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Topic: How Nosy are You?
JOHNN111 Joined Wed 05/13/09 Posts: 9273	Sat 02/09/13 11:26 AM
Yeah, I used to keep things around just to plant little seeds in a woman's imagination. Photographs of me with other women, feminine hygiene products, a pantie that would only fit a 90 pound woman. I could always tell which ones had found things. This is where we differ a lil TS... I would never create a imaginary scenario by planting the items you described. My purpose would not be to disturb someone's psyche... I would call that "head games" No offence to anyone's M.O here but what would be the point again? To get a rise out of them? Start off on bad footing? Get rid of her? I'll pass on this method.

Leigh2154 Joined Sun 10/02/11 Posts: 16479	Sat 02/09/13 11:34 AM
Yeah, I used to keep things around just to plant little seeds in a woman's imagination. Photographs of me with other women, feminine hygiene products, a pantie that would only fit a 90 pound woman. I could always tell which ones had found things. This is where we differ a lil TS... I would never create a imaginary scenario by planting the items you described. My purpose would not be to disturb someone's psyche... I would call that "head games" No offence to anyone's M.O here but what would be the point again? To get a rise out of them? Start off on bad footing? Get rid of her? I'll pass on this method. Method! .......You call that a method? Sounds more like entrapment to me Hey John

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Sat 02/09/13 11:43 AM
Yeah, I used to keep things around just to plant little seeds in a woman's imagination. Photographs of me with other women, feminine hygiene products, a pantie that would only fit a 90 pound woman. I could always tell which ones had found things. I thought you didn't like when women played games? And yet, you're playing games with them? Sounds like you're hoping they'd be nosy.

JOHNN111 Joined Wed 05/13/09 Posts: 9273	Sat 02/09/13 12:16 PM
Yeah, I used to keep things around just to plant little seeds in a woman's imagination. Photographs of me with other women, feminine hygiene products, a pantie that would only fit a 90 pound woman. I could always tell which ones had found things. This is where we differ a lil TS... I would never create a imaginary scenario by planting the items you described. My purpose would not be to disturb someone's psyche... I would call that "head games" No offence to anyone's M.O here but what would be the point again? To get a rise out of them? Start off on bad footing? Get rid of her? I'll pass on this method. Method! .......You call that a method? Sounds more like entrapment to me Hey John Leigh! It's only entrapment if she goes on a scavenger hunt?

Unknow Joined Thu 04/01/10 Posts: 1482	Sat 02/09/13 12:33 PM
Yeah, I used to keep things around just to plant little seeds in a woman's imagination. Photographs of me with other women, feminine hygiene products, a pantie that would only fit a 90 pound woman. I could always tell which ones had found things. I thought you didn't like when women played games? And yet, you're playing games with them? Sounds like you're hoping they'd be nosy. oh the games people play...........

TexasScoundrel Joined Wed 10/29/08 Posts: 3693	Sat 02/09/13 03:42 PM
Yeah, I used to keep things around just to plant little seeds in a woman's imagination. Photographs of me with other women, feminine hygiene products, a pantie that would only fit a 90 pound woman. I could always tell which ones had found things. This is where we differ a lil TS... I would never create a imaginary scenario by planting the items you described. My purpose would not be to disturb someone's psyche... I would call that "head games" No offence to anyone's M.O here but what would be the point again? To get a rise out of them? Start off on bad footing? Get rid of her? I'll pass on this method. If she doesn't go through my things she won't find any of that junk and there won't be any issue. If she does find them, she's in the wrong for violating my privacy and deserves what she gets. With any luck, she leave me and I've rid myself of a troublesome person in my life.

TexasScoundrel Joined Wed 10/29/08 Posts: 3693	Sat 02/09/13 03:43 PM
Yeah, I used to keep things around just to plant little seeds in a woman's imagination. Photographs of me with other women, feminine hygiene products, a pantie that would only fit a 90 pound woman. I could always tell which ones had found things. I thought you didn't like when women played games? And yet, you're playing games with them? Sounds like you're hoping they'd be nosy. Not at all. See my above post.

Cutiepieforyou Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 43085	Sat 02/09/13 03:44 PM
That would be snooping. I am not a snoop.

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Sat 02/09/13 03:49 PM
Only to find out if they're a closet Twilight fan.

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 02/09/13 04:24 PM
You've just had sex with a new lover for the first time. It's now the morning after and he/she has gone out to buy breakfast for you both. While they're gone, do you look through his/her personal belongings? Closets, draws, etc? definitely not. that is just weird

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 02/09/13 04:26 PM
Yeah, I used to keep things around just to plant little seeds in a woman's imagination. Photographs of me with other women, feminine hygiene products, a pantie that would only fit a 90 pound woman. I could always tell which ones had found things. This is where we differ a lil TS... I would never create a imaginary scenario by planting the items you described. My purpose would not be to disturb someone's psyche... I would call that "head games" No offence to anyone's M.O here but what would be the point again? To get a rise out of them? Start off on bad footing? Get rid of her? I'll pass on this method. If she doesn't go through my things she won't find any of that junk and there won't be any issue. If she does find them, she's in the wrong for violating my privacy and deserves what she gets. With any luck, she leave me and I've rid myself of a troublesome person in my life. or she has left a troublemaker and moved on - she could accidnetally find something by looking for a book, the TV remote or an ashtray your plot is not only dishonest it is immature - something I'd expect in one of those silly highschool romance movies...with emphasis on high school

Unknow Joined Thu 04/01/10 Posts: 1482	Sat 02/09/13 04:34 PM
truthfully, I'd look to see if she was on any psych meds, but that's all. I wouldn't go through her things, so I'd never know if she had a locked box. so it's ok for you to go through her things but not ok for her, such a double standard. Not everyone keeps their medications in open sight so you would have to do some "looking".Medicine cabinets, dresser drawers, kitchen cupboards, nightstand drawers,her purse that is being pretty invasive on her privacy. Why not just ask her what? if any medications she is on? oh I bad, I forgot you don't trust women either........................

TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Sat 02/09/13 04:56 PM
Sounds like you just sabotage your own relationships because you don't really want to be in one Tex.

kissablekiss Joined Mon 03/08/10 Posts: 8528	Sat 02/09/13 05:07 PM
Checking the Bathroom first ,women always leave stuff in there ... seriously if we had awesome sex ,I wouldnt bother getting out of bed lol

rambill79 Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 5780	Sat 02/09/13 05:23 PM Edited by rambill79 on Sat 02/09/13 05:26 PM
What if you've been burned 19 times... do you look into who they are for real? Or never know what they're hiding? I know tons of people that hide things i would've wanted to know because it was a deal breaker. Im not waiting for it to reveal on its own. I look. Dont care. Been burned too many times. I shouldn't be looked at as jaded for it... it wasn't me that betrayed. So what, someone looks at your stuff...big deal.. when people worry about that, they always have something to hide. Every time Mabe in your world... hmmm ... I have no secrets but i don't want anyone pawing through my things,either.

TexasScoundrel Joined Wed 10/29/08 Posts: 3693	Sat 02/09/13 06:22 PM
Sounds like you just sabotage your own relationships because you don't really want to be in one Tex. [Sarcasm] You guys are right. I really should just lie to her about being mutually exclusive, and tell how much I loooooooove her because that's really what women want to hear. Right? [/Sarcasm]

TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Sat 02/09/13 07:28 PM
Sounds like you just sabotage your own relationships because you don't really want to be in one Tex. [Sarcasm] You guys are right. I really should just lie to her about being mutually exclusive, and tell how much I loooooooove her because that's really what women want to hear. Right? [/Sarcasm] Well, I'm not as much of an expert on women as you are but no, they don't always want guys to tell them that they love them. Could be because you are so irresistable to women yourself and they all want to be the one that you finally decide to settle down with that you got that impression. But in my experience if a woman has decided that she doesn't want a serious relationship with me she isn't going to want me telling her that I love her either.

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Sat 02/09/13 07:31 PM
You've just had sex with a new lover for the first time. It's now the morning after and he/she has gone out to buy breakfast for you both. While they're gone, do you look through his/her personal belongings? Closets, draws, etc? Only if there is good reason, like if my bull chit meter is telling me that something is not right or that he is lying. If I find that he is... I'm out of there.

Jeanniebean Joined Wed 01/30/08 Posts: 40028	Sat 02/09/13 07:38 PM
Yeah, I used to keep things around just to plant little seeds in a woman's imagination. Photographs of me with other women, feminine hygiene products, a pantie that would only fit a 90 pound woman. I could always tell which ones had found things. This is where we differ a lil TS... I would never create a imaginary scenario by planting the items you described. My purpose would not be to disturb someone's psyche... I would call that "head games" No offence to anyone's M.O here but what would be the point again? To get a rise out of them? Start off on bad footing? Get rid of her? I'll pass on this method. If she doesn't go through my things she won't find any of that junk and there won't be any issue. If she does find them, she's in the wrong for violating my privacy and deserves what she gets. With any luck, she leave me and I've rid myself of a troublesome person in my life. Wow you've got serious problems. If you were really concerned about your "privacy" you would not have left her alone in your apartment or truck. If you plant things, you are playing head games. If she doesn't snoop, you will probably feel like she doesn't give a damn about who you are.

Rawrr_Girl Joined Sun 10/04/09 Posts: 4431	Sat 02/09/13 08:47 PM
So what's stopping you from leaving her? You do have a choice. I see no-one holding you at gunpoint.