Snow White had seven(!) dwarfs and none were considered particularly 'handsome'...

Yes most, not all of those good looking guys are the same and not all "ugly" guys are the same.

reading thru this thread it suddenly reminded me of an old favorite song of mine by rikki lee jones called last chance texaco

this part especailly....

But this one ain't fuel-injected
Her plug's disconnected
She gets scared and she stalls
She just needs a man, that's all

It's her last chance
Her timing's all wrong
Her last chance
She can't idle this long
Her last chance
Turn her over and go
Pullin' out of the last chance texaco
The last chance

I dated another women who hated affection altogether and only wanted to talk on the phone every night. That only lasted a week.

True...maybe I should have used Snow White as my handle.

Seriously though, I didn’t pick my username for its fairy tale significance. It’s actually a family thing. That decision made my “things I could have given more thought” list.

Hi

handsome for first night
character for second night
handsome with character for last night

ciao Luca

it is impressive when they can suck an olive through a cocktail straw and
knot a cherry stem in under 3 seconds using only their mouth...

Since its been a while, i am not expected to say anything xcept hoping u r coping well.
Btw u have read i like character. But what i want to asj u is this. What if u meet an absolutely ugly person but has an excellent/extraordinary heart?

Mikaxe180 I see ugly guy with good character and he loves me sure I will go for him.

Here I am

That's my girl(hope u dont mind me saying that). I also wish many females see more of character than looks

I agree that it is all relative. I can't judge a man on his looks as I know what it feels like. Men don't date me because of my looks so I would be a hypocrite if I were to do the same thing.

ilaxe180 is like you hate handsome guys but you look good to me my dear

Thanks for the complement, minemine2013. And u look fine too. It is just that I see many handsome guys who have no ethics trying to take advantage of women

I have some comments.

First of all, did no one pick up on the Rickie Lee Jones song earlier? Sweet, very classy, I give you good marks for that one. One of the greatest of her records.

Second, I love mingle and am so glad that some here have accepted me as a distant friend. I treasure this. Some day I may even get over my shyness enough to visit some of these if I think they could put up with me. Wouldn't know I was shy would you lol?

Third, sometimes I feel like I could engage in some here (not now as I want to stay loyal to a lady friend of mine who likes my shoulder to lean on). She will probably move on as her life is taking her places I have been and don't care to go to again. A sad yet happy tale. That aside, the reason I don't take the mingle hookup too serious is sometimes I feel like I'm watching a repeat of Shallow Hal. This thread jumps out at me as if Hal was sitting here looking at the screen with me.

Are you folks actually seeing what is being written? It makes me wonder if the world at large sees life up-side-down from the way I do. Can this group of people not see the difference between attraction and looks? I am so glad my wives came up to me and picked me out of the crowd cause I could not imagine giving my thoughts and time over to such lack of depth thinking.

I have never met a man of character that I did not find physically attractive...Somehow good character and personality always manage to transcend "looks"...

And the thread is redeemed!

looks are only on the surface give me a man with a good heart anyday over looks ive dated good looking men and ugly men both can be the same in personality and in deciept so it does not matter to me as long as i am treated as i deserve

Nooo! Stop Thinking, I'm Already Looking 4 yur Lost Shoooooe!