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Edited by
Jeanniebean
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When men are constantly frowned upon for things out of their control such as height, baldness, small penis, or what have you, the only other option is deception. They hope they can get out at least one night out of the year, even if it's a predictable failure. I'm not sure why this is a difficult concept. But why should I be uncomfortable because he lied? If you are a short guy..nothing wrong with that..find a woman who prefers or doesn't mind a short guy! I specifically say..I PREFER TALLER GUYS..so he knew right there that I would be disappointed ! He told me over the phone...he doesn't like heavy women! I said ok...Im not heavy..you'll see when we meet! Perfect opportunity to say "oh hey Tee...Im also only 5'3..I hope that wont be a problem"!! It's not an option to just find someone that digs everything about you. Everyone figures there's grey area. Women stuffed their bras and wore high heels for forever and that was considered normal and not deception. One more change in culture could mean short men will start to use stilts? jessejames2, So true. These days women have work done. Nose jobs, liposuction, botox, boob jobs, face jobs, make up, wigs, padded bras, padded behinds etc. High heels .... I always liked the way they looked but hated to wear them. To me, a woman with a very short skirt and four inch heels is advertising.... I'm looking to make you drool. They are using their sex to get what they want. And it works. But eventually, what you look like in a relationship is not really going to save a bad relationship. It is what is on the inside that matters in the end when you are old and out of shape and have to live in the same house. If you don't like each other, looks can't save a relationship. They help but they don't matter. 
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Don't know. Could be that some of them tried honesty and couldn't even get any replies on dating sites, or couldn't get anyone atractive to talk to them. Then they try pork pies and get responses. Now they are thinking, "Great, I might actually get a date here and I'll own up soon". It's pretty hard to admit to being a liar but they can go on the date and if the person points out their deceptions they can say, "Yeah, sorry about that. Don't really know why I did it but everyone on the internet is a liar and I wasn't getting anywhere telling the truth". I guess also they can tell themselves after these dates that they might tell a few fibs but at least they aren't superficial... I don't believe everyone on the Internet is a liar. |
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Edited by
Jeanniebean
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Wed 01/09/13 09:31 AM
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Okay its time to come clean and tell the truth Minglers. Here is mine:
I'm 63 years old, 50 pounds overweight, and I will make your life a living hell. Wanna date? 
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How can looks both help and not matter?
Many relationships break down because the atraction goes. Sometimes it's also that someone doesn't feel atractive anymore. |
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How can looks both help and not matter? Many relationships break down because the atraction goes. Sometimes it's also that someone doesn't feel atractive anymore. Looks are only part of the equation. Having them helps, but if you don't have them you can make up for it in other ways. Wealth is an easy to understand alternative to good looks. |
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How can looks both help and not matter? Many relationships break down because the atraction goes. Sometimes it's also that someone doesn't feel atractive anymore. Looks are only part of the equation. Having them helps, but if you don't have them you can make up for it in other ways. Wealth is an easy to understand alternative to good looks. Well, having a job is I guess. |
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How can looks both help and not matter? Many relationships break down because the atraction goes. Sometimes it's also that someone doesn't feel atractive anymore. Looks help... but they will not save a relationship. They matter in the beginning for attraction purposes. Beauty is still in the eyes of the beholder too. |
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How can looks both help and not matter? Many relationships break down because the atraction goes. Sometimes it's also that someone doesn't feel atractive anymore. Looks help... but they will not save a relationship. They matter in the beginning for attraction purposes. Beauty is still in the eyes of the beholder too. Okay, thanks for the platitudes but come on, we all know stories about relationships breaking down when the sex goes because one person stops finding the other atractive or someone feels that their partner doesn't fancy them anymore. |
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I told my kids I have the body of a 20 year old.
They told me to give it back before I get it wrinkled. 
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Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, but most men like attractive women for a relationship. Whether the man is young or old.
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Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, but most men like attractive women for a relationship. Whether the man is young or old. I, fortunately, am not in the most division. Fancy, material girl, girly-girl types aren't for me. I love, plain-jane, little to no make-up, country-type women. The type most men would want to throw back. |
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How can looks both help and not matter? Many relationships break down because the atraction goes. Sometimes it's also that someone doesn't feel atractive anymore. This is a different issue to me.. I've always been told, What you did to get the man.. you must do to keep the man! I take care of myself and I Expect my man to do the same. Granted we all get " comfortable" but thats IN THE RELATIONSHIP. Don't lie to begin the relationship... that's just stupid! |
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Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, but most men like attractive women for a relationship. Whether the man is young or old. What is attractive is different for different people, though. |
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Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, but most men like attractive women for a relationship. Whether the man is young or old. I, fortunately, am not in the most division. Fancy, material girl, girly-girl types aren't for me. I love, plain-jane, little to no make-up, country-type women. The type most men would want to throw back. Dang it... Another man I can't have! |
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Well, having a job is I guess. Can you name one rich, famous man with an unattractive wife of girlfriend? There are a couple, but for the most part rich guys do very well. |
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Well, having a job is I guess. Can you name one rich, famous man with an unattractive wife of girlfriend? There are a couple, but for the most part rich guys do very well. Sure and a lot of the time their wives or girlfriends are seeing some other guy that is good looking. Don't really know what your point is anyway. "We have a strong relationship because my wife is a golddigger"? |
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Well, having a job is I guess. Can you name one rich, famous man with an unattractive wife of girlfriend? There are a couple, but for the most part rich guys do very well. Yep! |
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Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, but most men like attractive women for a relationship. Whether the man is young or old. I, fortunately, am not in the most division. Fancy, material girl, girly-girl types aren't for me. I love, plain-jane, little to no make-up, country-type women. The type most men would want to throw back. Some women do not need make up! They have a natural beauty. Some women put on so much makeup if you washed it all off, you would wonder who she is. |
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Okay its time to come clean and tell the truth Minglers. Here is mine: I'm 63 years old, 50 pounds overweight, and I will make your life a living hell. Wanna date?
I saw that movie when I was a kid. Still scares hell outa' me!!   
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Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, but most men like attractive women for a relationship. Whether the man is young or old. Yes this is so true. You aren't pretty enough; they won't give you the time of day as I have found out. |
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