be me. And for her to feel the same way. Where we honestly, totally enjoy being together. Quite simple really.

BrandNewJourney Joined Tue 02/25/14 Posts: 6055	Sat 07/26/14 06:14 PM
Most Guys Over 50 wants a Young Sexy Chick on their arm,just to show off. Isn't that the truth. Not necessarily. I personally would just like someone I can feel totally at ease, to be me. And for her to feel the same way. Where we honestly, totally enjoy being together. Quite simple really. I think a lot of us are looking for this pancho. It is indeed quite simple, though sometimes it is hard to find. Sooner or later you find those that also feel that honesty, truthfulness and respect are important. I would want it no other way to be honest. The depth of the man is the most important part for me. If he can't be honest I can't trust or respect him. If I can't do that then I can't be myself with him nor he with me.

mscloverct Joined Sun 07/13/14 Posts: 2	Thu 07/31/14 08:43 AM
I like that answer.

gmeanytime Joined Mon 04/28/14 Posts: 1	Mon 09/15/14 09:49 PM
Anything and everything. LOL

dcastelmissy Joined Thu 08/01/13 Posts: 39633	Tue 09/16/14 09:16 AM
Most Guys Over 50 wants a Young Sexy Chick on their arm,just to show off. Isn't that the truth. Not necessarily. I personally would just like someone I can feel totally at ease, to be me. And for her to feel the same way. Where we honestly, totally enjoy being together. Quite simple really. Yeah! Nicely stated Pancho!

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Wed 09/17/14 12:06 AM
Most Guys Over 50 wants a Young Sexy Chick on their arm,just to show off. Isn't that the truth. Not necessarily. I personally would just like someone I can feel totally at ease, to be me. And for her to feel the same way. Where we honestly, totally enjoy being together. Quite simple really. I am on board with this answer.

mssilverfox Joined Sat 12/08/07 Posts: 10529	Wed 09/17/14 05:37 AM
I want a woman to be a life partner... I now do all my own cleaning.. dishes... cooking.. clothing repair.. all of it! A woman can help with those things when I am fixing the plumbing, installing an additional electrical plug for her, or fixing her car or motorcycle.. its a partnership... You take her with you when she would like to go to the hardware store.. she is welcome to join you when you meet the guys at the local pub to watch a football game... She will help you pack your saddle bags for the motorcycle trip you take together to ... where you like to go.. then where she likes to go.. If you don't share your life experiences with her, and have her share hers with you... then your missing what a true relationship is all about.. Love her, and respect her.. show her you care every day with her. Make sure you have her respect by earning it... never sell your integrity because it's like virginity.. once it's gone.. it's gone forever... If you treat her right... like a queen.. she will treat you like a king... That is all I want.. I want it all.. Great post! I have always said that "I am willing to share what I have with the right man".. Yes.. I will provide her with a home... I will provide her with a car, and whatever she wants because a man builds a house, and a woman makes it a home... I am not intimidated by frilly curtains, pink pastel paint in the bathroom, or fuzzy slippers... I know my manhood can survive this and much more... I want a woman I can love, who I can trust, and who will love, respect and trust me.. is that too much to ask?

mirehc Joined Sat 08/02/14 Posts: 36	Wed 09/17/14 10:20 AM
For some of u. I was hopin we we're so shallow at this age to be thinkin about sex first. :(

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Wed 09/17/14 11:02 AM
I personally would just like someone I can feel totally at ease, to be me. And for her to feel the same way. Where we honestly, totally enjoy being together. Quite simple really. Same her Pancho ....And can I just add...IIt's the same thing I wanted when I was 20, 30, and 40 too....

coolguy1492 Joined Tue 08/13/13 Posts: 2	Wed 09/17/14 12:04 PM
A peaceful life without any drama.

coolguy1492 Joined Tue 08/13/13 Posts: 2	Wed 09/17/14 12:10 PM
Its nice to have a good looking woman, but acceptable is ok.

ldscutie Joined Wed 09/17/14 Posts: 2	Wed 09/17/14 09:16 PM
a woman seen and not heard can never tell you"i love you" or let you know how good you are...a woman seen and not heard can not ask what makes you happy and serve you with her heart...a woman...has many parts just like you

adventureman64 Joined Thu 09/11/14 Posts: 37	Fri 09/19/14 06:11 AM
For me, it's all about companionship. As a senior, most of us have already been married and raised a family, and for one reason or another we now find ourselves single again. Living a comfortable, happy life is great, but lacking someone to share it with is rough. There's always something missing. Finding the right mate at this age can be difficult though, especially for someone as active as I am. I know how I want to spend the rest of my life. Hopefully Mingle2 will be able to help me find the right lady to grow old with.

BentonHarbor Joined Mon 05/19/14 Posts: 2	Tue 10/07/14 07:19 AM
Really? As I understand some of these posts, it sounds to me like some of you guys would be OK with a woman who is not interested in having sex with you. Is that true? There have been a couple of comments on here about sex being the icing on the cake. Personally, I disagree. I can eat cake without icing and it still tastes pretty good. Icing just makes it better. To me, that would be something like having plenty of money. Even without it, you still have "cake." To me, sex, just like intimacy, is one of the key ingredients, like flour or eggs or milk or sugar. Take away the basic ingredients and the cake just isn't good or it falls apart. I look at sex, intimacy, respect and communication as key ingredients. They all have to blend together to make it work.