certain holidays it's allowed... and every other mothers day...

i understand! lol, the best tool in sales...

I didn't tell my husband how to dress or how to style his hair etc...He was attractive to me because he was an individual in his own right. This made him unique and interesting to me...He never told me how to dress or how to wear my hair either...We didn't play Barbie and Ken and try to dress or "remake" or "remodel" each other. (As if we were each others' doll or personal toy or ?)...This kind of stuff seems narcissistic to me. As in: "I own you. You are my possession and personal property so you MUST do what I want and MUST be who I want you to be!"...YUK! I'd never want to be in this type of relationship!

I find short hair on women very unattractive for the most part, but that doesnt mean I cant enjoy who they are or even fall in love. Just a huge turn on physically so I suppose it would make everything else harder (like a bad odor cannot be ignored and makes it hard to concentrate, though short hair isnt as bad as a massive stink). With that said, I hate dealing with my own hair and mostly refuse to allow it to get past a certain length, so I absolutely understand if the personal choice is to go short. I've always been amazed and confounded by how women deal with so much hair. Thankfully, there are various levels of short hair and some are not too short and can be very stylish, but the shorter it gets... the less likely I'll have a desire to get physical.

When I was a teen, my boyfriend had a crew cut, and he was a damn pest for constantly straightening his hair. . He was quite vain. He thought he was a boyband member. .