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Goofball, your name definitely does NOT fit with your honest & insightful comment! At the end of the day, most fully understand the difference between right and wrong. Even after my very own marriage-drama, I know that what my wife and I did was flat-out wrong. When you are married to someone, there are supposed to be your "other" your "partner" = your yin to their yang. The ratio varies depending upon the couple, but it needs to be a symbiotic environment to work even halfway well. Talk to your wife, be honest while keeping her feelings in mind, and let it be what it be. Besides, cheating is kinda fun & exhilarating, but it is too much work and nearly always ends in some serious mental anguish/pain. Sometimes physical pain too... At the end of the day, I don't want anybody to feel anything like I feel last June. It changed me forever. When you talk to her (if you do) it will likely change her forever. 
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I know this topic is a touchy one. I know my actions havent benifited anyone but myself and the woman ive been cheating with. The thing is we all deserve to be happy in our marriage but theres always a flaw. My wife is happy to me thats all that counts. Whateva she dont know isnt going to hurt her. Im not going to divorce my wife. If somewhere down the line she happens to put one&one together ill deal with it then,but for the time being shes happy im happy. Then why the hell did you ask the question?...Meh! 
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When in a relationship what has always worked for me is
A) checking my own moral compass, my little voice inside of me really wants what is best for me B) if I wouldn't want my partner doing what I am contemplating, then I have NO business engaging in that activity. It sounds simple but a lot of people don't even think to do those two things |
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I know this topic is a touchy one. I know my actions havent benifited anyone but myself and the woman ive been cheating with. The thing is we all deserve to be happy in our marriage but theres always a flaw. My wife is happy to me thats all that counts. Whateva she dont know isnt going to hurt her. Im not going to divorce my wife. If somewhere down the line she happens to put one&one together ill deal with it then,but for the time being shes happy im happy. And yet,you asked!!! |
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Just to point out this is clearly a troll posting, considering this person has already made up their mind no point in making this posting its just to get people riled up.
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Wo wo wo..... is this a trick question?
Someone is asking if "cheating" is wrong? Heeeellllllloooooooooo, knock knock, it's cheating! Is there a definition of cheating that is not cheating? Somebody loves you, and you love them but your taking your privates to some other door? LOL, ok this is a trick question. Where's the cameras in this place? Gotta be around here somewhere.... ring ring, hello, department of justification? You see I'm...... |
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I know this topic is a touchy one. I know my actions havent benifited anyone but myself and the woman ive been cheating with. The thing is we all deserve to be happy in our marriage but theres always a flaw. My wife is happy to me thats all that counts. Whateva she dont know isnt going to hurt her. Im not going to divorce my wife. If somewhere down the line she happens to put one&one together ill deal with it then,but for the time being shes happy im happy. If your happy and you know it....sleep with another woman....clap, clap.  
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I know this topic is a touchy one. I know my actions havent benifited anyone but myself and the woman ive been cheating with. The thing is we all deserve to be happy in our marriage but theres always a flaw. My wife is happy to me thats all that counts. Whateva she dont know isnt going to hurt her. Im not going to divorce my wife. If somewhere down the line she happens to put one&one together ill deal with it then,but for the time being shes happy im happy. And yet,you asked!!! I asked cause im human and regardless of my actions i do feel guilty sometimes. Just wanted to see if there maybe someone out there who may understand the situation. |
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Edited by
Leigh2154
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Thu 03/21/13 07:17 AM
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I know this topic is a touchy one. I know my actions havent benifited anyone but myself and the woman ive been cheating with. The thing is we all deserve to be happy in our marriage but theres always a flaw. My wife is happy to me thats all that counts. Whateva she dont know isnt going to hurt her. Im not going to divorce my wife. If somewhere down the line she happens to put one&one together ill deal with it then,but for the time being shes happy im happy. And yet,you asked!!! I asked cause im human and regardless of my actions i do feel guilty sometimes. Just wanted to see if there maybe someone out there who may understand the situation. There is nothing to understand, cheating is wrong because it's dishonest...Jessies Crutch!...You look for validation because you know what you're doing is BS...I feel sorry for your wife....Whatever her weakness, it does not compare or even come close to yours.. 
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Just to point out this is clearly a troll posting, considering this person has already made up their mind no point in making this posting its just to get people riled up. We all know that cheating isnt a good thing and im not trying to get people riled up but i know if you understood the situation or see things threw my eyes you would probably have a different opinión |
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Just to point out this is clearly a troll posting, considering this person has already made up their mind no point in making this posting its just to get people riled up. We all know that cheating isnt a good thing and im not trying to get people riled up but i know if you understood the situation or see things threw my eyes you would probably have a different opinión You do realize that it is we who are toying with you, don't you?.... |
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I know this topic is a touchy one. I know my actions havent benifited anyone but myself and the woman ive been cheating with. The thing is we all deserve to be happy in our marriage but theres always a flaw. My wife is happy to me thats all that counts. Whateva she dont know isnt going to hurt her. Im not going to divorce my wife. If somewhere down the line she happens to put one&one together ill deal with it then,but for the time being shes happy im happy. And yet,you asked!!! I asked cause im human and regardless of my actions i do feel guilty sometimes. Just wanted to see if there maybe someone out there who may understand the situation. Yeah, I understand and I really feel for you man. It must be really terrible having a woman at home that loves you when you think that she's too fat and not good enough in bed. Still not sure that it's her that's the problem though. How overweight and unfit is she? I've had girlfriends that were far from skinny and I still got hours and hours of fantastic sex out of them. |
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Maybe you should consult with your wife to see if she thinks its okay
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Goofball, your name definitely does NOT fit with your honest & insightful comment! At the end of the day, most fully understand the difference between right and wrong. Even after my very own marriage-drama, I know that what my wife and I did was flat-out wrong. When you are married to someone, there are supposed to be your "other" your "partner" = your yin to their yang. The ratio varies depending upon the couple, but it needs to be a symbiotic environment to work even halfway well. Talk to your wife, be honest while keeping her feelings in mind, and let it be what it be. Besides, cheating is kinda fun & exhilarating, but it is too much work and nearly always ends in some serious mental anguish/pain. Sometimes physical pain too... At the end of the day, I don't want anybody to feel anything like I feel last June. It changed me forever. When you talk to her (if you do) it will likely change her forever.
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Goofball, your name definitely does NOT fit with your honest & insightful comment! At the end of the day, most fully understand the difference between right and wrong. Even after my very own marriage-drama, I know that what my wife and I did was flat-out wrong. When you are married to someone, there are supposed to be your "other" your "partner" = your yin to their yang. The ratio varies depending upon the couple, but it needs to be a symbiotic environment to work even halfway well. Talk to your wife, be honest while keeping her feelings in mind, and let it be what it be. Besides, cheating is kinda fun & exhilarating, but it is too much work and nearly always ends in some serious mental anguish/pain. Sometimes physical pain too... At the end of the day, I don't want anybody to feel anything like I feel last June. It changed me forever. When you talk to her (if you do) it will likely change her forever.
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Goofball, your name definitely does NOT fit with your honest & insightful comment! At the end of the day, most fully understand the difference between right and wrong. Even after my very own marriage-drama, I know that what my wife and I did was flat-out wrong. When you are married to someone, there are supposed to be your "other" your "partner" = your yin to their yang. The ratio varies depending upon the couple, but it needs to be a symbiotic environment to work even halfway well. Talk to your wife, be honest while keeping her feelings in mind, and let it be what it be. Besides, cheating is kinda fun & exhilarating, but it is too much work and nearly always ends in some serious mental anguish/pain. Sometimes physical pain too... At the end of the day, I don't want anybody to feel anything like I feel last June. It changed me forever. When you talk to her (if you do) it will likely change her forever.
I understand really i do and im really sorry for your experience and you're right its fun but we have an understanding and its just sex trust me. If i were to talk to my wife it would be over. so lets leave it like it is. |
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Maybe you should consult with your wife to see if she thinks its okay haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa,,,,,brilliance,,,
perhaps someone is sleeping with his old lady while he is laying up with someone else wonder if that would be 'ok'? and if they could just leave that as it is,,,,,smh |
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Hello there its wrong to cheat on some1..if u really love the oppisite sex then u wouldn't cheat.
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commitment means little to some folks any thing that their partner is 'lacking' in, they feel justified getting elsewhere,,,, as if they assume they are perfect and provide ALL Their partners needs so, as I said before, while he is off being satisfied by some other woman,, you can bet that leaves a void in his wifes life perhaps if she decides to have it filled with someone else who enjoys her 'stamina' levels,, they can both go on being completely happy and making it work,,,,,, neither having to go 'without' anything they dont want to,,,, |
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Can anyone really be stolen ?
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