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Topic: Handsome or Character
yogi4yogini Joined Thu 02/21/13 Posts: 57	Sun 03/03/13 01:53 PM
I prefer someone with a fantastic personality with good character, someone who is personable, to me this is worth more than someone with good looks. It has been my experience that most good looking people are shallow, empty, and usually narcissistic. I'm not good looking, but I'm shallow, empty and narcissistic anyway!

minemine2013 Joined Mon 02/11/13 Posts: 85	Sun 03/03/13 01:55 PM
Mikaxe180 I want you understand I'm not in hurry to find a man or I'm looking for just handsome man. My formal boy friend was handsome,lovely ,kind,caring such a good guy but he died after asking me to marry him.I have meet an ugly guy,proud,rude,selfish so it depends ok. Character is more important than beauty that doen't mean that one can't find a handsome guy with good character. I know what I want a good looking guy with good character that is just my desire or but if I can't find it i can go for ugly guy with good character

yogi4yogini Joined Thu 02/21/13 Posts: 57	Sun 03/03/13 01:56 PM
deduction; Anything goes,so long as...........?? Yes,MM does alude to really liking Mr.Handsome...then ''uggy'' too,then Character,and then.... Eish, Ok, Character + killer looks(uggy)= MM! Are you into ethics AND algebra?

Traumer Joined Sun 01/06/13 Posts: 723	Sun 03/03/13 02:39 PM
I remember in High School, there was this really good-looking guy that all the girls drooled over. I was very impressed when he asked me out. Oh man. He kept fidgeting with the car mirrors so he could check himself out. Every time we passed a mirror, I was walking alone as he had to pause and..shake his hair. And dumb as a rock. To this day I am highly suspicious of killer looks, I always assume that is all there is. Rarely wrong. Character is everything. You mean that you didn't carry his comb for him!? Simply shocking! Do I hear the old song, "Kookie. Kookie, lend me your Comb" playing in your background...

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45399	Sun 03/03/13 03:00 PM
I remember in High School, there was this really good-looking guy that all the girls drooled over. I was very impressed when he asked me out. Oh man. He kept fidgeting with the car mirrors so he could check himself out. Every time we passed a mirror, I was walking alone as he had to pause and..shake his hair. And dumb as a rock. To this day I am highly suspicious of killer looks, I always assume that is all there is. Rarely wrong. Character is everything. You mean that you didn't carry his comb for him!? Simply shocking! Do I hear the old song, "Kookie. Kookie, lend me your Comb" playing in your background... Ed Byrnes, '77 Sunset Strip' an oldie but a goody :-)

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Sun 03/03/13 07:06 PM
I prefer someone with a fantastic personality with good character, someone who is personable, to me this is worth more than someone with good looks. It has been my experience that most good looking people are shallow, empty, and usually narcissistic. This is so true.

mikaxel80 Joined Sat 10/06/12 Posts: 551	Mon 03/04/13 01:06 AM
Mikaxe180 I want you understand I'm not in hurry to find a man or I'm looking for just handsome man. My formal boy friend was handsome,lovely ,kind,caring such a good guy but he died after asking me to marry him.I have meet an ugly guy,proud,rude,selfish so it depends ok. Character is more important than beauty that doen't mean that one can't find a handsome guy with good character. I know what I want a good looking guy with good character that is just my desire or but if I can't find it i can go for ugly guy with good character Hi minemine2013. Sorry about your boyfriend. I mean it. I know how it feels. I didnt mean to offend you. If I did I am sorry

TexasScoundrel Joined Wed 10/29/08 Posts: 3693	Mon 03/04/13 01:59 AM
IMHO it's a balancing act. What you may lack in looks can be made up for in character. At least in the short term.

minemine2013 Joined Mon 02/11/13 Posts: 85	Mon 03/04/13 03:48 AM
Milaxe180 I'm not angry at all my dear ok.I understand what you are trying to say.

mikaxel80 Joined Sat 10/06/12 Posts: 551	Mon 03/04/13 04:06 AM
Minemine2013, thanks for understanding. To be clear which part? So how long has it been? How r u coping up?

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Mon 03/04/13 04:13 AM
deduction; Anything goes,so long as...........?? Yes,MM does alude to really liking Mr.Handsome...then ''uggy'' too,then Character,and then.... Eish, Ok, Character + killer looks(uggy)= MM! Are you into ethics AND algebra? Ha ha ha.. Sorry,that was just a moment; am an empty head! Loool

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Mon 03/04/13 04:18 AM Edited by CremeBrulee on Mon 03/04/13 04:25 AM
Good character is most important. But who wants a Ugly man? ME! I've not dated a man who is ''handsome'' in the eyes of the world..... I go with what gives me the kicks-In MY EYES-with a fantastic /great character!

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Mon 03/04/13 04:20 AM
I prefer someone with a fantastic personality with good character, someone who is personable, to me this is worth more than someone with good looks. It has been my experience that most good looking people are shallow, empty, and usually narcissistic. I'm not good looking, but I'm shallow, empty and narcissistic anyway!

minemine2013 Joined Mon 02/11/13 Posts: 85	Mon 03/04/13 01:10 PM
Mikaxe180 four years ago

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Tue 03/05/13 03:46 PM
Good character is most important. But who wants a Ugly man? ME! I've not dated a man who is ''handsome'' in the eyes of the world..... I go with what gives me the kicks-In MY EYES-with a fantastic /great character! Me too. My friends would say "why are you dating him as he is not good looking?" Although; I must admit these friends are considerably younger than I am so are still at the shallow stage.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Tue 03/05/13 03:57 PM
Character is overrated.

Traumer Joined Sun 01/06/13 Posts: 723	Tue 03/05/13 07:09 PM
Good character is most important. But who wants a Ugly man? ME! I've not dated a man who is ''handsome'' in the eyes of the world..... I go with what gives me the kicks-In MY EYES-with a fantastic /great character! Me too. My friends would say "why are you dating him as he is not good looking?" Although; I must admit these friends are considerably younger than I am so are still at the shallow stage. "ugly" is relative as is "normal" Take the ubiquitous Hollywood "Bombshells" of male and female 'beauty: both blond as if hair colour is what matters; in my observations, both of those types seem to live in their "blond moments" all their lives; all looks but no brains. Others have 'champagne tastes but have only beer money; some have money but no brains and are soon left without any money. This is a world wherein everything and everyone is disposable and any so called values are all 'relative' as are 'beliefs'. The only deity that exists is Money and that is the sole arbiter of values and beliefs, "if it ain't got nuthin in it fer me, it ain't worth nuthin" as the saying goes. Pretty or ugly, rich or poor is all relative.

William8 Joined Tue 09/25/12 Posts: 224	Tue 03/05/13 07:13 PM Edited by William8 on Tue 03/05/13 07:15 PM
You can't judge a book by its cover some women might not look like much but they have a great engine under the hood that purrs like a kitten.

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Tue 03/05/13 07:17 PM
I only date men who I consider to be of good character, but also date men I'm attracted to. I don't care a wit if anyone else considers them handsome...but yes, I want a physical attraction to exist too.

William8 Joined Tue 09/25/12 Posts: 224	Tue 03/05/13 07:24 PM Edited by William8 on Tue 03/05/13 07:27 PM
Well there is always the problem of compatiblety in bed. I dated one women from another dating sight for two months but she was very conservative in bed. She liked sex but no foreplay. She was boring in bed.