Topic: What do you look for in a mate? | |
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Nice smile.
Nice personality. Intelligent. Considerate. Honest. OK, a nice figure doesn't hurt either. |
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as an interesting exercise...make a written list of 100 things that you would require of someone in a very close relationship...then arrange them in order of importance..amazing how much nit picky stuff we require
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* between 35 and 48 years old
* who has a career/goals * honest * who challenges me to be better * who is self-confident * who helps me through when I am sad * who listens and actually pays attention * who looks at me with that special glare * spontaneous and fun * who notices the small stuff * who compliments me especially in front of people * who respects me * who gives me space * who is romantic (holding hands, cuddling) * who betters himself * who does not cheat/ only has eyes for me * who knows how to compromise and sacrifice for the relationship |
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I guess I'm not too picky just these requirements:
-She must in fact be a woman... I'm not sure I'd care if not for the fact i want to have children someday and I can't do that with a man-lady. -I would prefer her to be roughly my age and in good health... I have this crazy idea of giving us a better chance that if one of us dies, the other doesn't have to suffer very long before they too pass on. Other than that concern, I don't really care about age. -I MUST LIKE her... Because I just couldn't spend my whole life with a jerk. |
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WOW nurjoyce, that list says it all in my book, good job
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No laundry list of must haves, but I do have a laundry list of beware!
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Honesty & loyalty - Brains & sence of humour
Compassion - Strength (not just a physical one) Respect - Tenderness Constant Hugs of course and of course my fav, he has to give a great back rub |
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good healthy gums...and a strong back....good for throwing me some cubs...
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IF I were looking for a partner, (which I'm not, as I'm having a whole hell of a lot of fun without one these days), there are only a few qualities I'd require as absolutes MUSTS:
1) Superior intellect 2) Compassion/understanding 3) Excellent communication skills and 4) Open-mindedness Oh and I almost forgot the most important qualification of all, the ability to juggle strudel while playing Alexander's Ragtime Band on the accordion. :) |
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cute looking
great smile mature understanding respect honest open to me & for everything accept me for what i am knows how to have fun and I find it all in gunblade master |
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HUGE BOOBS..
also she must be single,honest,down to earth and a positive thinker. |
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oh.. and most importantly she must have a SENSE OF HUMOR!
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Creations Fire about said it all for me.......
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Integity. That speaks volumes.
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TRUE love, if you both really have it everything else falls into place. Think about it, you would never do anything to hurt your partner and anything you could to please them. oh ya, and she nerd, I can't juggle strudel, but are donuts close enough?
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