Topic: The difference between SEX and LOVE MAKING
minemine2013's photo
Sun 02/24/13 04:18 PM
Many often we confuse the difference between sex and making love. Some often compare the two as being the same thing. Most people do not realize that there is a difference between these two. Let's start with sex. To me sex is something that doesn't often involve real feelings or even a committed, real relationship. Many people have a "friend with benefits," which is what I would put under the category of sex. Often times there are others who seek pleasure from one-nights stand .Love making When two people who are in love with each other, and who share that emotional bond with one another, they care very much about making their partner feel cherished. When someone who is in love makes love to their partner, they take care of all their needs, not just sexually. They will take time by doing foreplay and making their lover feel loved. They are attentive to their partners every needs and desires. They get more joy out of satisfying them then they do themselves. Often times, they do not always need to be satisfied while making love. Making love between two people who are in love is often slow and intimate. After lovemaking many couples that love one another will hold and cuddle their lover as a deeper form of intimacy afterwards. This also brings the lovers together and they connect deeper on that emotional bond. At least for me that is how I am what about you .

oldhippie1952's photo
Sun 02/24/13 04:20 PM
I agree.

bimrmf's photo
Sun 02/24/13 05:05 PM
well the diffrent between them two is just having sex is no eye contact or connetion between the two that have sex an making love is just eye contact an connetion an holding an rubing an kissing her while having sex an the feeling between the two like they feeling each other heart a in one

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Sun 02/24/13 05:14 PM
True

minemine2013's photo
Sun 02/24/13 05:24 PM
Edited by minemine2013 on Sun 02/24/13 05:27 PM
Many often we confuse the difference between sex and making love. Some often compare the two as being the same thing. Most people do not realize that there is a difference between these two. Let's start with sex. To me sex is something that doesn't often involve real feelings or even a committed, real relationship. Many people have a "friend with benefits," which is what I would put under the category of sex. Often times there are others who seek pleasure from one-nights stand .Love making When two people who are in love with each other, and who share that emotional bond with one another, they care very much about making their partner feel cherished. When someone who is in love makes love to their partner, they take care of all their needs, not just sexually. They will take time by doing foreplay and making their lover feel loved. They are attentive to their partners every needs and desires. They get more joy out of satisfying them then they do themselves. Often times, they do not always need to be satisfied while makinglove. Making love between two people who are in love is often slow and intimate. After lovemaking many couples that love one another will hold and cuddle their lover as a deeper form of intimacy afterwards. This also brings the lovers together and they connect deeper on that emotional bond.













“So she thoroughly taught him that one cannot take pleasure without giving pleasure, and that every gesture, every caress, every touch, every glance, every last bit of the body has its secret, which brings happiness to the person who knows how to wake it. She taught him that after a celebration of love the lovers should not part without admiring each other, without being conquered or having conquered, so that neither is bleak or glutted or has the bad feeling of being used or misused.”








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Princefamous2's photo
Sun 02/24/13 05:24 PM
Having sex its just a fun but love forever

RainbowTrout's photo
Sun 02/24/13 05:25 PM
The difference in sex and love making for me is sex is easy to break away from. Breaking away from love making is harder to do. For me, anyways. :smile:

TexasScoundrel's photo
Sun 02/24/13 05:27 PM

Many often we confuse the difference between sex and making love. Some often compare the two as being the same thing. Most people do not realize that there is a difference between these two. Let's start with sex. To me sex is something that doesn't often involve real feelings or even a committed, real relationship. Many people have a "friend with benefits," which is what I would put under the category of sex. Often times there are others who seek pleasure from one-nights stand .Love making When two people who are in love with each other, and who share that emotional bond with one another, they care very much about making their partner feel cherished. When someone who is in love makes love to their partner, they take care of all their needs, not just sexually. They will take time by doing foreplay and making their lover feel loved. They are attentive to their partners every needs and desires. They get more joy out of satisfying them then they do themselves. Often times, they do not always need to be satisfied while making love. Making love between two people who are in love is often slow and intimate. After lovemaking many couples that love one another will hold and cuddle their lover as a deeper form of intimacy afterwards. This also brings the lovers together and they connect deeper on that emotional bond. At least for me that is how I am what about you .


It's just sex. What ever the feelings, be it love or attraction or lust or just plain old horny you're just having sex. It's not special. People do it every day all over the world. Some people want to pretend there's more to it than that, but that's just so they have an excuse for feeling horny. It's not an expression of your love, it a chance to have an orgasm (or a few).

The best sex I've ever had was with a woman I'd met only a few hours before we did it. It was AWESOME! We were both completely caught up in the raw passion of it. We did everything, the full on Masters and Johnson greatest hits. And when she climaxed, it was as if she exploded. We never spoke again after that because we both knew it would never be better than that first night.

willing2's photo
Sun 02/24/13 05:39 PM

well the diffrent between them two is just having sex is no eye contact or connetion between the two that have sex an making love is just eye contact an connetion an holding an rubing an kissing her while having sex an the feeling between the two like they feeling each other heart a in one

It is really tough to have eye contact when yer doin' it doggie style.:wink:

But, yeah. I know the difference.smokin

Kahurangi's photo
Sun 02/24/13 05:48 PM
I would equate 'just sex' to a fast food outlet. Cheap and nasty that leaves you with a distasteful bleh feeling afterward.

The sensual art of making love is highly preferred and valued, but there doesn't appear to be many skilled artists that have a true appreciation for the 'pleasure of the flesh'

And that's a damn shame....

willing2's photo
Sun 02/24/13 06:45 PM

I would equate 'just sex' to a fast food outlet. Cheap and nasty that leaves you with a distasteful bleh feeling afterward.

The sensual art of making love is highly preferred and valued, but there doesn't appear to be many skilled artists that have a true appreciation for the 'pleasure of the flesh'

And that's a damn shame....

Yer lookin' at one.
I have years of experience in how to sasify the woman's emotional senses and her sexual body.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-f0hioL6fuo

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Sun 02/24/13 06:49 PM
sex and love making are the same thing. what changes is the emotional connection and sync that you develop with your partner. as time goes on the intimacy can be pretty intense.

so plain old horny boy commin at me sex seems really boring once you'va had the real thingflowerforyou

zenman1st's photo
Sat 03/02/13 09:15 AM
I make love with heart..mind..body an soul....I have sex with body only...

yogi4yogini's photo
Sat 03/02/13 10:05 AM
“So she thoroughly taught him that one cannot take pleasure without giving pleasure, and that every gesture, every caress, every touch, every glance, every last bit of the body has its secret, which brings happiness to the person who knows how to wake it. She taught him that after a celebration of love the lovers should not part without admiring each other, without being conquered or having conquered, so that neither is bleak or glutted or has the bad feeling of being used or misused.”

That's beautiful, M&M.

Sex with love is like wanting to merge right into her soul. To give her the best that you have, and to fulfill her every need and desire. Sex with love builds warm happiness and completes existance.

Sex for lust is random, needy, and feels hollow afterwards. In the wrong frame of mind, it encourages depression and desprate feelings.