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Topic: Help! I think I lost the love of my life :(
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Sun 05/12/13 01:58 PM
Okay so I was dating this guy and everything was going great, then I kind of hit a rough patch and life was just not on my side. As a result, our relationship kind of fell a part. Only thing is I really like him, and would love to have him back in my life only except i'm afraid he doesn't feel the same way. Any suggestions on how I should go about getting him back?

WolfEyez's photo
Sun 05/12/13 02:11 PM
You can't make someone come back to you ... walk away and he comes looking for you then great but really ... just disappear from him. That's what I do and the ones who truly care .. will find you.

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Sun 05/12/13 02:13 PM

Okay so I was dating this guy and everything was going great, then I kind of hit a rough patch and life was just not on my side. As a result, our relationship kind of fell a part. Only thing is I really like him, and would love to have him back in my life only except i'm afraid he doesn't feel the same way. Any suggestions on how I should go about getting him back?
I would just let him go....... if he can't hang thrum tough times then there is no future ....sounds like he's weak! Move on you can do better.

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Sun 05/12/13 02:14 PM

You can't make someone come back to you ... walk away and he comes looking for you then great but really ... just disappear from him. That's what I do and the ones who truly care .. will find you.
I agree!!!

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Sun 05/12/13 02:20 PM

Okay so I was dating this guy and everything was going great, then I kind of hit a rough patch and life was just not on my side. As a result, our relationship kind of fell a part. Only thing is I really like him, and would love to have him back in my life only except i'm afraid he doesn't feel the same way. Any suggestions on how I should go about getting him back?



Let him know how you feel but it's really up to him if he wants to restart the relationship.

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Sun 05/12/13 02:24 PM
Tell him how you feel but it really is up to him. Gotta agree with whats been said previously that if he cant stick around when things get tough,maybe he's interests are else where

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Sun 05/12/13 02:42 PM
Edited by Momoiro_Usagi_7 on Sun 05/12/13 02:45 PM

Okay so I was dating this guy and everything was going great, then I kind of hit a rough patch and life was just not on my side. As a result, our relationship kind of fell a part. Only thing is I really like him, and would love to have him back in my life only except i'm afraid he doesn't feel the same way. Any suggestions on how I should go about getting him back?

Circumstance being out of your control...I'm sure if you can explain to him how things went...if he truly cares or cared about you...He'd Understand! Sometimes things that are out of your control can't be avoided. You have to deal it I know as best as you can and Yes relationships can suffer...especially when you're going through it! He may not feel the same but it doesn't mean that it can't rekindle over time ^__^!!!

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Sun 05/12/13 02:43 PM
I did a tarot reading for you on this.

It indicates that he felt a little trapped and that you expected what he did not feel he could deliver. He is not ready to make a commitment and he may feel pressured to do so. He is having too much fun right now and does not want to be tied down.

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Sun 05/12/13 03:37 PM
hi

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Sun 05/12/13 05:01 PM
"hit a rough patch and life was just not on my side"

Is that a way of saying you turned into a screaming demanding harpy one day when things didn't go your way, and the guy ran like a scared rabbit?

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Sun 05/12/13 06:30 PM

"hit a rough patch and life was just not on my side"

Is that a way of saying you turned into a screaming demanding harpy one day when things didn't go your way, and the guy ran like a scared rabbit?


laugh

Yes she was not really very specific about the problem, that is why I did a tarot reading for some clues.

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Sun 05/12/13 06:54 PM
You are going to hate hearing this...
at 22 when the pressure to have a sweetheart generally kicks in and guys who are age appropriate are only vaguely interested in "simple" relationships hitting a rough patch generally seperates the men form the boys, you might have been tangled up with a boy.

I am sorry that this relationship seems to have sank but the yearning you feel for this Ex will most likely pass if you just give yourself some permission to let it go and move on.

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Sun 05/12/13 10:48 PM

Okay so I was dating this guy and everything was going great, then I kind of hit a rough patch and life was just not on my side. As a result, our relationship kind of fell a part. Only thing is I really like him, and would love to have him back in my life only except i'm afraid he doesn't feel the same way. Any suggestions on how I should go about getting him back?


Hi little one (boy I love being at the age where I can say that). You give off really good strong Vibes. I'm sure a lot of folks can feel that. Your not going to have a problem having men want you. Take your time, learn more about you, and then get ready cause your going to have mister rights all over the place and you'll need to be thinking with your mind and soul who is the right one.

Enjoy being lovely like some of my friends here and you will have him delivered to you.

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Mon 05/13/13 12:28 AM
I agree with all this great advise we dont no the real circumstances but if its just a matter of , "the balls in your court" as he was disrespected by you then he couldnt just be waiting for you to make it right.'

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Mon 05/13/13 04:20 AM
You can't make someone love you. But chin up Liza, there will be others. flowerforyou

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Mon 05/13/13 06:53 AM

"hit a rough patch and life was just not on my side"

Is that a way of saying you turned into a screaming demanding harpy one day when things didn't go your way, and the guy ran like a scared rabbit?


even if it was not anything quite that negative, motown, I was also thinking that some people just can't deal with a lot of emotional or family/relationship drama (like me, for one). So either he is not all that serious about the OP - therefore not willing to invest in her personal issues

or it was a level of personal drama that he could not deal with.

or he may have simply found someone else while the OP was unavailalbe emotionally

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Mon 05/13/13 10:45 AM

You can't make someone come back to you ... walk away and he comes looking for you then great but really ... just disappear from him. That's what I do and the ones who truly care .. will find you.


I agree...

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Mon 05/13/13 05:24 PM


"hit a rough patch and life was just not on my side"

Is that a way of saying you turned into a screaming demanding harpy one day when things didn't go your way, and the guy ran like a scared rabbit?


even if it was not anything quite that negative, motown, I was also thinking that some people just can't deal with a lot of emotional or family/relationship drama (like me, for one). So either he is not all that serious about the OP - therefore not willing to invest in her personal issues

or it was a level of personal drama that he could not deal with.

or he may have simply found someone else while the OP was unavailalbe emotionally


Some people just don't WANT to deal with a lot of personal or family
drama, especially early on in a relationship.

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Mon 05/13/13 05:48 PM
You don't love him, so walk away!

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Sun 05/26/13 07:44 PM


Okay so I was dating this guy and everything was going great, then I kind of hit a rough patch and life was just not on my side. As a result, our relationship kind of fell a part. Only thing is I really like him, and would love to have him back in my life only except i'm afraid he doesn't feel the same way. Any suggestions on how I should go about getting him back?


Hi little one (boy I love being at the age where I can say that). You give off really good strong Vibes. I'm sure a lot of folks can feel that. Your not going to have a problem having men want you. Take your time, learn more about you, and then get ready cause your going to have mister rights all over the place and you'll need to be thinking with your mind and soul who is the right one.

Enjoy being lovely like some of my friends here and you will have him delivered to you.

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