my wife left me a month ago and broken our 14 yrs relationship and marriage. i am broken into thousands pieces and do not know how to survive the devastation. slowly going down but desperate to survive. the impaired brain is expelling all sort of positive thinking to cope with the stress. i know someone out here would have better suggestions for me.

sorry about your problems, but life goes on... don't let this ruin your life, there are at least 3 billion other women on this planet... but your the one that has to make a decision, whether you are going to move on, or let it affect you till you can't function... just remember, your not the only one this has happened to, nor will you be the last...

it does get easier with time, if that helps any...

Thanks mightymoe. i know you are right but do not know how to control the things going around.

like mighty moe says it takes time to heal, try not to think on it so much maybe a counsellor may help

Fourteen years is a long time to be with someone. Give yourself time to heal. Seek counseling if necessary. Positive thinking is good too.

hey mate allmost a year ago my wife left me for another man took all we had my kids our belongings our money for no reason with no remorse no compassion it totally guttered me.and i am still broken it still hurts seems she finds a new way to kick me in the guts every few months.the painin my chest and constant mind confusion and anger i felt dont walk my road.i thought i was man enough to cope by dealing with my loss in silance but after a few months found myself crying on the way to work wen alone and sobbing myself to sleep most every night.talk about how you fell about ya hurt to someone mate or you may find yaself havin a mental breakdown i did very scary it dont mean ya weak just human and there is no
shame in seeking
help. drugs piss party short term fix been there done that time is wat will ease the hurt talking will ease the mind confusion nothing will ease the pain except time if ya find yaself thinkin bout **** try thinkin bout something else hard but after a while it does seem ta work.sorry for my spelling hope my words help ya out but the road ahead is gunna be bloody hard but there is hope mate hold on youll be right

I just checked your profile and it says you are already divorced, but you just said your wife left you. Do you mean a second wife left you a month ago?

Hookers can help temporarily relieve the pressure.

Just sayin'.

Worked for me.

I hope you can find a lady who likes jigsaw puzzles and who can put you back together, again.

Fitting little tune.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iuZTk1hdpMs

Here's one for the OP to listen to while he's a'cryin' is his moonshine jar.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=08e9k-c91E8

I find it helpful to exercise a lot when I'm troubled. Noting too strenuous. You could take long walks or bicycle rides. If you're in better shape, you could run or jog.

If you're not in that kind of shape, you can go bowling or playing pool. An added bonus is that there are often lots of other people in those places that you could strike up conversations with and get your mind off of your difficult situation.

Just some ideas.

You need time to heal, try to be kind to yourself and try
not to expect too much right away.

hi all..im so sorry to hair this from u but all of us had his own problem and still try to heal from it but the best for u try to forget it i know its hard for u but try ur best travel see the world meet new people get friend try to enjoy ur life ..life is 2 short to spend it on someone doesn't deserve mint from ur mind