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Honestly, how important is sex in a relationship or even marriage?
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Monogamy is the important thing
A promise made is not a promise to be broken...  \\ ....\/.... |
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We know the answer to that one.
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promises can be broken depending the circumstances.
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Time to get real here.
You've asked if cheating is wrong and I can imagine that everyone here will tell you that it is, in fact, wrong. Thing is you already ARE cheating and I think that you know that it is wrong. How would you feel if your wife was banging some other dude behind your back? I can tell you from experience that it isn't a fun thing to learn about. Someone you love and trust, never thinking that they would cheat on you and yet.....WHAM! It happens. The whole world knows that cheating on someone isn't right. The whole world knows that you shouldn't speed on the highway, that you shouldn't smoke (cause it can kill you), that you shouldn't drink till you are of age (and we all know how that works out, lol). My point is that we all know the things that we shouldn't do. And that is why those things are so very enticing to us. You need sex and your wife just isn't fitting the bill. You say you love her dearly but she just isn't sexually able. Dude, you made your choice in that you found another piece of azz to help satisfy your sexual desire. And the thing is you will continue to seek to fulfill that craving cause you need it. Your wife will find out one day (if she doesn't already know) and she will choose one of two options. She will stay with you and allow you to continue your sexual exploits or she will leave your butt. If she does stay then she will act as if she has no idea about your cheating. I know of a couple of women who have stayed with their husbands even when these women knew their men were humping around. It happens more often than you think and the reasons women stay with men vary. You know it's wrong. However, you will keep telling yourself that you love your wife but you just need some sex to help make you a whole happy person. Because this is what it is all about dude...you want to be fully happy and now that you are getting some you are satisfying that sexual need. You crossed the boundary dude and now you just have to deal with that. I'm not gonna tell you that you do or don't love your wife. However, I will say that there are few who would not cross that boundary (which is a shame). I think you love your wife for who she is and now your selfishness has made you look elsewhere for the very thing she isn't giving you. I could go on and on about what you should or shouldn't have done, but the fact is why does it matter? You are seeking validation for cheating because your wife can't satisfy you sexually and you are probably not going to find that validation here. Just my two cents. |
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Edited by
KiK2me
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Wed 03/20/13 09:40 AM
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promises can be broken depending the circumstances. Agree ....it is called DIVORCE ? If you love her as you say Give her the dignity of a divorce Before you start humiliating her Here and in some other married womans bed JMHO And good luck with that ! {I can see the ladies lining up waiting for their turn to CHEAT with you} KiK
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Time to get real here. You've asked if cheating is wrong and I can imagine that everyone here will tell you that it is, in fact, wrong. Thing is you already ARE cheating and I think that you know that it is wrong. How would you feel if your wife was banging some other dude behind your back? I can tell you from experience that it isn't a fun thing to learn about. Someone you love and trust, never thinking that they would cheat on you and yet.....WHAM! It happens. The whole world knows that cheating on someone isn't right. The whole world knows that you shouldn't speed on the highway, that you shouldn't smoke (cause it can kill you), that you shouldn't drink till you are of age (and we all know how that works out, lol). My point is that we all know the things that we shouldn't do. And that is why those things are so very enticing to us. You need sex and your wife just isn't fitting the bill. You say you love her dearly but she just isn't sexually able. Dude, you made your choice in that you found another piece of azz to help satisfy your sexual desire. And the thing is you will continue to seek to fulfill that craving cause you need it. Your wife will find out one day (if she doesn't already know) and she will choose one of two options. She will stay with you and allow you to continue your sexual exploits or she will leave your butt. If she does stay then she will act as if she has no idea about your cheating. I know of a couple of women who have stayed with their husbands even when these women knew their men were humping around. It happens more often than you think and the reasons women stay with men vary. You know it's wrong. However, you will keep telling yourself that you love your wife but you just need some sex to help make you a whole happy person. Because this is what it is all about dude...you want to be fully happy and now that you are getting some you are satisfying that sexual need. You crossed the boundary dude and now you just have to deal with that. I'm not gonna tell you that you do or don't love your wife. However, I will say that there are few who would not cross that boundary (which is a shame). I think you love your wife for who she is and now your selfishness has made you look elsewhere for the very thing she isn't giving you. I could go on and on about what you should or shouldn't have done, but the fact is why does it matter? You are seeking validation for cheating because your wife can't satisfy you sexually and you are probably not going to find that validation here. Just my two cents.   
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Looking for woman for intimate encounter Says it all ... 
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Doesnt work that way killer. We love everything about our partners just the sex isnt good. We're eachothers medicine that keep eachother in our marriage. It's a shame wind up threads don't get you off...If they did, you could satisfy your sexual "impulses" without cheating on your wife.... 
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Edited by
CremeBrulee
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Wed 03/20/13 09:58 AM
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Is it wrong to cheat Maybe you should ask HER that question ? Just a thought... Agreed!! I mean,who knows,maybe,just maybe she is also thinking of cheating?? Deep inside,Women do ''know'' these things when they happen-even when they ''ignore'' it!! GET OUT of that marriage... Is she that bad,that you have to do this to her-and even defend it?? Btw, A divorce will give u more!! |
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I understand what you all are saying beleive me i do,but its a two way street right. If i satify her do i deserve the same? She cant hack it cause she has no stamina cause of her weight. I love her cause of her personality shes everything i want in a woman just sex is the only flaw and she doesnt look on these things so no worries mr.knowitall. Does she even know you detest her weight??? |
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Maybe it's you that's the problem? Ever think of that? You say that you love your wife but you're saying that she's no good for sex because of her weight. I'm not surprised she isn't giving you a good time in bed if you aren't making her feel like a desirable woman.
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Say something is missing in the sack in a relationship,but you love this person. Is it cool to cheat? no, its not work on whats missing or leave,,,,cheating is the cowards wa, its certainly not gonna fix whats wrong, or make things better if you dont want to do the work to make it better, or it cant be better and that part of the relationship is vital to someone, they should move on ,,, IMHO this ^^^. Cheating will mess up both of your future endeavors, whether you decide to stay or not. Figure it out with her first, then if you cant reach an agreement. Go your way. Don't start it before you finalize what you have going with her now. Its a cowardly thing to do...You will regret it later, I believe. I have learned from watching and hearing others in this scenario. Do the right thing. |
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Does she even know you detest her weight??? She is the steady lay When no one else wants to play... Poor lady ! SHAME ON YOU BULLDOG !  Ask her if she wants to "Swing" ? SOME guys like big women ? Just another thought... Maybe you and the other woman can "TRADE" partners once in awhile {snicker snicker} |
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Im a married man,love my wife and shes awsome,but shes a big girl and really cant handle things in the sack. How does that sound? Picture it hunny im leaving you cause youre overweight dont sound good. just tell her it isn't working out and get a divorce.if you cheat and then get a divorce and the cheating comes out in the divorce,that will give the judge every reason to give your wife everything you own and more just save yourself the hassle and divorce her first |
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Does she even know you detest her weight??? She is the steady lay When no one else wants to play... Poor lady ! SHAME ON YOU BULLDOG ! Ask her if she wants to "Swing" ? SOME guys like big women ? Just another thought... Maybe you and the other woman can "TRADE" partners once in awhile {snicker snicker} See,even more choices!! |
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Say something is missing in the sack in a relationship,but you love this person. Is it cool to cheat? If you are not married to the person, then you can not "cheat" on that person. You all would be just fornicators. You can only "cheat" on a spouse. |
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Ive cheated and the person who ive cheated with is in my same shoes. Her husband doesnt satify her. Whats wrong with filling that void with no strings attached? so if you already found someone to cheat with what are you doing on here looking for an intimate encounter? Obviously there's more to your story................... |
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Paying for a BJ isn't cheating, right?
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Paying for a BJ isn't cheating, right? 
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