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Topic: Why Are We Are Contacted by People Out of State
alienencounter1 Joined Mon 06/04/12 Posts: 37	Wed 01/30/13 07:56 AM
Why do people contacted me out of state for dating or a relationship ? That really seems unproductive in trying to pursue a relationship ....

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Wed 01/30/13 08:11 AM
Why do people contacted me out of state for dating or a relationship ? That really seems unproductive in trying to pursue a relationship .... Tell that to people that met on here from separate states(and countries)and are now together.

toxicpoizon Joined Sun 10/14/12 Posts: 164	Wed 01/30/13 08:21 AM
Why do people contacted me out of state for dating or a relationship ? That really seems unproductive in trying to pursue a relationship .... Perhaps they have already tried those in their areas and not been successful, so they are expanding their search.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76433	Wed 01/30/13 08:21 AM
Just say NO~~~ Many have meet others across the pond here and have gotten together and now married... Guess some feel if they don't take the chance they will never know huh?? I have it stated only in my area but still get those that live 5 hours or more away but still in the same state. It happens all you have to say is NO looking local only...simple as that..

Rawrr_Girl Joined Sun 10/04/09 Posts: 4431	Wed 01/30/13 08:24 AM
Maybe they're the type that don't mind long distance. You can always set your filter.

alienencounter1 Joined Mon 06/04/12 Posts: 37	Wed 01/30/13 08:31 AM
I know that people do meet and get married from other states but let me define my question,,that usually is not the norm but what is the attraction to do so.This simply a question of curiosity ..plus my inbox is full of such ladys....thanks

alienencounter1 Joined Mon 06/04/12 Posts: 37	Wed 01/30/13 08:36 AM Edited by alienencounter1 on Wed 01/30/13 08:37 AM
Hey guys this is not complaint just wanted some insight

Rawrr_Girl Joined Sun 10/04/09 Posts: 4431	Wed 01/30/13 08:41 AM
You should see what it's like being contacted by people from other planets. Maybe it's my shiny watch.

alienencounter1 Joined Mon 06/04/12 Posts: 37	Wed 01/30/13 08:48 AM
You should see what it's like being contacted by people from other planets. Maybe it's my shiny watch. No ,its your blood type and your stem cells they allready have shiny crafts,,,,

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76433	Wed 01/30/13 09:22 AM
Hahaha you should see my in-box on a daily basis it is unreal... And what is good is when I politly say no and they come back and say distance is not a factor Then 9 times out of 10 they are scammers that tell me that I report them through the system just like anyone else... Mods do not handle those issues.. So I suggest that if by chance you think they are scammers report them at the bottom of the e-mail. And let Admin take a look just in case they are scammers. If not then no harm is done. For all the others normally they will reply back with a okay and I leave it at that.. Many contact others from other areas due to they live in small towns or are willing to move if they find someone they connect with... Myself my roots are planted and can not be dug up..

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Wed 01/30/13 09:45 AM
I know that people do meet and get married from other states but let me define my question,,that usually is not the norm but what is the attraction to do so.This simply a question of curiosity ..plus my inbox is full of such ladys....thanks I think like it was said people can't find anyone locally so they throw their fishing line out further.

alienencounter1 Joined Mon 06/04/12 Posts: 37	Wed 01/30/13 09:47 AM
Hahaha you should see my in-box on a daily basis it is unreal... And what is good is when I politly say no and they come back and say distance is not a factor Then 9 times out of 10 they are scammers that tell me that I report them through the system just like anyone else... Mods do not handle those issues.. So I suggest that if by chance you think they are scammers report them at the bottom of the e-mail. And let Admin take a look just in case they are scammers. If not then no harm is done. For all the others normally they will reply back with a okay and I leave it at that.. Many contact others from other areas due to they live in small towns or are willing to move if they find someone they connect with... Myself my roots are planted and can not be dug up.. My roots are planted but wouldn't mind replanting in same flower bed...as far as scammers yes, that may be the reason for my overload so now i get to have fun monkeying with these scammers....

Traumer Joined Sun 01/06/13 Posts: 723	Wed 01/30/13 11:14 AM Edited by Traumer on Wed 01/30/13 11:28 AM
I would think that if our 'home-towns' were listed below our photos, it would make a person from long distances away really think before trying to contact them in an 'off-the- cuff' manner. It certainly would not affect any scammers from it, but it would lessen a lot of needless inquiries...while a few would possibly be inspired to make contact... Aliens will not pay any attention. If they want to contact you, you can't stop them...

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76433	Wed 01/30/13 11:35 AM
I would think that if our 'home-towns' were listed below our photos, it would make a person from long distances away really think before trying to contact them in an 'off-the- cuff' manner. It certainly would not affect any scammers from it, but it would lessen a lot of needless inquiries...while a few would possibly be inspired to make contact... Aliens will not pay any attention. If they want to contact you, you can't stop them... Humm home towns are listed on your profiles only in the forums are they not listed. Normally those that contact you directly see your profile first or your user name in search which in fact has your home town and state on it.....

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Wed 01/30/13 11:38 AM
Why do people contacted me out of state for dating or a relationship ? That really seems unproductive in trying to pursue a relationship .... Why not just set up a filter so only people a certain distance can contact you? Works better than complaining about it.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48947	Wed 01/30/13 11:52 AM
You should see what it's like being contacted by people from other planets. Maybe it's my shiny watch. Do you have something against people from other planets?

alienencounter1 Joined Mon 06/04/12 Posts: 37	Wed 01/30/13 05:31 PM
Why do people contacted me out of state for dating or a relationship ? That really seems unproductive in trying to pursue a relationship .... Why not just set up a filter so only people a certain distance can contact you? Works better than complaining about it. How do you know it was a complaint cant a person be curious and get different perspectives on different ideas ,oh i see you complain alot thats reason you think i complain,,,,lololo.....actually once you got to know me youll find out im a down to earth non complaining person ,its just fun to be able to get peoples feathers ruffled .....just saying..

metalwing Joined Fri 11/14/08 Posts: 26218	Wed 01/30/13 05:36 PM
I've made some good long distance friends. Texas... like another Country!

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21804	Wed 01/30/13 05:37 PM
Why do people contacted me out of state for dating or a relationship ? That really seems unproductive in trying to pursue a relationship .... Maybe they are aliens looking for some fresh meat to take back to Capricorn prime. Or maybe they just plumb wore out all the fine young studs in their home state.

bastet126 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 15553	Wed 01/30/13 05:44 PM
I've made some good long distance friends. Texas... like another Country! this. except for the texas part.