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Topic: Why don’t we want to be open about ourselves?
sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Tue 02/26/13 06:50 PM
I am not trying to hide anything, but I am a private person and I also don't trust others right away. I do have things I'd prefer to keep to myself or private. I think anyone should have that choice. I am careful, especially on here (the internet) but it doesn't mean that I do not enjoy the friends I have made here. I do, very much. I am like you that I am a private person and no matter who I am with; they will never know every little thing about me as there are things I will take to my grave as 1) it's none of their business unless it somehow affects the relationship, and 2) I have been sworn to protect some secrets whether it's mine, a friend, a family member, or the military. I understand completely. People who are nosy make me suspicious either of their agenda (and if it is in my best interests) or simply that they are uninteresting: can't find anything to talk about that is interesting

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Tue 02/26/13 06:54 PM
… are we trying to hide from others what we don’t like to admit about ourselves? You mean like a woman refusing to reveal her true weight? If you want to keep on living, avoid such topics. HA HA you two....no...more like asking a man if he is already married or seeing someone......(thread empties of all males except 1 or 2 lol)

MetalShadow6 Joined Thu 02/14/13 Posts: 924	Tue 02/26/13 07:30 PM
… are we trying to hide from others what we don’t like to admit about ourselves? You mean like a woman refusing to reveal her true weight? If you want to keep on living, avoid such topics. HA HA you two....no...more like asking a man if he is already married or seeing someone......(thread empties of all males except 1 or 2 lol) This might be the only time being single is a good thing.

4evababy Joined Tue 02/26/13 Posts: 9258	Tue 02/26/13 10:34 PM
im always open

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Tue 02/26/13 10:40 PM
… are we trying to hide from others what we don’t like to admit about ourselves? You mean like a woman refusing to reveal her true weight? If you want to keep on living, avoid such topics. HA HA you two....no...more like asking a man if he is already married or seeing someone......(thread empties of all males except 1 or 2 lol) This might be the only time being single is a good thing. :) hugs2u impertinent one

AthenaRose2 Joined Fri 11/09/12 Posts: 6972	Wed 02/27/13 12:16 AM
Because that is when they all run. I find that hard to believe... but okay, I won't argue... just take your word for it...

AthenaRose2 Joined Fri 11/09/12 Posts: 6972	Wed 02/27/13 12:19 AM
… are we trying to hide from others what we don’t like to admit about ourselves? You mean like a woman refusing to reveal her true weight? that's cute... how could she get away with that if she intends to meet face to face tho... but yeah... this could be one example...

AthenaRose2 Joined Fri 11/09/12 Posts: 6972	Wed 02/27/13 12:20 AM
… are we trying to hide from others what we don’t like to admit about ourselves? You mean like a woman refusing to reveal her true weight? If you want to keep on living, avoid such topics.

AthenaRose2 Joined Fri 11/09/12 Posts: 6972	Wed 02/27/13 12:21 AM
I just let it all hang out. Either you like me or you don't. Boo. hoo. dry your tears oldhippie, you are very much liked around here...

AthenaRose2 Joined Fri 11/09/12 Posts: 6972	Wed 02/27/13 12:24 AM
im always open hello devababy, nice to meet you... welcome to Mingle..

AthenaRose2 Joined Fri 11/09/12 Posts: 6972	Wed 02/27/13 12:25 AM
… are we trying to hide from others what we don’t like to admit about ourselves? You mean like a woman refusing to reveal her true weight? If you want to keep on living, avoid such topics. HA HA you two....no...more like asking a man if he is already married or seeing someone......(thread empties of all males except 1 or 2 lol) This might be the only time being single is a good thing. :) hugs2u impertinent one okay you guys.. do you need some privacy now too...

4evababy Joined Tue 02/26/13 Posts: 9258	Wed 02/27/13 02:04 AM
thankyou athena

4evababy Joined Tue 02/26/13 Posts: 9258	Wed 02/27/13 02:04 AM
thankyou athena

AthenaRose2 Joined Fri 11/09/12 Posts: 6972	Wed 02/27/13 02:36 AM
thankyou athena

MetalShadow6 Joined Thu 02/14/13 Posts: 924	Wed 02/27/13 06:39 AM
… are we trying to hide from others what we don’t like to admit about ourselves? You mean like a woman refusing to reveal her true weight? If you want to keep on living, avoid such topics. HA HA you two....no...more like asking a man if he is already married or seeing someone......(thread empties of all males except 1 or 2 lol) This might be the only time being single is a good thing. :) hugs2u impertinent one okay you guys.. do you need some privacy now too... I thought this was about people opening up?

AthenaRose2 Joined Fri 11/09/12 Posts: 6972	Wed 02/27/13 07:25 AM
… are we trying to hide from others what we don’t like to admit about ourselves? You mean like a woman refusing to reveal her true weight? If you want to keep on living, avoid such topics. HA HA you two....no...more like asking a man if he is already married or seeing someone......(thread empties of all males except 1 or 2 lol) This might be the only time being single is a good thing. :) hugs2u impertinent one okay you guys.. do you need some privacy now too... I thought this was about people opening up? it is...

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Wed 02/27/13 07:36 AM Edited by CremeBrulee on Wed 02/27/13 07:38 AM
Well,never volunteer information at the start,unless asked a direct question that begs a direct/precise/concise answer!! Am open,but to a point..its on a need to know basis! We all know that these revealings can sometimes make us take to the hills....ha ha haaa

AthenaRose2 Joined Fri 11/09/12 Posts: 6972	Wed 02/27/13 07:43 AM
Well,never volunteer nformation at the start,unless asked a direct question that begs a direct/precise/concise answer!! Am open,but to a point..its on a need to know basis! that's cool, Newbiechick... I understand your position... need to know... unfortunately I'm the nosy type that needs to know almost everything before I'm willing to let down my guard enough to trust another person with my heart... mostly because I'm not really into being surprised with new and possibly mind changing information after a certain point in the relationship...

PrintsCharming Joined Thu 03/21/13 Posts: 547	Mon 04/15/13 12:14 AM
The people you meet create the paradise you find.

Tattooed_Fella Joined Wed 01/30/13 Posts: 14	Mon 04/15/13 03:06 AM
After reading this discussion i went and got some Arby's curly fries lol thanks for making me hungry.