Topic: Best way to meet someone who is real on this site | |
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**** note to self: post more on forums. ****
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Yeah the forums are the reason I stay on the site
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Yeah the forums are the reason I stay on the site Same here! |
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I met two great ladies that have become very good friends through these forums. Neither of them are on Mingle anymore but I still talk to both of them daily.
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Best way to meet someone from this site or any site is look for those that are local...Set up a meet within a week over a soda don't have to be dinner ect... Once you meet them talk to them in person if it is all good ask them out on a actually lunch date or meet some where fun to see how things go then take if from there...
Unless you want to do the LDR where it is months before you meet them then get to know them. Look out for the scammer issues if they are legit then by the time you meet them you should know them pretty good. Not saying just because you click on the phone ect you will click in person.... Many times it is not the same in person as it is online and the phone... Do what feels comfortable to you....myself I prefer local so I can meet them within a week or two..and see if we have the mutual feeling of wanting to meet again.. |
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I'd just like to find a fembot who cooks, cleans, and irons shirts. Stepford wives!! |
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Edited by
Jeanniebean
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Sun 01/20/13 10:05 AM
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I'd just like to find a fembot who cooks, cleans, and irons shirts. Stepford wives!! Seriously? You would rob a woman with heart and personality and replace her with a Stepford wife? If that is what men think they really want, I say more power to them. Women could finally be rid of their constant need to have a servant and sex slave, and then women could use their superior intelligence to take over the world. Men could be used only for sperm until women perfect cloning without it. |
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I'd just like to find a fembot who cooks, cleans, and irons shirts. Stepford wives!! Seriously? You would rob a woman with heart and personality and replace her with a Stepford wife? If that is what men think they really want, I say more power to them. Women could finally be rid of their constant need to have a servant and sex slave, and then women could use their superior intelligence to take over the world. Men could be used only for sperm until women perfect cloning without it. Ever wonder why there has never been a movie, let alone cartoons about Stepford Husbands? Just imagine what that could be like...same with Valley Of The Dolls; but what to call it if it were about males... I can just imagine what some women would love to call it! Same for the sequels, like could one be Beyond The Valley Of The Bozos, or just insert your favourite derogatory term for drunk, violent, shallow,and narcissistic modern males... |
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Edited by
Toodygirl5
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Sun 01/20/13 04:52 PM
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Send a message to a woman you are attracted to. Hopefully they will message you back. Then get to know one another by emailing or chatting. I have no problems I get replies but then I am messaging MEN.
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Ever wonder why there has never been a movie, let alone cartoons about Stepford Husbands?
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0117741/combined |
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...same with Valley Of The Dolls; but what to call it if it were about males...
Valley of the Action Figures? |
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Just like in real life, it takes time. |
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females need to add more cleavage pics
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I actually have on my profile that I am not looking to date at this time. BUT the last 2 men that have contacted me and acted very serious...with in 10 days asked me for money. I was waiting because they both had the same story...OH YES THOSE RED FLAGS, YOU SEE THEM A MILE AWAY!!!
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I was about asking the same question.the whole real thing is a little bit twisted.what might seem very real to me because of my preception might not be the case with you.
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females need to add more cleavage pics What a jerk. Go find an oraphis to use instead of real women. |
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Just like in real life, it takes time. As it was for thousands of years. You're just pissed cause you're selfish and don't want to share. It's all about you right? Realize, men were either created or evolved to PROVIDE for their families. Get the net. |
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females need to add more cleavage pics What a jerk. Go find an oraphis to use instead of real women. He's kidding, geeshhh! |
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Be yourself. You can play a role online all you want, but that is something that is emotionally draining to maintain, especially if you do meet someone.
Communicate clearly - don't say you are looking for a relationship when all you want to do is sleep with her/him and move on to the next person. Open yourself up to the possibility of a great non sexual relationship with someone - takes off the chains of limitations of what we want in a partner and opens your greater world view. Travel - Take a trip to see something new and if in the process you have dinner or meet someone from the site then that is a bonus. Treat her like a lady - yes there are some that women that don't like this approach but the old ways still work the best. Treat her like a princess even if she will never be your queen. |
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Am looking for a true friend here.can i see?
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