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how do you handle that?
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With care and sense
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With as little contact as possible. Have to be civil as she is the kids mom.
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i still talk to a number of my exs
even my very first bf from over 30yrs ago |
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I still talk to most of my exs but i keep my distance. I restrict the contact to only only or text message... that way is easy to maintain certain level of friendship. Also, common sense always helps... never talk to them about your current couple or other ex, never ask for date advice and so on.
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Edited by
renamed
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Sun 02/03/13 09:20 AM
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so does that mean that you still have feelings for your ex?
as one said in facebook "if the ex lovers were remained as friends , there are two things possible . you are still inlove or you never really been inlove" |
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I don't have feelings for any ex....they are history.
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what makes you befriend with them?
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Children.
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I'm sorta "meh...wahtever" about the whole contact with the ex thing too.
of course I am terrible about keeping in touch anyway - ask my sister, cousins, aunts and old college & HS friends...I am sure all would agree so to devote effort into maintaining contact with someone who I chose not to have in my life? probably not gonna happen. incidental brief contact is fine. I don't have a problem if we happen to see each other to talk for a bit |
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what makes you befriend with them? Sometimes, turning away from 20 years of your history and life just because things aren't working out the same anymore doesn't work. |
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may be u hve contact with ur ex.bt dont show emotion before them or weakness of ur emotions.keep safe distance and use common sense to avoid offencive moments
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I only talk to a couple of ex's. Most of the time we decide to walk our separate ways like we're leaving a crime scene.
The girls I still talk to I dated years ago and it doesn't really matter anymore that we dated. One even dates my best friend. Growing up and adult stuff. |
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I wouldn't say I'm "friends" with any former lovers, but there are a few I see form time to time and I'm friendly with. I wouldn't cross the street to avoid any of them.
As for how I do it, it's simple. We broke up for a reason, I remember it. That doesn't make her a bad person, just not the right person for me. |
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By admitting that true love never dies. It is like a fire that can burn out if not tended properly.
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how do you handle that? Yes, I am friends with my exes with the exception of the abuser. |
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Well, I try to be dignified about it. I might have put up with all sorts of crap when I was with them but I don't need to do that if I'm not in a relationship with them anymore.
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My ex and I became better friends after we were divorced than we ever were when we were married.
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so does that mean that you still have feelings for your ex? as one said in facebook "if the ex lovers were remained as friends , there are two things possible . you are still inlove or you never really been inlove" no it doesnt mean that it just means that you still care about each other as friends and nothing goes over the boundaries i have a old bf that im still friends with when i was younger and he is married and im also friends with his wife when they had no place to go i let them stay with me for a brief we both know nothing is going to be ever be |
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