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| Topic: Is it hard for a man to say No? | |
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This is interesting... I was came on to quite forwardly. For example a wife of a US Marshall where I worked pretty much said "Let's go into your apartment and have sex" in so many words... I said no... and I do not think most guys would have... on another occasssion a girl started feeling me up... very boldly... after 5 or six times I broke down.... we started ... but then stopped shortly after... on another occasssion a girl of a firend of mine came home and tore off her clothes and barged into the bathroom and invited me into bed with her shorlty after ( although it was not me that really said no.. she also did not seem quite as into it after we were in bed) and as a result no sex...
So yeah .... a demonstration of restraint and I do not think most guys would have said no clear across the board in these situations. |
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I try to be as nice and honest as possible.I want the other person to know that its not because of them but I think it just would'nt be a good fit.
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Is it hard for a man to say No? ...to a woman who is hitting on him if he really is not wanting to get involved or is not interested? I think women have a lot more experience than men at saying no. As a man, how would you say no, or would you? Would you say yes to anyone who really tempted you? no; I'm not a horny teen without a mind so if a pretty woman came up to me and I was dating someone I'd say thanks but I'm seeing someone and I'm not interested. People need to be confident adults and be honest. It's really not that hard. |
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Can I be perfectly honest with you?....  Seriously, I have experienced that when I do say "no" it not feels like I am the bad guy. The majority of women I say no to make me out to be that. Sure, it's due to hurting their feelings, but it also makes a man not want to be the "bad guy". Ugh! Decisions....decisions. Aww. The poor wittle girls don't want their tender feelings hurt. [/sarc] Seriously, are you talking about grown women? So if the Man Yells "NO Stop" in a heated postion with a woman, and she goes ahead with it anyway, what would that be then, forcing herself on him? Wonder would he mind even? |
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Edited by
msharmony
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Tue 01/01/13 01:23 PM
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I think anyone can say 'no' with their mouth
I dont think everyone has as easy time convincing their body many people have inconsistent conscious and subconscious where the brain says its not 'right' eliciting the verbal 'no' but the body says it feels right, eliciting a resounding yes through body language men, I believe, probably find it easier to detach the 'morals' from the activity I think sex is like, a treat, regardless of who its from ID rather have ice cream from an authentic ice cream parlor, but if the burger joint offers a cone with the meal,, why say no? whereas women are probably more likely to view it on a deeper level than that |
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Sometimes it is hard, but I have said no to ones who hurt me, a few were really hard tbough.
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