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Topic: are flings awkward ?
steve0426 Joined Sat 09/22/12 Posts: 127	Fri 03/01/13 05:21 PM
Wanting to have a fling with someone

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Fri 03/01/13 05:27 PM
Nope, as long as everyone is on the same page and understand they are never going to finish the book...Fling on brother...

TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Fri 03/01/13 06:00 PM
Wanting to have a fling with someone That's not really what your profile says. But on topic; they can be awkward. She might want to keep it secret for various reasons and you might have to do a bit of sneaking out of back doors and that sort of thing. Don't kid yourself either that just because she's telling you that it's only a casual relationship she won't play games and act like she's your girlfriend.

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 14505	Fri 03/01/13 06:07 PM
No, I don't do flings.

Rawrr_Girl Joined Sun 10/04/09 Posts: 4431	Fri 03/01/13 10:06 PM
I'd never put myself in that kind of situation, so I'll never find out. My guess is yes.

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Fri 03/01/13 10:46 PM Edited by CremeBrulee on Fri 03/01/13 10:48 PM
Yes they are! And once you think you are done,one of you will be having a feeling of some sort.....entanglements! No,i agree with Raw-G; i never want to go that road,and hopefully,i wont ever get that desperate for the physicalities!

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Fri 03/01/13 10:50 PM
Wanting to have a fling with someone Steve,you should put that in your profile too,so you dont lead the ladies on! Just saying

unsure Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4886	Fri 03/01/13 11:55 PM
FLINGS ARE NOT MY THING...I HAVE NEVER HAD ONE AND I HAVE NO PLANS TO EVER HAVE ONE!!

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Sat 03/02/13 02:49 AM
Someone will get hurt in a fling.

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Sat 03/02/13 04:07 AM
Your young and if both partners are on the same page have fun however if you develop feelings for her and she thinks it was just a fling you might get your feelings hurt.

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Sat 03/02/13 01:20 PM
Careful.... flings turn into things... then someone gets hurt.

1Cynderella Joined Mon 02/18/13 Posts: 2398	Sat 03/02/13 02:54 PM
By FLING, do you mean two people engaging in the most intimate encounter known to man in the hopes that neither party will be emotionally affected by it?

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45334	Sat 03/02/13 04:50 PM
are flings awkward ? This is dependent upon how hard you are flung.

afriQueen22 Joined Tue 10/25/11 Posts: 527	Sat 03/02/13 05:02 PM
I've engaged in a number of flings, and the outcome varies. There are those that understand the rules of such an engagement and you happily go your seperate ways after sometime. And then there are those that get complicated... Complications are awkward. Make it very clear where things stand from the get-go. Be brutally honest if you have to. Nothing worse than grey area. As spontaneous as flings are meant to be, you don't want to end up hurting someone's feelings because of your own carelessness.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48914	Sat 03/02/13 05:28 PM
are flings awkward ? This is dependent upon how hard you are flung. And the trajectory.

sexxxyblueyes Joined Thu 12/27/12 Posts: 6	Tue 03/05/13 05:09 PM
By FLING, do you mean two people engaging in the most intimate encounter known to man in the hopes that neither party will be emotionally affected by it? the emotion received is pure pleasure, I would love to have a fling