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| Topic: Ladies.. What is a "Nice Guy" ? | |
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First of all I'd like to say thank you for your input. Second, I have been looking through this Mutual Match and have most of the Ladies say they want a "nice guy". What is a nice guy. I believe that I am one of them and I'm sure most of my friends on JSH would agree, So please help me understand what a "Nice Guy" is to you.... |
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a nice guy well you find alot of those that turn out to be major jurks.
but a nice guy i would consider treating you with respects,honesty, maybe treat you like a queen the way you should be treated and not be treated crappy. and i found a few guys in that area. 
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My description would be
someone who is kind, considerate, thinks of someone other than himself, sometimes. All the loving and honesty and compatibility will all come into play...later on How you Dale?
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How about someone who keeps their word. If you say something, say you are going to do something, then do it. A lot of guys make promises and never keep them. That would make you a nice guy.
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To me 'nice guy' means
respectful of himself and others emotionally available honest cares about people
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Hey Puffins, I'm doing alright. I feel weary dealing with everything with my day, but a good thing is my job is sending me to PHX for a week long Convention in PHX next week.... How are ya'll doing? |
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Honest, dependable, witty, appreciative, smart, are some of the qualities that are in my definition of a nice guy. Someone that I can't wait to be with.
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dale women are not looking for nice guys....
nice guys get the pat on the back at the end of the date . that says.."Your a good guy but you just can't close the deal" that's usually what the nice guys get.... do not! label yourself with the nice Guy tab.... and if any woman wants to come in here and debate about how's she's "LOOKING" for a nice Guy......I'll show her how wrong She really is..... 
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Is Money an Important part of a "Nice Guy" ? I'm not rich, but certainly not poor either... |
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look at it this way dale....the next few dates your on....and the night is closing in????
if "She says good night....."I'll call you"... It's game over may as well start looking for the next date... It's called "the Pat of death" for a reason.
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Dale money does not define you and anyone that says so is trying to sell you something.
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Really, Quake? What about guys who do the same thing? I actually had a guy who got mad because I wouldn't go out with him again because he didn't call. His response? I HAD IT ON A POST IT TO DO.
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I'm sorry to hear that NGL... I hate when people do that. |
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good laugh obviously his true colors came to surface exposing him as the manipulative control freak.
count your lucky stars it was a close call of certain dating doom you avoided.... some one was watching over you... divine intervention perhaps????
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Quake,you have a right to your thoughts, but I think nice guys win with NICE ladies. I am PROUD to be considered a nice guy, or in other words a GENTLEMAN. I can walk both sides of the street, but preferr the nicer side.
Just MY thoughts. |
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It is not so different for women...
Nice women are too 'nice' for some men ... just like some nice men are too 'nice' for some women. Nice does not mean a weak pushover. Nice does not mean changing who you are. Nice does not mean giving in. Nice is about respect, compassion, kindness Nice does not mean that there is no edge 
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Maybe it was. I always wonder if I should send him some more Post Its so he would be ready for the next woman.
Thanks, Dale. I gave him a Post It that said "Forget Marie".
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This is what one looks like http://img95.imageshack.us/img95/4706/iceman9tn.jpg
...er, oh wait, you said <N>ice guy? ah, nevermind then
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I figure if Im an azzzzzhole long enough I will attract a nice guy!!!! Hey, Ive heard opposites attract!!!!
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