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i was in relationship with a girl and she ditched me after 1 year
i could not understand that why she did that and what is the reason for that .how to cop with this trouble |
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I'd advise to just get rid of everything that would trigger you to think about her. Just keep yourself busy! Hang with friends do stuff you like try out new things and make awesome new memories.
Finding someone awesome on mingle would help too ;p |
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What he said.
Or drink heavily and listen to Elliott Smith. That's my method. (It's worked terribly) |
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Edited by
Leigh2154
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Wed 01/02/13 10:47 AM
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It's really hard when you go out without closure......Don't listen to PP, alcohol is a depressant...Listen to Deadpoet, dead poets know best
 ... Here, give this flower to the next pretty girl you see! 
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imagine she is dead, dead in the ground rotting away, seems stupid but it works, do that a couple of hundred times and you will be over her for good, do not think anything else but she is DEAD in a wooden or whatever box in the ground, rotting away
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imagine she is dead, dead in the ground rotting away, seems stupid but it works, do that a couple of hundred times and you will be over her for good, do not think anything else but she is DEAD in a wooden or whatever box in the ground, rotting away ummmm.... yeah. Jesus loves you  lmao |
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i was in relationship with a girl and she ditched me after 1 year i could not understand that why she did that and what is the reason for that .how to cop with this trouble Personally... I remove every single solitary item from my presence that the bum ... I mean, the guy ever gave me. Then... make sure to delete his phone numbers...work, office and parents house! You'll be over him/ her in no time! |
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Go out and start talking to other people ASAP. Women are not an endangered species.
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Step back take a deep breath and regroup.Everybody goes through this. If you feel its her fault concentrate on making better choices. If you feel its your fault learn from your mistakes. Go out have some fun, Hey its good to be alive brother!
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The suggestions are mostly good advice on here....except the whole alcohol and dead ones....bit much guys...lol
I have found that keeping busy, having friends who are there to help you work through it helps, and always, learn from whatever mistakes you made and she made, and look for someone who is nothing like her. |
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Go out and start talking to other people ASAP. Women are not an endangered species. I agree. Plenty others to search through out there. |
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The suggestions are mostly good advice on here....except the whole alcohol and dead ones....bit much guys...lol I have found that keeping busy, having friends who are there to help you work through it helps, and always, learn from whatever mistakes you made and she made, and look for someone who is nothing like her. I don't worry too much about it other than that...basically if a few days go by & I don't hear from him, I 'll call. If I go to VM I lv a msg. If I don't hear back in 24 -48 all bets are off - I figure I'm free to roam and do |
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If you really, really, REALLY want her back again, then now is better than later, to try to win her back. You have quite a small window of opportunity though, because the longer you leave it, the more she'll believe you just want to move on without her. Otherwise, keep in mind, the reason you broke up with her. Only remember the bad points about her. This can help you get over them more quickly.
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Edited by
jhon1986
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Thu 01/03/13 08:28 AM
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thank u all .........
i want to get back her what to do ..... ..she loved me lot she only 21 years old me 28...why she did ? that is still puzzle and i am feeling cheated.she simply changed behavior and become stranger...... |
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If you really, really, REALLY want her back again, then now is better than later, to try to win her back. You have quite a small window of opportunity though, because the longer you leave it, the more she'll believe you just want to move on without her. Otherwise, keep in mind, the reason you broke up with her. Only remember the bad points about her. This can help you get over them more quickly. i like |
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If you really, really, REALLY want her back again, then now is better than later, to try to win her back. You have quite a small window of opportunity though, because the longer you leave it, the more she'll believe you just want to move on without her. Otherwise, keep in mind, the reason you broke up with her. Only remember the bad points about her. This can help you get over them more quickly. i like |
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It's hard; most people that move on quick are those that jump into another relationship and that isn't good.
I do agree with most that you just need to be social again. Get out there and meet people and have fun. Almost all of us romanticize what we had into thinking it's this magical thing and we miss it so. Many times in reality it wasn't so magical and if it was, obviously it wasn't magical to one person or you'd still be together. Just deal with the reality, remember the good times and dont' dwell and move on. |
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